apollard24 0 #1 July 7, 2006 Sorry about the rant but Im really in a pissy mood right now. I have this friend that only calls, goes out, send text messages when its only good for him. Like if you knew your friend was going through a rough time wouldnt you want to be there for them. Well not the case. After he blew me off this weekend (important jump for me) I realized I dont need this. So he sent me a message this morning and I couldnt help my response. I told him that I dont think he should call me or message me anymore and honestly wouldnt care if I speak to him again. Was I too harsh? Im pms'ing cant help it.Breathe out so I can breathe you in... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yardhippie 0 #2 July 7, 2006 Im sorry. I'll never do that again. I'd say your better off. All of my friends (at least the ones that pretend to be my friends ), call, me, email, invite, talk, etc on a regular basis. If theyre good friends. They'll be there when ya need em.Goddam dirty hippies piss me off! ~GFD "What do I get for closing your rig?" ~ me "Anything you want." ~ female skydiver Mohoso Rodriguez #865 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FallinWoman 1 #3 July 7, 2006 You deserve to be surrounded by people who value what is important to you. If this person is blowing you off at a time when he knew it was an important time for you, he obviously is not putting you first. Now you have to ask yourself if you really meant that you do not want to talk to him anymore, or whether you can remain friends and accept him for who he is...maybe someone to have fun with but not someone you can count on. ~Anne I'm a Doll!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andy_Copland 0 #4 July 7, 2006 I just think there is a huge differance between friends and acquaintances. I have friends that will do anything for me, then i have people who i can have a beer with and kick a ball around with but wont rely on them for anything as i know it would be fruitless. Sorting people out between the 2 is the trick 1338 People aint made of nothin' but water and shit. Until morale improves, the beatings will continue. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #5 July 7, 2006 QuoteSorry about the rant but Im really in a pissy mood right now. I have this friend that only calls, goes out, send text messages when its only good for him. Like if you knew your friend was going through a rough time wouldnt you want to be there for them. Well not the case. After he blew me off this weekend (important jump for me) I realized I dont need this. So he sent me a message this morning and I couldnt help my response. I told him that I dont think he should call me or message me anymore and honestly wouldnt care if I speak to him again. Was I too harsh? Im pms'ing cant help it. Yes. Way to harsh - he probably had a hard day and you should make him a sammich.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jaden 0 #6 July 7, 2006 Maybe he's dealing with his own issues. You honestly let him know how you felt. You did your part, now it's his turn. If he makes an attempt to correct the problem, I think you should give him another shot. We all screw up. Good luck! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PRSKY71 0 #7 July 7, 2006 I have always found it very difficult to make friends that are there for me unconditionally and if this weekend was important to you and he knew it, he should have been there for you and not blown you off!! Shame on him!! By the way, are you a pink mafia sister yet? I know you had planned on passing that barbie a few weeks ago. Character cannot be made except by a steady, long continued process. -- Phillips Brooks Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NWFlyer 2 #8 July 7, 2006 Were you clear as to how important the weekend was to you and clear as to why you were cutting off contact? If you weren't he may be scratching his head as to why you're so angry. Some friends aren't as perceptive as we'd like them to be and have no clue when they're being inconsiderate. Others know exactly what they're doing. The trick is knowing the difference so you know exactly how much to expect from the person and how angry/disappointed to be with them."There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
apollard24 0 #9 July 7, 2006 Yeah he knew it was my pink mafia jump and how important it was to me and he was thinking with the wrong HEAD if you know what I mean. Made up some excuse that he had family stuff to do.Breathe out so I can breathe you in... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
weegegirl 2 #10 July 7, 2006 You have no idea how many times I have wanted to say that to certain people, but haven't grown the balls. Maybe your thread will inspire me. Hey Funks... I don't think you should call me or text me anymore. You are a selfish bastard. sorry, JW, i could NOT resist. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #11 July 7, 2006 Quote...Some friends aren't as perceptive as we'd like them to be and have no clue when they're being inconsiderate. Some people can fit into this category as "friends." QuoteOthers know exactly what they're doing... Nobody in this category can be included as "friend." It's really not so hard to tell the difference. My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #12 July 7, 2006 QuoteYou have no idea how many times I have wanted to say that to certain people, but haven't grown the balls. Maybe your thread will inspire me. What did I do now?I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RkyMtnHigh 0 #13 July 7, 2006 QuoteSorry about the rant but Im really in a pissy mood right now. I have this friend that only calls, goes out, send text messages when its only good for him. Like if you knew your friend was going through a rough time wouldnt you want to be there for them. Well not the case. After he blew me off this weekend (important jump for me) I realized I dont need this. So he sent me a message this morning and I couldnt help my response. I told him that I dont think he should call me or message me anymore and honestly wouldnt care if I speak to him again. Was I too harsh? Im pms'ing cant help it. Whew! Glad to see "he" on this one and remembering that I was there this past weekendI'm tempted to say 'who needs part time friends when you have full time ones'...but perhaps give him some space to sort things out. I have a sneaking suspicion he'll be back around _________________________________________ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
apollard24 0 #14 July 7, 2006 no not you silly! you always answer the phone! Breathe out so I can breathe you in... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
weegegirl 2 #15 July 7, 2006 QuoteQuoteYou have no idea how many times I have wanted to say that to certain people, but haven't grown the balls. Maybe your thread will inspire me. What did I do now? you know i love you turtle brain. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #16 July 7, 2006 QuoteQuoteQuoteYou have no idea how many times I have wanted to say that to certain people, but haven't grown the balls. Maybe your thread will inspire me. What did I do now? you know i love you turtle brain. Then why do you send me PM's with nothing in them.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
weegegirl 2 #17 July 7, 2006 QuoteQuoteQuoteQuoteYou have no idea how many times I have wanted to say that to certain people, but haven't grown the balls. Maybe your thread will inspire me. What did I do now? you know i love you turtle brain. Then why do you send me PM's with nothing in them. it said "HI" silly head. didn't you read the subject line????? i was so tired after your phone call woke my ass up cuz you can't remember the little thingy about time zones that i couldn't think straight. (okay, so that's a stretch... but i had to come up with SOMETHING!) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #18 July 7, 2006 Did Apollard get this thing worked out yet? Jheese - Have her go make him a sammich already.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
apollard24 0 #19 July 7, 2006 NO WAY! no sammich for him but I am going to get a milk shake and burger for myself. Breathe out so I can breathe you in... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #20 July 7, 2006 QuoteNO WAY! no sammich for him but I am going to get a milk shake and burger for myself. Awwe - you mean you'll make me a sammich - what a good friend you are.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
guppie01 0 #21 July 7, 2006 QuoteI am going to get a milk shake and burger ummmmm, can I be your friend???? PLEASE say it's chocolate, please, oh please... g"Let's do something romantic this Saturday... how bout we bust out the restraints?" Raddest Ho this side of Jersey #1 - MISS YOU OMG, is she okay? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #22 July 7, 2006 QuoteQuoteI am going to get a milk shake and burger ummmmm, can I be your friend???? PLEASE say it's chocolate, please, oh please... g Don't SAY IT! I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
guppie01 0 #23 July 7, 2006 STOP cock blocking you lil green thing.... SHE'S MINE!!!! g"Let's do something romantic this Saturday... how bout we bust out the restraints?" Raddest Ho this side of Jersey #1 - MISS YOU OMG, is she okay? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #24 July 7, 2006 QuoteSTOP cock blocking you lil green thing.... SHE'S MINE!!!! g Umm - S.I.U.C.C.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Scoop 0 #25 July 7, 2006 You can count your real friends on one hand. Sad but true Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
