turtlespeed 226 #26 July 6, 2006 Quote She's just intelligence-challenged. Smart-deprived. Maturity-retarded. It isn't her fault; they should have a foundation for nimrods like her... Wait . . . this person sounds really familiar - do I know her?I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NewGuy2005 53 #27 July 6, 2006 Just because you are related to her doesn't mean you have to have contact with her. If your breakoff with her upsets other members of the family, break off contact with them as well, regardless of who they are. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JENNR8R 0 #28 July 6, 2006 What do you call a beautiful, sunny day that comes after two cloudy, rainy ones? -- Monday. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
selbbub78 0 #29 July 6, 2006 QuoteShit, you need a script to keep all those players straight!!!! It's never ok to date someone who is currently in a relationship whether married or not. End of story. Walt I concur!!!!!! CReW Skies,"Women fake orgasms - men fake whole relationships" – Sharon Stone "The world is my dropzone" (wise crewdog quote) "The light dims, until full darkness pierces into the world."-KDM Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
billvon 3,080 #30 July 6, 2006 >Cause every time is like a 3 way or more. 3 ways are one of those things (like working from home) that sound really good, but are a little more complicated in practice. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ACMESkydiver 0 #31 July 6, 2006 QuoteQuote She's just intelligence-challenged. Smart-deprived. Maturity-retarded. It isn't her fault; they should have a foundation for nimrods like her... Wait . . . this person sounds really familiar - do I know her? No, you've never met....but she's prolly within 100 miles of you right now. Need some poon-tang? It'll be recently used though...oh, and you might get the blame and be stuck with the title 'baby-daddy #4'. ~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #32 July 6, 2006 QuoteQuoteQuote She's just intelligence-challenged. Smart-deprived. Maturity-retarded. It isn't her fault; they should have a foundation for nimrods like her... Wait . . . this person sounds really familiar - do I know her? No, you've never met....but she's prolly within 100 miles of you right now. Need some poon-tang? It'll be recently used though...oh, and you might get the blame and be stuck with the title 'baby-daddy #4'. 100 miles - I can do that - She can try to blame me if she wants.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ACMESkydiver 0 #33 July 6, 2006 Quote Just because you are related to her doesn't mean you have to have contact with her. If your breakoff with her upsets other members of the family, break off contact with them as well, regardless of who they are. -I didn't say I was related! I tried VERY HARD not to say that we were related, just that she is some chick that I have known for better than 10 years...and that I've paid for her car payments...and that I would be a complete moron to WANT to hang out with this person if there was no other compelling reason to require contact like holidays... Yeah, we might be related...but at LEAST it isn't a BLOOD relative! I have no problem telling that twisted faction of familial acquaintance to piss off now and then. ~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ACMESkydiver 0 #34 July 6, 2006 If you do bang her, try to get the nearly $700 she just fuckin' stiffed me for with a rubber check right before she left. Now she isn't answering her cell phone...hmm. I guess cell phone coverage is just so poor there in the southern states. ~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zipp0 1 #35 July 6, 2006 Jer-ry! Jer-ry! Jer-ry! -------------------------- Chuck Norris doesn't do push-ups, he pushes the Earth down. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #36 July 6, 2006 Damn.............the issues people create in their lives never cease to amaze me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jeremy556 0 #37 July 6, 2006 QuoteQuote -I didn't say I was related! I tried VERY HARD not to say that we were related, just that she is some chick that I have known for better than 10 years...and that I've paid for her car payments...and that I would be a complete moron to WANT to hang out with this person if there was no other compelling reason to require contact like holidays... Yeah, we might be related...but at LEAST it isn't a BLOOD relative! I have no problem telling that twisted faction of familial acquaintance to piss off now and then. So why the need for a post here, and why do you have any contact with this POS? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites DJL 235 #38 July 6, 2006 Is there a connection to Kevin Bacon somewhere in there? I'm stumped."I encourage all awesome dangerous behavior." - Jeffro Fincher Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Rebecca 0 #39 July 6, 2006 Lock her up and don't let her out until she understands and can apply the concepts of self-esteem and self-worth. Then and only then will she stop doing stupid shit that hurts every single person she comes into contact with, including herself. you've got to ask yourself one question: 'Do I feel loquacious?' -- well do you, punk? