floridadiver81 0 #1 December 18, 2006 So my ex im's me on aim asking how im doing blah blah blah. HAHA. i broke up with her becasue i was tired of supporting her with EVERYTHING. i put gas in her car all the time, bought her cigarettes...fixed her car when it was broke so she didnt have to take it to a shop and spend money..ALWAYS paid for the dates when we went out...whcih i normally do in the beginning...then it gets split later on down the road. She im's me wanting to get back together after she told me that she was pregnant with my child...whcih i later found out that it wasnt mine..she decided to go out the day after i dumped her and have a one night stand...ha. then she tells me that she hopes i get shot when i go to iraq..if i even go anymore. Wow...i know im a nice guy...but im far from stupid....i jsut had to share that..im still laughing..and i will continue for at least another 10 minutes. Little does she know that im with someone new and very happy......"Age has absolutely nothing to do with knowledge, learning, respect, attitude, or personality." -yardhippie "Fight the air, and the air will kick your ass!!! "-Specialkaye Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kbordson 8 #2 December 18, 2006 OK... First - why just limit it to women. Granted generally you tend to see females raised in a more dependant role ("Here sweety, let Daddy do that." or "Once you find Prince Charming... you'll live happily everafter") But guys can be that way too. Second - Your ex doesn't sound "dumb" to me. She sounds more like a user, someone willing to be dependant on others for her life and happiness. Some people are just users, looking to get whatever their "significant other" or work or government will give to them... And... it sounds like, up to a point, she had it pretty good - counted on you to take care of everything - gas, cigarettes, money..... Until you were gone... so not really so "smart" by that account... but look at all the work she got out of you at what cost to her? So maybe kinda smart - on a short term gain view. Now if YOU were smart... you would learn from this and begin to believe: The world will change when you are ready to pronounce this oath: I swear by my Life and my love of it that I will never live for the sake of another man[sic], nor ask another man[sic] to live for the sake of mine. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ImGunnaJump 0 #3 December 18, 2006 Excellent post Dr.!"...I've learned that while the "needs" in life are important (food, water, shelter), it's the "wants" in life (ice cream, chocolate, sex) that make it worth the effort." Kbordson Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
floridadiver81 0 #4 December 18, 2006 oh i knows guys are dumb too...i whould have made the topic people...but i was laughing so hard that i jstu didnt realise it. Yeah i know she used me...which is what caused the breakup. And i know guys can be stupid...ehll..thats the reason im with the girl i am now. she was with guys before me that took advantage of her in almost the same my my ex took advantage of me. I know how the games goes...unfortunately im an experienced player(not i the sexual way either....im speaking on the actual dating side). When i used th term dumb..i was meaning it more after the relationship..that she was dumb to think that i would take her back..after the shit she pulled during and after the relationship. Im smart in the idea that i found someone that is the complete opposite of her. yeah i helped her in the beginning(like irst week) but since then she can support herse.f...as i can myself. With my ex it went on for almost 2 months now that i think about it. Differance being that my current gf got up and got herself a job so i wouldnt have to support her...the ex didnt get up off her ass and do anything..which i know is my fault for doing everything. i guess i assumed she would want to get her a job so she would have her own money..but we all know what happens when you assume anything...lol"Age has absolutely nothing to do with knowledge, learning, respect, attitude, or personality." -yardhippie "Fight the air, and the air will kick your ass!!! "-Specialkaye Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #5 December 18, 2006 Are you dating my ex-girlfriend? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
floridadiver81 0 #6 December 18, 2006 QuoteAre you dating my ex-girlfriend? lol....my ex in cindy...and trust me..i dont know what the hell i was thinking when i dated her(she was well under my sandards). My current gf is Amanda....so..prolly not "Age has absolutely nothing to do with knowledge, learning, respect, attitude, or personality." -yardhippie "Fight the air, and the air will kick your ass!!! "-Specialkaye Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
