ACMESkydiver 0 #1 July 6, 2006 Just . Anyhoo, this person who will remain nameless to protect the fucking idiotic, whines to me about how her boyfriend's wife is getting in the way of their relationship. No fucking joke. This guy, we'll call him 'John'. The girl, we'll call her 'Jessica'. John is Jessica's 2nd baby-daddy. The first baby-daddy was a one night stand (she says rape, ok sure...that's why she needed 'help' figuring out who that baby-daddy was going to be). The first one was aborted, so no baby, no contact with the 1 night stand. 2nd baby-daddy and her are in school together. She leaves him and has the baby and severs contact. A few months later, she is pregnant by another guy, who says he'll marry her. Baby-daddy #3 marries her, they end up splitting after 2 months. The divorce is long and messy of course because of the kids, and Jessica moves out of state and starts dating other guys (She has the 2 babies calling one of them 'daddy'. Ok, we're at daddy count of 4). Now baby-daddy #2 (that's John, remember) calls my house 2 months ago looking for Jessica, after no contact for about 9 years. He says he's married and has 2 sons, one is 1 year old, one is 4 months old. We say we'll see if we can give his info to her, but don't count on it (remember bad divorce #1? Yeah, that cost us -the whole damn family- thousands of dollars and sleeping with a loaded gun in the closet because baby-daddy #3 had a temper and Jessica gave him OUR home address for contact info. Nice.) A few weeks ago, Jessica says she is dating John (keep up with me here, he's baby-daddy #2 still that also has 2 other kids). My first question: "He said he was married two months ago." "He's divorced....well, they're separated." She goes on to tell me how hideous his wife is supposedly, and that she is >gasp< a compulsive liar!!! (<--holy shit is THAT the worst case of pot & kettle I have EVER heard of!! ) This 'horrible' woman was in the background when Jessica was trying to talk to her sweetie-poo on the phone, and she interrupted with some yelling about she didn't want John to be with their kids if Jessica or her kids were around. "That's just so immature!" Jessica whines to me, "How could she be so mean towards my children?" "I don't think it's directed towards the kids. She's mad at you," I reply (do I fucking honestly have to tell her this?!) "I haven't done anything to that woman! What's she got against me?" she whines back. "Maybe because you're dating her husband. That pisses some wives off. And you know, she is probably pretty hormonal from breast-feeding. " -I wait for the sentence to sink in. It doesn't. I have to listen to more "I love him I love him I love him and I'll do whatever I want to do! I don't care what anyone says!" (Now I'm CERTAIN that there would have been a foot-stomp and 3 year-old pouty lip at this point had we not been in a car barreling down the highway at 80 mph). PS...I am fully expecting another pregnancy any SECOND. She hauled the kids down south (he lives a few states away, where baby-daddy #3 lives, so baby-daddy #3 has visitation of kid #2, Jessica brought kid #1 to spend 2 weeks with baby-daddy #2. When baby-daddy #2 came up to visit and meet his kid, he was straight outta the airport and straight into Jessica's bed. -Why do I care? I wouldn't, except for the fact that she was babysitting MY DAUGHTER that night who had to witness aunt Jessica jumping in bed with another guy -this one married. My kids are never staying with 'Aunt Jessica' again; I have unfortunately found out that Aunt Jessica has never been very quiet about bringing 'friends' home and they sleep in her bed while my daughter and her two kids are having a little sleepover. And all this is only one reason my kids will never be alone with this woman again. Ok, other than fucking retard Jessica, do people think dating a married person is ok? If you 'love' them, and they just 'love' you so much, why not wait until the fucking ink is dry on the papers???~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ThunderCat 0 #2 July 6, 2006 When there dead, in the morgue or burried. Then there shouldn't really be a problem. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ACMESkydiver 0 #4 July 6, 2006 QuoteMy brain hurts You're tellin' me. ~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waltappel 1 #5 July 6, 2006 Shit, you need a script to keep all those players straight!!!! It's never ok to date someone who is currently in a relationship whether married or not. End of story. Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bch7773 0 #6 July 6, 2006 to be honest I got about halfway through that and I gave up. MB 3528, RB 1182 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bbarnhouse 0 #7 July 6, 2006 I am so confused Even so...it isn't OK. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bolas 5 #8 July 6, 2006 The correct answer in that situation is: Run away screaming as fast as you can from all of them. Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ACMESkydiver 0 #9 July 6, 2006 QuoteIt's never ok to date someone who is currently in a relationship whether married or not. End of story. Yeah, that makes sense. I should have had relationship in there...but marriage, I mean c'mon. They're freaking married. How could you NOT feel like the 'other woman'. -Reminds me of that scene in 'Liar, Liar' when Jim Carrey says "Well goodbye! Have fun with my wife!" (waving) ~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #10 July 6, 2006 Jaye - are we lacking in the drama department today?I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ACMESkydiver 0 #11 July 6, 2006 Quoteto be honest I got about halfway through that and I gave up. Do you have ANY idea how much I would pay to be able to say that about the past 10 years with this chick???? She's just intelligence-challenged. Smart-deprived. Maturity-retarded. It isn't her fault; they should have a foundation for nimrods like her...