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites kefran 0 #40 July 6, 2006 it's really amazing how some people are talented to put themselves in very hugly situations, always claiming this is not their fault !!! at least the story made me laugh a lot !!! sounds like a cool Hollywood new comedy :) if only it wasn't for real anyway to answer you : no ! in no way it is correct to date a married person whatever happened between you and this person before she get married. end of story. when an ex tried to date my wife i was simply getting mad and i guess he perfectly understood the message as he quickly forgot our phone number hehehe-------------------------------------------------- I never used 2 rocks to start a fire ... this is called evolution ! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites NewGuy2005 53 #41 July 6, 2006 QuoteQuoteQuote -I didn't say I was related! I tried VERY HARD not to say that we were related, just that she is some chick that I have known for better than 10 years...and that I've paid for her car payments...and that I would be a complete moron to WANT to hang out with this person if there was no other compelling reason to require contact like holidays... Yeah, we might be related...but at LEAST it isn't a BLOOD relative! I have no problem telling that twisted faction of familial acquaintance to piss off now and then. So why the need for a post here, and why do you have any contact with this POS? OK, now it's your turn: What were you thinking, leaving your kids with this lunatic?? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites meistwer 0 #42 July 6, 2006 Quote Dude she is NEVER lacking in drama. If her life isn't dramatic enough, she MAKES it dramatic. Some people love to make their lives complicated... Neway...the reading of this story made the last 30 minutes of work go really quickly...here you go, something positve came out of it Btw, tomorrow I'm getting the ferry and I'm off to France for the weekend to jump...aint that cool!!! I'm so happy about it that I needed to say it Blue ones Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Icon134 0 #43 July 6, 2006 That story was very hard to follow... and I don't think its right to see someone when they are in another relationship... be it having a boyfriend, A husband, etc... ScottLivin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ACMESkydiver 0 #44 July 6, 2006 QuoteSo why the need for a post here, and why do you have any contact with this POS? I need to 'vent my angst', just like the forum description says. The whole contact thing...ugh. I don't want to lose connection with her kids, I am their aunt, and I may need to fulfill a positive female role in their lives (as much as I can be, y'know? I am no wonder-woman, but maybe they'll see that women don't HAVE to behave that badly to be validated). I already don't spend much time with them at all. They will need a woman to talk to especially in their teen years if momma doesn't get her act together. I don't want them to feel alienated because of their psycho momma. They are already in psychological counseling. ~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Zipp0 1 #45 July 6, 2006 QuoteQuoteSo why the need for a post here, and why do you have any contact with this POS? I need to 'vent my angst', just like the forum description says. The whole contact thing...ugh. I don't want to lose connection with her kids, I am their aunt, and I may need to fulfill a positive female role in their lives (as much as I can be, y'know? I am no wonder-woman, but maybe they'll see that women don't HAVE to behave that badly to be validated). I already don't spend much time with them at all. They will need a woman to talk to especially in their teen years if momma doesn't get her act together. I don't want them to feel alienated because of their psycho momma. They are already in psychological counseling. I have a very bad feeling that those kids are doomed. Kudos for doing what you can to prevent that from happening. -------------------------- Chuck Norris doesn't do push-ups, he pushes the Earth down. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites JENNR8R 0 #46 July 6, 2006 I have a very bad feeling that those kids are doomed. Kudos for doing what you can to prevent that from happening. Quote Not necessarily... children growing up in worse craziness than that turn out to be decent human beings. It's always a good thing having a caring adult in their lives...What do you call a beautiful, sunny day that comes after two cloudy, rainy ones? -- Monday. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Jaden 0 #47 July 6, 2006 QuoteGenerally, if the ink is dry on the paperwork. There are circumstances that make things different (amicable divorces where one spouse is staying married for protection, like insurance, of the other for a set time). I've both been in and known people in such a situation. While I didn't date, it was perfectly OK with me that my STBX did; we didn't have that kind of relationship any more. But what Walt said is about right; generally if there is a relationship, legal or otherwise, then nope. The determining factor is "can you introduce the other person to your former relationship-partner?" Not necessarily amicably, but, well, without risking legal action. I agree...There are circumstances dependant on the situation or relationship agreement. Jaye, I think you are doing a great thing hanging in there & dealing with her bullshit. Those kids need a positive role model. They could never build any self-esteem with a mother like that. They are lucky to have