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Other peoples perception of you??

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Do you think other people’s perception of you is generally accurate??

Are you really anything like the person most people think you are??



Excellent questions!

Other peoples perceptions of me is accurate.... at least in their mind. To them, their perception IS reality.

Reminds me of the song Wonderful in Wicked
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A man's called a traitor - or liberator
A rich man's a thief - or philanthropist
Is one a crusader - or ruthless invader?
It's all in which label
Is able to persist
There are precious few at ease
With moral ambiguities
So we act as though they don't exist



Whether I see my personality as they do is a different matter. And how I see my personality varies on different matters ... I am professional/informal, kind/wicked, witty/serious, bookish/social, naive/Dominating... all depends on who I am at that moment.
Alexandra Slates song, Bad Girl, seems most correct.
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I'm not who you think I am
Have I fooled the whole world?
Nobody knows
I'm a very, very bad girl



I've known some friends for over 20 years... and they still don't understand what I think life should be about.:|

But ultimately... as long as I like my perception of me then my personalities all play well with each other.:S:D

Karen

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I'd better be either A) Morticia Addams or B) The niece from the Munsters. Otherwise, you're in trouble. :D



What's up Wednesday?!

Or was that "Cousin It"?
I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama
BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun

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I can't answer the question because I don't know how other people perceive me or who most think I am. My *guess* is that most people are off base.

My perception of you was perfectly accurate of course, that you're the front-man for a Dutch metal band, with the beatific looks of Cupid. :P

Blues,
Dave
"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!"
(drink Mountain Dew)

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Not really, Just Hottie MILF



lol...

well...clearly I over thought the question : )



Yep.
I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama
BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun

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I've been shocked at what close co-workers have told me months into a working relationship about what their first impressions of me were. :ph34r:

I will not say what that was. I still don't believe anyone could see me that way; though I've been told on multiple occassions. :P:S
~Jaye
Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action.

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I've found people take me far too seriously or misconstrue my words and intentions. I try to help and educate w. my experience and knowledge (I know there isn't much but hey I know a thing or two).

I lay facts out there for others to digest and comprehend. I find people take that as me telling them what to do or what they should do. That's not the case at all, I'm simply presenting different perspectives to be considered.

So...if you read my posts, please give me the benefit of the doubt and don't assume the worst. I have nothing but good intentions and mean no harm.
Tunnel Pink Mafia Delegate
www.TunnelPinkMafia.com

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You're a big ox, silly!



There is more to me than just my pleasant aroma and surprising grace! B|>:(:D

Blues,
Dave



PLEASANT AROMA?
Thank GOD for auto windows.:D:D
I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama
BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun

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So are you a sex kitten or not?



Maybe she is - maybe she isn't the only one that knows is that guy Joe that we hear about.
I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama
BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun

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(2)Do you think other people’s perception of you is generally accurate??

(1)Are you really anything like the person most people think you are??



Hey....these were the original questions...

How on earth would I have come up with hottie MILF?



(1)Hottie Milf - I'd say yes, Hottie Milf.

Lets see - if 1 is true then yes - I'd say they were accurate.

What's the problem here?
I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama
BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun

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A related question... "Is our perception of ourselves generally accurate?"

If others perceive us differently from how we view ourselves, they aren't necessarily the ones who are wrong. There is an incredible amount of self-delusion going around, and I've certainly had my share of it.

Doug

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A related question... "Is our perception of ourselves generally accurate?"

If others perceive us differently from how we view ourselves, they aren't necessarily the ones who are wrong. There is an incredible amount of self-delusion going around, and I've certainly had my share of it.

Doug



You mean I'm not the worlds most sexy man slave?
I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama
BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun

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But it does bother me when people have me totally wrong,



Or maybe they have you nailed and you are misperceiving yourself? One of the few bits of wisdom I’ve learned in my life (and I can count them on two hands) is that the hardest thing to see in life is yourself.
"We've been looking for the enemy for some time now. We've finally found him. We're surrounded. That simplifies things." CP

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