~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waltappel 1 #12 July 6, 2006 QuoteSounds like your friend doesn't have a lot of interest in getting into a relationship that has any kind of stability to it. Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ACMESkydiver 0 #13 July 6, 2006 QuoteJaye - are we lacking in the drama department today? Dude she is NEVER lacking in drama. If her life isn't dramatic enough, she MAKES it dramatic. She made up a story about her ex (baby-daddy #3) trying to kill her and her kids by cutting the brake lines in her SUV. It crashed, and that's why the SUV is gone. The truth is the finance company reposessed that fucker because after I made $1750 of payments FOR HER because she couldn't, she just let them have it back. I guess that wouldn't grab any pity, so hence the attempted murder story. She's a psycho, and everyone knows it. I guess it's kinda fun playing 'guess what psycho is gonna say today', but damn it does get old. ~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Slappie 9 #14 July 6, 2006 Cliff notes? "Find out just what any people will quietly submit to and you have found out the exact measure of injustice and wrong which will be imposed upon them." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites wmw999 2,589 #15 July 6, 2006 Can we take up a collection to buy her a free sterilization? Please? Wendy W.There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Thanatos340 1 #16 July 6, 2006 It only took me 37 years to figure this out.. But I think I really do have this all worked now... Are you ready?? Here it is.. The secret to a Happy life.. Psycho Chicks = Bad.. Run Away!! (Same rule applies to Psycho Men of which there are almost as many) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ACMESkydiver 0 #17 July 6, 2006 QuoteCan we take up a collection to buy her a free sterilization? Please? Wendy W. THANK YOU Wendy for a full, throaty laugh from my cold-ravaged throat! ~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Conundrum 1 #18 July 6, 2006 When they are seperated and no linger living together. If it's anytime before that (assuming that the relationship is not "open" for arguments sake) the new gf/bf is just as scummy as the husband/wife who is dating someone on the side. I will never understand the behavior of some people. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ACMESkydiver 0 #19 July 6, 2006 QuoteCliff notes? Short version: chick has gotten preggos by 3 different guys, babies from 2 of them. Suddenly gets in contact with one daddy after no contact for 9 years; he's married with LITTLE babies of his own. Chick somehow is now DATING him after contact less than 2 months ago, and is mad because his wife is pissed at her for it. Chick SAYS daddy and his wife are divorced -oh wiat, -separating- but they still live together? -oh hold up... That's as short as I can get it for ya. ~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites wmw999 2,589 #20 July 6, 2006 Generally, if the ink is dry on the paperwork. There are circumstances that make things different (amicable divorces where one spouse is staying married for protection, like insurance, of the other for a set time). I've both been in and known people in such a situation. While I didn't date, it was perfectly OK with me that my STBX did; we didn't have that kind of relationship any more. But what Walt said is about right; generally if there is a relationship, legal or otherwise, then nope. The determining factor is "can you introduce the other person to your former relationship-partner?" Not necessarily amicably, but, well, without risking legal action. Wendy W.There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites JENNR8R 0 #21 July 6, 2006 She's a psycho, and everyone knows it. I guess it's kinda fun playing 'guess what psycho is gonna say today', but damn it does get old. Quote I've noticed that women like that are never lacking for men to take them to bed. They must be really talented to be worth that much trouble.What do you call a beautiful, sunny day that comes after two cloudy, rainy ones? -- Monday. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites waltappel 1 #22 July 6, 2006 QuoteI will never understand the behavior of some people. There are single guys who wear wedding rings when they go out to bars because it makes it easier for them to pick up women. Wouldn't surprise me if some single women do that too. Some people want sex with little or no chance of personal involvement and dating married people is an effective way of doing that. It's wrong, but I understand the reasoning. Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Lindercles 0 #23 July 6, 2006 At this point, do you really believe her when she says she's dating him? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites waltappel 1 #24 July 6, 2006 QuoteI've noticed that women like that are never lacking for men to take them to bed. They must be really talented to be worth that much trouble. Not necessarily--some of us guys are just as screwed up they are. Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Thanatos340 1 #25 July 6, 2006 QuoteThey must be really talented to be worth that much trouble. Psycho Chicks are always the best in bed.. Especially the ones with multiple personalities... Cause every time is like a 3 way or more. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 3 Next Page 1 of 3 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0 Go To Topic Listing