you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ACMESkydiver 0 #48 July 6, 2006 Quote OK, now it's your turn: What were you thinking, leaving your kids with this lunatic?? That's a fair question. We didn't know about the horrendous lies and stories that she was fabricating until just recently (one of those 'She told you WHAT?!' moments with mutual friends ). Prior to this whole divulgence of these ludacris stories, her attention-whore antics were just a little embarrassing and somewhat annoying; nothing you would be 'afraid' to have your kids around. Just kind of like a loud-mouthed uncle or aunt or something that are just very into attention... The more in-depth conversations we had with our friends that know her, the more we found out about these twisted and sick lies that she's told them over the years. We were just flat-out shocked. I found out last night about the whole men sleeping in her bed with our daughter in the house thing. That was it. No more. I don't want our little girl to see her lies and throwing herself at men and think in any way that we approve of it or want our duaghter to emulate that BS. That's why. It's over as of last night. -Now I am very afraid to ask my daughter if there's anything that she was told not to tell us. She is with my best friend right now, and my best friend has been asking her questions to see if there have been 'don't tell mommy' moments. That's when she told her about the men sleeping in Aunt Jessica's bed. Gawd my stomach just turned. If anything worse than some bad language and inappropriate discuassion happened to my little girl, there will be HELL to pay.~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Elisha 1 #49 July 6, 2006 QuoteMy brain hurts Me too. I'm just answering the poll and thats it. Girl (and maybe guy too) sound like bad news anyway you take it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Zipp0 1 #50 July 6, 2006 QuoteI have a very bad feeling that those kids are doomed. Kudos for doing what you can to prevent that from happening. Quote Not necessarily... children growing up in worse craziness than that turn out to be decent human beings. It's always a good thing having a caring adult in their lives... Absolutely. But the odds of them being well adjusted teens/young adults go down quite a bit when faced with such behavior by their mother. And hell, my family was normal, and look how I turned out...... So, there's always hope. -------------------------- Chuck Norris doesn't do push-ups, he pushes the Earth down. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 3 Next Page 2 of 3 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0 Go To Topic Listing
DJL 235 #38 July 6, 2006 Is there a connection to Kevin Bacon somewhere in there? I'm stumped."I encourage all awesome dangerous behavior." - Jeffro Fincher Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rebecca 0 #39 July 6, 2006 Lock her up and don't let her out until she understands and can apply the concepts of self-esteem and self-worth. Then and only then will she stop doing stupid shit that hurts every single person she comes into contact with, including herself. you've got to ask yourself one question: 'Do I feel loquacious?' -- well do you, punk? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kefran 0 #40 July 6, 2006 it's really amazing how some people are talented to put themselves in very hugly situations, always claiming this is not their fault !!! at least the story made me laugh a lot !!! sounds like a cool Hollywood new comedy :) if only it wasn't for real anyway to answer you : no ! in no way it is correct to date a married person whatever happened between you and this person before she get married. end of story. when an ex tried to date my wife i was simply getting mad and i guess he perfectly understood the message as he quickly forgot our phone number hehehe-------------------------------------------------- I never used 2 rocks to start a fire ... this is called evolution ! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NewGuy2005 53 #41 July 6, 2006 QuoteQuoteQuote -I didn't say I was related! I tried VERY HARD not to say that we were related, just that she is some chick that I have known for better than 10 years...and that I've paid for her car payments...and that I would be a complete moron to WANT to hang out with this person if there was no other compelling reason to require contact like holidays... Yeah, we might be related...but at LEAST it isn't a BLOOD relative! I have no problem telling that twisted faction of familial acquaintance to piss off now and then. So why the need for a post here, and why do you have any contact with this POS? OK, now it's your turn: What were you thinking, leaving your kids with this lunatic?? