Broke 0 #26 September 1, 2006 getting attached to a fuck buddie never works out.Divot your source for all things Hillbilly. Anvil Brother 84 SCR 14192 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Beverly 1 #27 September 1, 2006 Quotegetting attached to a fuck buddie never works out. Funny you say this. I was having this discussion with some fellow jumpers just the other day. It always seems that one wants more than the other. When one is moving on then the other is not etc. But there will always be a loser in this instance and you never really know who that is going to be. There will also be jealously and hurt. One moving on, a promise of something to come, not working out, more hurt, losing the friendship, more jealousy, feelings of guilt, moving on, back in the field, lies, (to avoid hurt of course), more hurt, more guilt, more tears. If it did not work out there was a reason. If it is too difficult it was not meant to be. Also, regret is a waste of time... (guess who just watched "under the tuscan sun" and yes I cried) Can't off any advise on this one, sorry. I think true friendship is under-rated Twitter: @Dreamskygirlsa Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MarkR 0 #28 September 1, 2006 I say, be honest with her. Tell her the whole story, starting with Empuriabrava. Girls dig honesty. Yes, they do.»Somewhere between the lies and truths borderlines get shady. Somewhere between the yesses and nos you can find the maybe.« Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tumbler 0 #29 September 1, 2006 it gets easier.. and it gets better. Time heals all things. When in the middle of the frey no one can see that the pain and hurt will pass. It does. 6 months ago I split with my wife.... last night I made dinner for a wonderful woman that I really like and for the first time, I kissed her. It was incredible. It does get better. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Icon134 0 #30 September 1, 2006 QuoteI say, be honest with her. Tell her the whole story, starting with Empuriabrava. Girls dig honesty. Yes, they do. true, they do like honesty... but it doesn't mean it will change anything.Livin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sockpuppet 0 #31 September 1, 2006 Phone her up when you know the bf is going to answer and ask him to take a message. Just say "Clinic phoned, call them urgent. She'll know what it means". Sit back and enjoy. ------ Two of the three voices in my head agree with you. It might actually be unanimous but voice three only speaks Welsh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MarkR 0 #32 September 1, 2006 Quotetrue, they do like honesty... but it doesn't mean it will change anything. Who knows? It might - it might not. Maybe she's had the same feelings, but going by caspar's interrest not surpassing that of a fuck buddy she got involved with a guy with more serious intentions. You'll never find out until matters have been talked over.»Somewhere between the lies and truths borderlines get shady. Somewhere between the yesses and nos you can find the maybe.« Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #33 September 1, 2006 QuoteI say, be honest with her. Tell her the whole story, starting with Empuriabrava. Girls dig honesty. Yes, they do. Aw c'mon...too sensible. we were having fun with this and here you go and interject some sensibility into it. Geez... My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MarkR 0 #34 September 1, 2006 QuoteAw c'mon...too sensible. we were having fun with this and here you go and interject some sensibility into it. Geez... Yeah, ain't I the spoilsport... »Somewhere between the lies and truths borderlines get shady. Somewhere between the yesses and nos you can find the maybe.« Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumpjunkie2004 0 #35 September 1, 2006 You're young caspar - this is probably the first in a series of heart breaks. When a relationship ends (even a friendship), I try to find the positive side of things. I believe we meet everyone for a reason. Figure out how you changed over the last 9 months. I'm sure you learned something from the relationship. Maybe it was something little or maybe you learned something significant - either way - find the positive and move forward. Passing time is usually the only thing that will make it easier. Good luck to you : )Jump, Land, Pack, Repeat... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #36 September 1, 2006 This is ripe for the "Dear Sunshine" thread...My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
StreetScooby 5 #37 September 1, 2006 Quote Phone her up when you know the bf is going to answer and ask him to take a message. Just say "Clinic phoned, call them urgent. She'll know what it means". Sit back and enjoy. That's just evil We are all engines of karma Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sharimcm 0 #38 September 1, 2006 Quotegetting attached to a fuck buddie never works out. Unless she's a car salesman. Honestly, I am still very close friends with a former fuck buddy. We just don't "do it" anymore. He's had girlfriends I've met, and I've had boyfriends he's met. It's all good. And, we just started out as fuck buddies, and now he's a good friend. Although, I do have to say he doesn't like my cop because of "extra-cirricular activites" he engages in. But, my guy doesn't care. "I had a dude tip his black cowboy hat to me after I provided him with a condom outside my hotel room at 3-something in the morning." -myself Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
xenaswampjumper 0 #39 September 1, 2006 talk to people who really care about you and don't obsess about it..........give yourself time to grieve......and try and smile.......I am working on this right now as well........good luck till later have fun & love each other seeya mb65johnny gates.... In skydiving, the only thing that stops you is the ground.............. PMS# 472 Muff #3863 TPM#95 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