ACMESkydiver 0 #13 July 6, 2006 QuoteJaye - are we lacking in the drama department today? Dude she is NEVER lacking in drama. If her life isn't dramatic enough, she MAKES it dramatic. She made up a story about her ex (baby-daddy #3) trying to kill her and her kids by cutting the brake lines in her SUV. It crashed, and that's why the SUV is gone. The truth is the finance company reposessed that fucker because after I made $1750 of payments FOR HER because she couldn't, she just let them have it back. I guess that wouldn't grab any pity, so hence the attempted murder story. She's a psycho, and everyone knows it. I guess it's kinda fun playing 'guess what psycho is gonna say today', but damn it does get old. ~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Slappie 9 #14 July 6, 2006 Cliff notes? "Find out just what any people will quietly submit to and you have found out the exact measure of injustice and wrong which will be imposed upon them." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wmw999 2,589 #15 July 6, 2006 Can we take up a collection to buy her a free sterilization? Please? Wendy W.There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Thanatos340 1 #16 July 6, 2006 It only took me 37 years to figure this out.. But I think I really do have this all worked now... Are you ready?? Here it is.. The secret to a Happy life.. Psycho Chicks = Bad.. Run Away!! (Same rule applies to Psycho Men of which there are almost as many) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ACMESkydiver 0 #17 July 6, 2006 QuoteCan we take up a collection to buy her a free sterilization? Please? Wendy W. THANK YOU Wendy for a full, throaty laugh from my cold-ravaged throat! ~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Conundrum 1 #18 July 6, 2006 When they are seperated and no linger living together. If it's anytime before that (assuming that the relationship is not "open" for arguments sake) the new gf/bf is just as scummy as the husband/wife who is dating someone on the side. I will never understand the behavior of some people. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ACMESkydiver 0 #19 July 6, 2006 QuoteCliff notes? Short version: chick has gotten preggos by 3 different guys, babies from 2 of them. Suddenly gets in contact with one daddy after no contact for 9 years; he's married with LITTLE babies of his own. Chick somehow is now DATING him after contact less than 2 months ago, and is mad because his wife is pissed at her for it. Chick SAYS daddy and his wife are divorced -oh wiat, -separating- but they still live together? -oh hold up... That's as short as I can get it for ya. ~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wmw999 2,589 #20 July 6, 2006 Generally, if the ink is dry on the paperwork. There are circumstances that make things different (amicable divorces where one spouse is staying married for protection, like insurance, of the other for a set time). I've both been in and known people in such a situation. While I didn't date, it was perfectly OK with me that my STBX did; we didn't have that kind of relationship any more. But what Walt said is about right; generally if there is a relationship, legal or otherwise, then nope. The determining factor is "can you introduce the other person to your former relationship-partner?" Not necessarily amicably, but, well, without risking legal action. Wendy W.There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JENNR8R 0 #21 July 6, 2006 She's a psycho, and everyone knows it. I guess it's kinda fun playing 'guess what psycho is gonna say today', but damn it does get old. Quote I've noticed that women like that are never lacking for men to take them to bed. They must be really talented to be worth that much trouble.What do you call a beautiful, sunny day that comes after two cloudy, rainy ones? -- Monday. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites waltappel 1 #22 July 6, 2006 QuoteI will never understand the behavior of some people. There are single guys who wear wedding rings when they go out to bars because it makes it easier for them to pick up women. Wouldn't surprise me if some single women do that too. Some people want sex with little or no chance of personal involvement and dating married people is an effective way of doing that. It's wrong, but I understand the reasoning. Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Lindercles 0 #23 July 6, 2006 At this point, do you really believe her when she says she's dating him? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites waltappel 1 #24 July 6, 2006 QuoteI've noticed that women like that are never lacking for men to take them to bed. They must be really talented to be worth that much trouble. Not necessarily--some of us guys are just as screwed up they are. Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Thanatos340 1 #25 July 6, 2006 QuoteThey must be really talented to be worth that much trouble. Psycho Chicks are always the best in bed.. Especially the ones with multiple personalities... Cause every time is like a 3 way or more. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 3 Next Page 1 of 3 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0
waltappel 1 #22 July 6, 2006 QuoteI will never understand the behavior of some people. There are single guys who wear wedding rings when they go out to bars because it makes it easier for them to pick up women. Wouldn't surprise me if some single women do that too. Some people want sex with little or no chance of personal involvement and dating married people is an effective way of doing that. It's wrong, but I understand the reasoning. Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lindercles 0 #23 July 6, 2006 At this point, do you really believe her when she says she's dating him? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waltappel 1 #24 July 6, 2006 QuoteI've noticed that women like that are never lacking for men to take them to bed. They must be really talented to be worth that much trouble. Not necessarily--some of us guys are just as screwed up they are. Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Thanatos340 1 #25 July 6, 2006 QuoteThey must be really talented to be worth that much trouble. Psycho Chicks are always the best in bed.. Especially the ones with multiple personalities... Cause every time is like a 3 way or more. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
