3 Years ago today....

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In one split second, I was a breath away from death. A simple thing like walking down the stairs changed my life forever. For those that don't know, I simply slipped on my staircase, plummeting down the full flight, striking my head on a stone floor. At that moment, I felt the most excrutiating pain of my life, like a lightning bolt going from my head, down my spine and out my feet. Next moment I was above myself looking down at my dead body. The hospital treated me for a concussion. I thought I was fine within a few days. I even went to Nashville 5 days after to spend a long weekend with Michele and Micro. Twelve days later (on my birthday) the lights went out. I could no longer speak clearly. My vision went from 20/20 to 20/90. I could not walk without holding onto something because up was not up and down was not down. I couldn't remember things 5 minutes after they happened. My nephew was born on September 7th and I have no recollection of it. I could no longer work and to this day, I don't have the green light to return to work. In the past 3 years I have been in an ambulance 12 times due to severe pain and loss of consciousness. Just last month I spent a couple days in the ICU for observation.

But a lot of good came from this experience. I learned that I am a lot stronger than I ever thought. I learned patience which was seriously needed. I learned that I can endure excrutiating pain. Most importantly, I became a more compassionate person. I am so much more aware of others who are suffering and I realize that I am damned lucky. No matter how badly you hurt, there is always someone who is hurting more. I learned that self-pity is a disease that will rot you from the core. I learned that life is really prescious and will probably be taken from me when I least expect it.

To my friends, be happy, be healthy and be safe,
Chris

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But a lot of good came from this experience. I learned that I am a lot stronger than I ever thought. I learned patience which was seriously needed. I learned that I can endure excrutiating pain. Most importantly, I became a more compassionate person. I am so much more aware of others who are suffering and I realize that I am damned lucky. No matter how badly you hurt, there is always someone who is hurting more. I learned that self-pity is a disease that will rot you from the core. I learned that life is really prescious and will probably be taken from me when I least expect it.

I am so proud of you, my friend. You've come a long, long way, learned ever so much, and have, in my mind, grown oodles from this experience. It is so nice to see who you've grown into, and make it through the obstacle placed in your way, and through the rough and the hard part.

You're pretty cool, Chris. And I'm proud to call you friend.

Hugs-

Ciels-
Michele

~Do Angels keep the dreams we seek
While our hearts lie bleeding?~

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Hang in there Chris.... life is what you make it.. even after one of those standing over yourself looking down events..

You are a good man... you deserve happiness in your life... and hang in there and live... all these days have been added for you. In the long run.. I think you have learned some valuble lessons.. and I think you have inspired more than one person here.

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Hi Chris.

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meow

I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug!

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I am sorry to hear what happened to you. I always wondered but never wanted to pry. I am glad to hear that your days are getting brighter. Keep up the fight.

P.S. Your cute.
Bobbi

A miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude.

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Keep on truckin'. You're the same Chris, just as you were when you were really scared after a fall awhile ago. And that's why we like you.

Wendy W.

There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown)

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Although I don't know you, you seem (from your posts) like someone who is kind and has a great heart!!! Glad to hear you have such a great perspective on life and that you appreciate the pure gift that it is!! Good luck to you and good vibes coming your way!!

Character cannot be made except by a steady, long continued process. -- Phillips Brooks

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Chris -- I have a lot of respect for how you're handling this and I'm sure that, if we ever met, I'd really enjoy your company.

Doug

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Thanks for sharing this story with us!

You are inspiring : )

Jump, Land, Pack, Repeat...

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Thanks folks for your encouraging, thoughtful and friendly words. You give me more credit than I deserve, but I do appreciate it.
Chris

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You give me more credit than I deserve

Well, in that case, STFU, ya freakin' whiner.



Sorry. I'm in a mood tonight.

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I spit on your mood.

Chris

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good story chris... I'm glad you're my bud...

edit your --> you're

Livin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife...

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Chris, you are one of the good guys. You have all the respect in the world from me. Keep up the fight.

You can have it good, fast, or cheap: pick two.

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Chris,
although you're always causing trouble, trying to get everyone to join NAMBLA just because you like the way it sounds and always fighting for equal rights of albino pets doesnt mean you are a total freak. ( i would post links to these postsbut I guess HH removed those titles.)

Have they ever figured out what is causing your problem? sounds like a mini stroke. and since I stayed in a holiday inn, I think you know I am smart enough to make that analysis.

either way, you're a good guy, Chris. strong character but you need to research someof those posts you made.

for those who don't know Chris is a total trouble maker. hahah and I am usually bullshitting

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What a beautiful Gift of God that you are still here in our lives...I feel truly blessed

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wow you made my post seem insensitive.

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There was this time when I was visiting Micro. I left the computer with my username logged in. Must have been him. He's very, very weird.

Chris

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that doesnt sound like micro at all. he's an excellent example of self restraint and higness.


trying to deflour his honorable reputation just shows the true you.

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that doesnt sound like micro at all. he's an excellent example of self restraint and higness.


trying to deflour his honorable reputation just shows the true you.

He was going by the name of sinker at the time.

Chris

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THAT SON OF A BITCH

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