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Do you consider yourself to be a family man/woman?

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My dog is the extent of my "family" at least beyond my parents, brothers and sisters... cousins, aunts and uncles...

And I suppose it ultimately what one would define as a "Family Man"
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I absolutely do. My child and my relationship with him are more important than anything in this world. Our extended family is almost as important. We are a unit. There's very little that I do that is not for the benefit of my family (well, a few things). Yeah....I'm a family person.

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I never wanted kids of my own. I never expected to love children and pretty much lived a pretty hedonistic lifestyle.

Two years ago I met an absolutely wonderful girl who spun my world. She is a divorcee who has four children.

I have come to love her kids like I never thought I would love children before and find complete joy in her family. I am in love with being part of her family.

She and I both skydive; I have just completed my AFF and a few solo and coach dives and she has a couple of tandems but wants to do her AFF this spring.

We have discussed at length whether or not we are comfortable skydiving (and scubadiving) with so many children who are reliant on us.

I love being part of (our) family and her children are my joy. We vacation together several times a year, we spend every other weekend together (the kids are with their dad's every other weekend), and I feel like the kdis love me as much as I love them.

Once upon a time I was selfish, and I did as I chose, but I am far happier now as part of a family than I have ever been before. Because of my experience with this family I am finally closer to my parents and brother.

I am a family man and I am finally fulfilled....and I am happy...
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No, I do not consider myself a family woman.

As far as being a family man, I don't feel that simply being a father of two sons and grandfather of 6 makes me a family man, but if being told by your granddaughters that "you're cool!" and "I love you, Grandpa" qualifies, then I'm guilty as charged.

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Thread title says it all. Why or why not?

No, dont have kids and dont want kids.
and based on a lot of the kids i see daily, "family" has no inherent good or bad quality.
It discribes a small population ussually but not constrained to "Parents and Children"
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Nope.
Im married and have a dog, and thats as far as Im going. I just broke 30 and have barley slowed down since I turned 16. I have no time to make any more familial commitments.
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I consider myself to be a family man. I call it selfishness. I don't skydive, golf, gig, or even barhop anymore. I'd rather be with my wife and son than do those things. And the choice remains the same every time.

Maybe I'll get sick of them sometime. IT hasn't happened yet.


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:)......it's been a big part of Italian-American Heritage.. ( la Famiglia) and for me, it still is...B|
nuclear family...spouse and the children,
extended family...parents siblings, blood relatives, in-laws, out-laws ;) and those who have married in...
and of course my Skydiving family...:D
I have always been real good at being a 'brother',, work hard to honor my commitment to being a husband, and have done OK... being a father...Assuming a role in any family takes energy effort and a sense of humor...and the payoff can be very satisfying...:D

In truth,,,We all are 'family men and women' of one kind of family or another..that's the way humans were designed and there is a lot that is good about being a "part of something"..
We should try to work hard to make any and all of our family groups, the better, for our participation in them.

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I would say yes. I had no problem giving up all my single life and the freedom that came with it when I became a legal guardian to my in my little brother. In fact I enjoy the new life of parenting more then I enjoyed the single life. It is much more rewarding.
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