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jumper03

My response to Kelel01's thread about assuming....*Pissed*

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Make that fucking pissed.

So why do men assume women are stupid?
Lets exam the evidence -

man hears from woman - I just want someone who'll be there. Someone who will listen. Someone who won't pressure me.

So man gives that and more! Cooks, helps cleans, foot rubs on demand - I would classify it as above and beyond in this case.

Man then hears - I need space and time alone.
Translation - Its over.

give what is asked for and more and you get 'released'???? And not even an honest answer?

Fuck that. Skymonkeyone - you were right.

>:(
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A little bitter right now?

I've had that experience before, including with my most recent SO after we had lived together for several years. I think she felt the relationship had run its course but didn't have the backbone or the common decency to tell me. She was definitely spineless about it.

I was upset for a half hour or so, but quickly realized it had little, if anything, to do with me. I also realized there was not a single thing I could do about it, nor would I want to even if I could.

I still look back on the time I spent with her as a wonderful time in my life. I have a hard time being bitter about that.

The experience didn't leave me thinking of her as stupid, and it didn't make me think that all women are like that. Everything in life, including life itself is temporary. Good times don't last forever, but neither to bad times. Relationships don't last forever either, as much as some of us would like them to. I'm all for ending them honestly, but sometimes it just doesn't happen and you need to accept it.

Walt

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Don't forget catering to her out-of-the-ordinary needs and requests, to include spending your own money to send her food overseas because she refuses to eat what they serve there.

I watched "someone" do all of that and more, essentially altering their own life to accommodate the other person's, and now I have to watch the fallout with only a limited idea of how to help...other than always standing up for my friend.

Yeah, I get all protective of my friends when they're crapped on.

Edited to remove "maggot" statements...by request.
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I just need 26.2 miles of open road and new pair of running shoes.

And I should probably stop packing this reserve right now...

That might be a good Idea... as in both of these things... stop packing that reserve, go buy yourself a pair of shoes and run yourself a personal marathon...

Be sure to take enough water/etc... it sucks when you run out of water 6-8 miles from the end of a 27 mile planned run... B|
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thanks walt, but I don't need Dr. Phil right now. I just need 26.2 miles of open road and new pair of running shoes.

And I should probably stop packing this reserve right now...



Fuck Dr. Phil! It's about not getting all bent out of shape about something you have no control over.

Besides, at some point you may look at it like as one of the best things that could have happened.

Walt

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That sucks. That really sucks. Yes, it's definitely more of a reflection on her than on you, but it really doesn't matter, does it?

Go break some glass. Play loud music, and jump up and down playing air (or real) guitar. Wear a helmet with horns and hoist a beer tankard.

Wendy W.
There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown)

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Go break some glass.



Don't do that!

I have butterfingers and I accidentally dropped a wine glass I was removing from our wine glass holder before I'd even had my first sip of the day, and it shattered.

It shattered and thank goodness Billy was there b/c it sliced both my wrists horizontally to my hands. Sppppoooooooky.:D:P There was actually a piece of glass still stuck in one of my wrists and Billy removed it. Mind you I have to be REAAAAALY trusting to let someone do that. Mostly I'd rather have removed it myself. But it required two hands.

Anywho...we had a dinner date that night and I had to go out with two big bandages around my wrists---it was mid-summer and thus a long-sleeved shirt would not have sufficed and would have looked plain silly.

The moral of my story: Just say "No!" to breaking glass.

:P
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I think you have the right idea...stop packing and get out and run, run and run somemore my friend.

You are a better person then she, what happened here was not your fault, as said before.

The best way to work your aggression is to do some physical activity..running is a good idea.
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Make that fucking pissed.

So why do men assume women are stupid?
Lets exam the evidence -

man hears from woman - I just want someone who'll be there. Someone who will listen. Someone who won't pressure me.

So man gives that and more! Cooks, helps cleans, foot rubs on demand - I would classify it as above and beyond in this case.

Man then hears - I need space and time alone.
Translation - Its over.

give what is asked for and more and you get 'released'???? And not even an honest answer?

Fuck that. Skymonkeyone - you were right.

>:(



women are like dog shit....

the older they are, the easier they are to pick up ;)

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Make that fucking pissed.

So why do men assume women are stupid?
Lets exam the evidence -

man hears from woman - I just want someone who'll be there. Someone who will listen. Someone who won't pressure me.

So man gives that and more! Cooks, helps cleans, foot rubs on demand - I would classify it as above and beyond in this case.

Man then hears - I need space and time alone.
Translation - Its over.

give what is asked for and more and you get 'released'???? And not even an honest answer?

Fuck that. Skymonkeyone - you were right.

>:(



women are like dog shit....

the older they are, the easier they are to pick up ;)



I hope i dont think that next time i go down on one.


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Oh, thank goodness!

B/c I wanted to respond....is this thread not about a relationship b/w kelel and jumper03 but rather a thread about jumper03 and another girl?

B/c I like Kelel01 and certainly I wouldn't want any confusion in the matter.[:/]
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Umm....am I going crazy? I would have sworn I'd read a page two to this in which you said maybe you should have changed the title....????



They're in the dungeon now.

I was replying and it said "Permission Denied"

so .. . . . he he

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