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites meistwer 0 #42 July 6, 2006 Quote Dude she is NEVER lacking in drama. If her life isn't dramatic enough, she MAKES it dramatic. Some people love to make their lives complicated... Neway...the reading of this story made the last 30 minutes of work go really quickly...here you go, something positve came out of it Btw, tomorrow I'm getting the ferry and I'm off to France for the weekend to jump...aint that cool!!! I'm so happy about it that I needed to say it Blue ones Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Icon134 0 #43 July 6, 2006 That story was very hard to follow... and I don't think its right to see someone when they are in another relationship... be it having a boyfriend, A husband, etc... ScottLivin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ACMESkydiver 0 #44 July 6, 2006 QuoteSo why the need for a post here, and why do you have any contact with this POS? I need to 'vent my angst', just like the forum description says. The whole contact thing...ugh. I don't want to lose connection with her kids, I am their aunt, and I may need to fulfill a positive female role in their lives (as much as I can be, y'know? I am no wonder-woman, but maybe they'll see that women don't HAVE to behave that badly to be validated). I already don't spend much time with them at all. They will need a woman to talk to especially in their teen years if momma doesn't get her act together. I don't want them to feel alienated because of their psycho momma. They are already in psychological counseling. ~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Zipp0 1 #45 July 6, 2006 QuoteQuoteSo why the need for a post here, and why do you have any contact with this POS? I need to 'vent my angst', just like the forum description says. The whole contact thing...ugh. I don't want to lose connection with her kids, I am their aunt, and I may need to fulfill a positive female role in their lives (as much as I can be, y'know? I am no wonder-woman, but maybe they'll see that women don't HAVE to behave that badly to be validated). I already don't spend much time with them at all. They will need a woman to talk to especially in their teen years if momma doesn't get her act together. I don't want them to feel alienated because of their psycho momma. They are already in psychological counseling. I have a very bad feeling that those kids are doomed. Kudos for doing what you can to prevent that from happening. -------------------------- Chuck Norris doesn't do push-ups, he pushes the Earth down. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites JENNR8R 0 #46 July 6, 2006 I have a very bad feeling that those kids are doomed. Kudos for doing what you can to prevent that from happening. Quote Not necessarily... children growing up in worse craziness than that turn out to be decent human beings. It's always a good thing having a caring adult in their lives...What do you call a beautiful, sunny day that comes after two cloudy, rainy ones? -- Monday. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Jaden 0 #47 July 6, 2006 QuoteGenerally, if the ink is dry on the paperwork. There are circumstances that make things different (amicable divorces where one spouse is staying married for protection, like insurance, of the other for a set time). I've both been in and known people in such a situation. While I didn't date, it was perfectly OK with me that my STBX did; we didn't have that kind of relationship any more. But what Walt said is about right; generally if there is a relationship, legal or otherwise, then nope. The determining factor is "can you introduce the other person to your former relationship-partner?" Not necessarily amicably, but, well, without risking legal action. I agree...There are circumstances dependant on the situation or relationship agreement. Jaye, I think you are doing a great thing hanging in there & dealing with her bullshit. Those kids need a positive role model. They could never build any self-esteem with a mother like that. They are lucky to have you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ACMESkydiver 0 #48 July 6, 2006 Quote OK, now it's your turn: What were you thinking, leaving your kids with this lunatic?? That's a fair question. We didn't know about the horrendous lies and stories that she was fabricating until just recently (one of those 'She told you WHAT?!' moments with mutual friends ). Prior to this whole divulgence of these ludacris stories, her attention-whore antics were just a little embarrassing and somewhat annoying; nothing you would be 'afraid' to have your kids around. Just kind of like a loud-mouthed uncle or aunt or something that are just very into attention... The more in-depth conversations we had with our friends that know her, the more we found out about these twisted and sick lies that she's told them over the years. We were just flat-out shocked. I found out last night about the whole men sleeping in her bed with our daughter in the house thing. That was it. No more. I don't want our little girl to see her lies and throwing herself at men and think in any way that we approve of it or want our duaghter to emulate that BS. That's why. It's over as of last night. -Now I am very afraid to ask my daughter if there's anything that she was told not to tell us. She is with my best friend right now, and my best friend has been asking her questions to see if there have been 'don't tell mommy' moments. That's when she told her about the men sleeping in Aunt Jessica's bed. Gawd my stomach just turned. If anything worse than some bad language and inappropriate discuassion happened to my little girl, there will be HELL to pay.~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Elisha 1 #49 July 6, 2006 QuoteMy brain hurts Me too. I'm just answering the poll and thats it. Girl (and maybe guy too) sound like bad news anyway you take it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Zipp0 1 #50 July 6, 2006 QuoteI have a very bad feeling that those kids are doomed. Kudos for doing what you can to prevent that from happening. Quote Not necessarily... children growing up in worse craziness than that turn out to be decent human beings. It's always a good thing having a caring adult in their lives... Absolutely. But the odds of them being well adjusted teens/young adults go down quite a bit when faced with such behavior by their mother. And hell, my family was normal, and look how I turned out...... So, there's always hope. -------------------------- Chuck Norris doesn't do push-ups, he pushes the Earth down. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 3 Next Page 2 of 3 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0 Go To Topic Listing
