sartre 0 #26 July 20, 2006 QuoteActually, I can't imagine leaving my kids. If my wife ever did do that to me, I would absolutely live in a tent and teach AFF. And never look back. Don't these two statements directly contradict one another? I don't understand. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airtwardo 7 #27 July 20, 2006 QuoteQuoteActually, I can't imagine leaving my kids. If my wife ever did do that to me, I would absolutely live in a tent and teach AFF. And never look back. Don't these two statements directly contradict one another? I don't understand. Not married with kids are ya! ~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sartre 0 #28 July 20, 2006 Actually, I am. Still confused, too. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MF42 0 #29 July 20, 2006 Are the kids living with you in the tent on the DZ? Matt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
StreetScooby 5 #30 July 20, 2006 Quote Still confused, too. Sounds like your wife is in charge. Doesn't make you a bad guy. Mine's in charge, too.We are all engines of karma Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airtwardo 7 #31 July 20, 2006 QuoteActually, I am. Still confused, too. *** Must be a 'guy' thang...take away my world...I'll go live in another! ~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
StreetScooby 5 #32 July 20, 2006 Quote Must be a 'guy' thang...take away my world...I'll go live in another! Sounds like you're already living in a good world! Ok. We are all engines of karma Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airtwardo 7 #33 July 20, 2006 QuoteQuote Must be a 'guy' thang...take away my world...I'll go live in another! Sounds like you're already living in a good world! Ok. *** Oh I've changed planets a time 'r' 2! ~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sartre 0 #34 July 20, 2006 QuoteSounds like your wife is in charge. lol!! Well, I don't have a wife, I have a husband. But I always say, I sure do need a wife. It would be nice to have someone around here to get the cooking and cleaning done while I go out and play!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airtwardo 7 #35 July 20, 2006 QuoteQuoteSounds like your wife is in charge. lol!! Well, I don't have a wife, I have a husband. But I always say, I sure do need a wife. It would be nice to have someone around here to get the cooking and cleaning done while I go out and play!! *** He is SO sexist with those comments isn't he?! ~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
StreetScooby 5 #36 July 20, 2006 Quote Oh I've changed planets a time 'r' 2! He is SO sexist with those comments isn't he?! You gotta be STRONG to change your spots, man.We are all engines of karma Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DJL 235 #37 July 20, 2006 QuoteOne day your spouse tells you he/she is no longer in love with you. But they are willing to stay since you guys get along for the most part, and it would tear so many things apart to split up. They are willing to live a facade until the kids go off to college. Call me old fashioned, but I don't see why this is such a mystery. Back in the day it was understood that if the romantic spark wasn't there then you had separate beds and got along just fine."I encourage all awesome dangerous behavior." - Jeffro Fincher Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
StreetScooby 5 #38 July 20, 2006 Quote First...dig a deep well in the basement.... How much does that cost? We are all engines of karma Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydivermom 0 #39 July 20, 2006 You are correct. Children would much rather come from a broken home than live in one. I LIVED in a broken home for 17 years, I knowMrs. WaltAppel All things work together for good to them that love God...Romans 8:28 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airtwardo 7 #40 July 20, 2006 QuoteQuote First...dig a deep well in the basement.... How much does that cost? *** It pays for itself in the long run! ~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
StreetScooby 5 #41 July 20, 2006 Quote It pays for itself in the long run! ROFLMAO!!!! Now, I just have to get a small dog We are all engines of karma Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airtwardo 7 #42 July 20, 2006 QuoteQuote It pays for itself in the long run! ROFLMAO!!!! Now, I just have to get a small dog It rubs the lotion! ~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
StreetScooby 5 #43 July 20, 2006 Quote It rubs the lotion! EXACTLY!!! We are all engines of karma Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydivermom 0 #44 July 20, 2006 I started to get depressed when I read and responded to this thread, but you changed that very quickly. Thanks for the laughs!Mrs. WaltAppel All things work together for good to them that love God...Romans 8:28 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sartre 0 #45 July 20, 2006 It's funny, I didn't think about hearing feedback from those who had grown up in a similar situation. That's the most important view of all. I guess it's a tough call to know what's best for your children. Mistakes are made, even with the best of intentions. sorry for dredging up depressing emotions for anybody... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MF42 0 #46 July 20, 2006 Maybe I'm interpreting the original question incorrectly. I'm thinking that if she one day says she no longer loves me, and I never saw this coming, then something dramatic must have recently changed. I'd be very curious what that something is. I wouldn't assume that her mind is irreversibly set on this course yet. Surely a marriage with children is worth a little investigation, at least. Matt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
StreetScooby 5 #47 July 20, 2006 Quote sorry for dredging up depressing emotions for anybody... It's not too late. Just go bitch slap the guy. Then give him a good hand job, etc. What do you have to lose?We are all engines of karma Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sartre 0 #48 July 20, 2006 For what it's worth, I think you've made a very good argument for fighting for the marriage. I don't disagree with anything you've said. I'm just not sure if I could actually do that myself. If I was the one who was no longer loved by the other. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airtwardo 7 #49 July 20, 2006 QuoteI started to get depressed when I read and responded to this thread, but you changed that very quickly. Thanks for the laughs! *** ~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airtwardo 7 #50 July 20, 2006 QuoteWhat do you have to lose? The keys to the BASEMENT! ~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
