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Guys, are you scared of smart strong women?

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I don't mean the bitchy dominant type, just the ones that seem to have there lives somewhat under control, make decent money and seem to be able to take care of themselves?

How about one that may or may not be smarter then you? Does that make you feel threatened?

Inquiring minds want to know :)B|:P

Yes I am bored at work, and wondered.....B|
She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway."
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Gee, that's no a loaded question.

In fact, I'll buy everyone here a case of beer for every man that says yes and means it.



I know someone who actually told me this....;) a guy too.
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I don't mean the bitchy dominant type, just the ones that seem to have there lives somewhat under control, make decent money and seem to be able to take care of themselves?

How about one that may or may not be smarter then you? Does that make you feel threatened?

Inquiring minds want to know :)B|:P

Yes I am bored at work, and wondered.....B|



Love em. One of my ex's is finishing up med school at Northwestern, and another ex is an aerospace engineer. Smart girls who have good social skills are excellent.

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This reminds me.
True story.

4 years back... a friend of mine and I were in New Orleans on the Quarter.... Two girls having fun. Now, Tanja and I are a bit... competitive, so when she set the challenge about who could attract more guys, it was all game on. So during this, I forget what the actual end point of the study was, but it entailed knowing more about the guy than just that he wanted a "sport fuck"... so we actually had to talk with the guys and try the "get to know each other thing". ANYTIME I mentioned my occupation.... *poof* GONE! But, if I said waitress or work in a library.... I could continue talking and mark that down as one for the good team.

(now there was the one genetic engineer type who didn't run at the mere mention of an intellegent female.... but since we were just discussing prenatal diagnosis and research implications.... Tanja knocked that off the list cuz we were being too "geeky")

Overall though, I would like to hear the guys side of this story.

Karen

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While I wouldn't say I'm scared of them, I do realize that if she's considerably more "successful" than I am, then I'm not going to be very attractive to her. How many smart strong women are looking for a charity case to take care of? My odds are much better with ladies who are close to my equals, careerwise, financially, etc.

Matt

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That's an example of guys looking for a sport fuck. They ran because men who are looking for a sport fuck know that smart women are *gasp* too smart for that.

You can't judge the average man's average mindset by how drunk men in the French Quarter act.

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Since I was dared....

My comment was - you need to attend Grad School to find a guy who is not intimidated by women who are on the left hand of the IQ bell curve - to which was the response, "I don't have my undergrad".

So - get one online ;)

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How many smart strong women are looking for a charity case to take care of?



But why would you think that way? There is so much more to chemistry than just who has the highest education or earns the most money. and who's to say what is more "successful"? If you're happy at life and enjoying it.... that seems pretty successful to me.

Karen

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From personal observation I've found the guys who feel most intimidated are usually not University educated,

Have a look at the crowds in certain major city clubs and bars. people tend to gather with others of similar intelect. I worked construction in the city for a few years and went to very ritzy looking bars after work, he maajority of the patrons were lawyers and managment types, most of the people tended to shy waya from the "workers" not because of dirty work clothes (we showered and changed before leaving work).
Also many of the women changed they way the responded when they found out how much money we made (ALOT more then many of the men there)
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How many smart strong women are looking for a charity case to take care of?



But why would you think that way? There is so much more to chemistry than just who has the highest education or earns the most money. and who's to say what is more "successful"? If you're happy at life and enjoying it.... that seems pretty successful to me.

Karen



Exactly!!!!! that is it right there.
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Brains == better in bed ;)



R U sure of that ;) I dont know if I can find an exact correlation with guys and brains being good in bed.

Need a study...:D
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eeneR
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I am not only not scared of you but I have been waiting for you!! Challenge me. Make me think. I will do the same to you. Not in a mean or evil way but in a way that is so stimulating that the conversation itself leads from the couch to the bedroom without missing a beat.. and in there it is the same challenge, but with love and life that is so intertwined that the lines blurr.

challenge and be challenged. Love and be loved. Dont ever settle. ... so where are you?

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How many smart strong women are looking for a charity case to take care of?



But why would you think that way? There is so much more to chemistry than just who has the highest education or earns the most money. and who's to say what is more "successful"? If you're happy at life and enjoying it.... that seems pretty successful to me.

Karen



Exactly!!!!! that is it right there.




My attitude was formed by dating and loving one of these smart strong women, I freely admit smarter than me in many ways. Just as I was seriously considering proposing to her, she decided to dump me, and said one of the biggest reasons was my lack of "ambition" amd "money sense." >:(

Kinda left a bad taste in my mouth.

Matt

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so are you saying that you're a genetic engineer... now that's just hot right there...

of course I keep getting these friend requests on myspace from the "proverbial" waitress types... they're always 21 and found something interesting in my profile...

I'm not sure what... there's not much exciting stuff in my profile... :D
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Need a study...:D

I get the impression that its more critical to really *listen* to the needs of their partner... of course I don't actually *know* this...

but if you're lacking in canidates... count me in... :$:D
Livin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife...

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I don't mean the bitchy dominant type, just the ones that seem to have there lives somewhat under control, make decent money and seem to be able to take care of themselves?

How about one that may or may not be smarter then you? Does that make you feel threatened?

Inquiring minds want to know :)B|:P

Yes I am bored at work, and wondered.....B|



I've always had a strong preference for intelligent women. I don't feel threatened at all by dating a woman who is smarter or makes more money.

Walt

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I am not only not scared of you but I have been waiting for you!! Challenge me. Make me think. I will do the same to you. Not in a mean or evil way but in a way that is so stimulating that the conversation itself leads from the couch to the bedroom without missing a beat.. and in there it is the same challenge, but with love and life that is so intertwined that the lines blurr.

challenge and be challenged. Love and be loved. Dont ever settle. ... so where are you?



:o nioce....:D
She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway."
eeneR
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