meistwer 0 #42 July 6, 2006 Quote Dude she is NEVER lacking in drama. If her life isn't dramatic enough, she MAKES it dramatic. Some people love to make their lives complicated... Neway...the reading of this story made the last 30 minutes of work go really quickly...here you go, something positve came out of it Btw, tomorrow I'm getting the ferry and I'm off to France for the weekend to jump...aint that cool!!! I'm so happy about it that I needed to say it Blue ones Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Icon134 0 #43 July 6, 2006 That story was very hard to follow... and I don't think its right to see someone when they are in another relationship... be it having a boyfriend, A husband, etc... ScottLivin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ACMESkydiver 0 #44 July 6, 2006 QuoteSo why the need for a post here, and why do you have any contact with this POS? I need to 'vent my angst', just like the forum description says. The whole contact thing...ugh. I don't want to lose connection with her kids, I am their aunt, and I may need to fulfill a positive female role in their lives (as much as I can be, y'know? I am no wonder-woman, but maybe they'll see that women don't HAVE to behave that badly to be validated). I already don't spend much time with them at all. They will need a woman to talk to especially in their teen years if momma doesn't get her act together. I don't want them to feel alienated because of their psycho momma. They are already in psychological counseling. ~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zipp0 1 #45 July 6, 2006 QuoteQuoteSo why the need for a post here, and why do you have any contact with this POS? I need to 'vent my angst', just like the forum description says. The whole contact thing...ugh. I don't want to lose connection with her kids, I am their aunt, and I may need to fulfill a positive female role in their lives (as much as I can be, y'know? I am no wonder-woman, but maybe they'll see that women don't HAVE to behave that badly to be validated). I already don't spend much time with them at all. They will need a woman to talk to especially in their teen years if momma doesn't get her act together. I don't want them to feel alienated because of their psycho momma. They are already in psychological counseling. I have a very bad feeling that those kids are doomed. Kudos for doing what you can to prevent that from happening. -------------------------- Chuck Norris doesn't do push-ups, he pushes the Earth down. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JENNR8R 0 #46 July 6, 2006 I have a very bad feeling that those kids are doomed. Kudos for doing what you can to prevent that from happening. Quote Not necessarily... children growing up in worse craziness than that turn out to be decent human beings. It's always a good thing having a caring adult in their lives...What do you call a beautiful, sunny day that comes after two cloudy, rainy ones? -- Monday. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Jaden 0 #47 July 6, 2006 QuoteGenerally, if the ink is dry on the paperwork. There are circumstances that make things different (amicable divorces where one spouse is staying married for protection, like insurance, of the other for a set time). I've both been in and known people in such a situation. While I didn't date, it was perfectly OK with me that my STBX did; we didn't have that kind of relationship any more. But what Walt said is about right; generally if there is a relationship, legal or otherwise, then nope. The determining factor is "can you introduce the other person to your former relationship-partner?" Not necessarily amicably, but, well, without risking legal action. I agree...There are circumstances dependant on the situation or relationship agreement. Jaye, I think you are doing a great thing hanging in there & dealing with her bullshit. Those kids need a positive role model. They could never build any self-esteem with a mother like that. They are lucky to have you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ACMESkydiver 0 #48 July 6, 2006 Quote OK, now it's your turn: What were you thinking, leaving your kids with this lunatic?? That's a fair question. We didn't know about the horrendous lies and stories that she was fabricating until just recently (one of those 'She told you WHAT?!' moments with mutual friends ). Prior to this whole divulgence of these ludacris stories, her attention-whore antics were just a little embarrassing and somewhat annoying; nothing you would be 'afraid' to have your kids around. Just kind of like a loud-mouthed uncle or aunt or something that are just very into attention... The more in-depth conversations we had with our friends that know her, the more we found out about these twisted and sick lies that she's told them over the years. We were just flat-out shocked. I found out last night about the whole men sleeping in her bed with our daughter in the house thing. That was it. No more. I don't want our little girl to see her lies and throwing herself at men and think in any way that we approve of it or want our duaghter to emulate that BS. That's why. It's over as of last night. -Now I am very afraid to ask my daughter if there's anything that she was told not to tell us. She is with my best friend right now, and my best friend has been asking her questions to see if there have been 'don't tell mommy' moments. That's when she told her about the men sleeping in Aunt Jessica's bed. Gawd my stomach just turned. If anything worse than some bad language and inappropriate discuassion happened to my little girl, there will be HELL to pay.~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Elisha 1 #49 July 6, 2006 QuoteMy brain hurts Me too. I'm just answering the poll and thats it. Girl (and maybe guy too) sound like bad news anyway you take it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Zipp0 1 #50 July 6, 2006 QuoteI have a very bad feeling that those kids are doomed. Kudos for doing what you can to prevent that from happening. Quote Not necessarily... children growing up in worse craziness than that turn out to be decent human beings. It's always a good thing having a caring adult in their lives... Absolutely. But the odds of them being well adjusted teens/young adults go down quite a bit when faced with such behavior by their mother. And hell, my family was normal, and look how I turned out...... So, there's always hope. -------------------------- Chuck Norris doesn't do push-ups, he pushes the Earth down. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 3 Next Page 2 of 3 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0 Go To Topic Listing
Jaden 0 #47 July 6, 2006 QuoteGenerally, if the ink is dry on the paperwork. There are circumstances that make things different (amicable divorces where one spouse is staying married for protection, like insurance, of the other for a set time). I've both been in and known people in such a situation. While I didn't date, it was perfectly OK with me that my STBX did; we didn't have that kind of relationship any more. But what Walt said is about right; generally if there is a relationship, legal or otherwise, then nope. The determining factor is "can you introduce the other person to your former relationship-partner?" Not necessarily amicably, but, well, without risking legal action. I agree...There are circumstances dependant on the situation or relationship agreement. Jaye, I think you are doing a great thing hanging in there & dealing with her bullshit. Those kids need a positive role model. They could never build any self-esteem with a mother like that. They are lucky to have you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ACMESkydiver 0 #48 July 6, 2006 Quote OK, now it's your turn: What were you thinking, leaving your kids with this lunatic?? That's a fair question. We didn't know about the horrendous lies and stories that she was fabricating until just recently (one of those 'She told you WHAT?!' moments with mutual friends ). Prior to this whole divulgence of these ludacris stories, her attention-whore antics were just a little embarrassing and somewhat annoying; nothing you would be 'afraid' to have your kids around. Just kind of like a loud-mouthed uncle or aunt or something that are just very into attention... The more in-depth conversations we had with our friends that know her, the more we found out about these twisted and sick lies that she's told them over the years. We were just flat-out shocked. I found out last night about the whole men sleeping in her bed with our daughter in the house thing. That was it. No more. I don't want our little girl to see her lies and throwing herself at men and think in any way that we approve of it or want our duaghter to emulate that BS. That's why. It's over as of last night. -Now I am very afraid to ask my daughter if there's anything that she was told not to tell us. She is with my best friend right now, and my best friend has been asking her questions to see if there have been 'don't tell mommy' moments. That's when she told her about the men sleeping in Aunt Jessica's bed. Gawd my stomach just turned. If anything worse than some bad language and inappropriate discuassion happened to my little girl, there will be HELL to pay.~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Elisha 1 #49 July 6, 2006 QuoteMy brain hurts Me too. I'm just answering the poll and thats it. Girl (and maybe guy too) sound like bad news anyway you take it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zipp0 1 #50 July 6, 2006 QuoteI have a very bad feeling that those kids are doomed. Kudos for doing what you can to prevent that from happening. Quote Not necessarily... children growing up in worse craziness than that turn out to be decent human beings. It's always a good thing having a caring adult in their lives... Absolutely. But the odds of them being well adjusted teens/young adults go down quite a bit when faced with such behavior by their mother. And hell, my family was normal, and look how I turned out...... So, there's always hope. -------------------------- Chuck Norris doesn't do push-ups, he pushes the Earth down. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 3 Next Page 2 of 3 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0
