ladyflyer77 0 #1 January 12, 2007 A friend of mine is having a hard time getting a girl because he is just so shy. He asked me to hang out with him to help his SMV, is that wrong and would you do it for a friend? If I stand on my tip toes, I can see the weekend from here! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livendive 8 #2 January 12, 2007 QuoteA friend of mine is having a hard time getting a girl because he is just so shy. He asked me to hang out with him to help his SMV, is that wrong and would you do it for a friend? What could be wrong with helping him feel more comfortable and less shy? Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wmw999 2,589 #3 January 12, 2007 The kind of girl you "catch" because you're with another girl probably isn't the kind you want to keep. So maybe coaching on what makes him stand out on his own is better. Hanging out with him to help introduce him and break the ice is a perfectly rational thing to do if he's a nice guy. Wendy W.There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bolas 5 #4 January 12, 2007 This sounds so much like a corporate buzzword that I want to puke. Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livendive 8 #5 January 12, 2007 QuoteThis sounds so much like a corporate buzzword that I want to puke. Yeah...sort of. But the appraisal would probably be fun! Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
downwardspiral 0 #6 January 12, 2007 Nothing wrong with it. Its completely legal and you can find it in the yellow pages under................ Escort Services www.FourWheelerHB.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TrophyHusband 0 #7 January 12, 2007 QuoteThe kind of girl you "catch" because you're with another girl probably isn't the kind you want to keep. that is true, but catching a couple of those kind of girls is a great way to build up confidence. girls can smell lack of confidence for miles and it is a big turn-off to many of them. "Your scrotum is quite nice" - Skymama www.kjandmegan.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Thanatos340 1 #8 January 12, 2007 QuoteThe kind of girl you "catch" because you're with another girl probably isn't the kind you want to keep. Keep?? Why would he want to do that?? Is he looking to get laid or find a girlfriend. Two totally different senerios. And Yes, I think this guy has a good plan. It does help if you meet women if you have a Female friend with you. Even more so if she is hot. Gives him a sort of "Stamp of approval". Sex comes in waves - massive tidal force monsters, leaving barren shore in their wake. Women sense which men are having sex and which aren't, and they generally prefer those who are already getting some. I don't know if this is instinctual, or if it derives from the fact that men who are already having regular sex are calmer and therefore more attractive to women. Whatever the reason, when you're in the midst of a hot streak, you're at the peak of your attractiveness to women. You take advantage of the situation, no questions asked. The wave will peak and crash. You'll inevitably find yourself in a trough again, fucking your hand and cursing your luck. When nature offers you the wave, you grab it and ride it for all its worth, Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
downwardspiral 0 #9 January 12, 2007 QuoteQuoteThe kind of girl you "catch" because you're with another girl probably isn't the kind you want to keep. Keep?? Why would he want to do that?? Is he looking to get laid or find a girlfriend. Two totally different senerios. And Yes, I think this guy has a good plan. It does help if you meet women if you have a Female friend with you. Even more so if she is hot. Gives him a sort of "Stamp of approval". Sex comes in waves - massive tidal force monsters, leaving barren shore in their wake. Women sense which men are having sex and which aren't, and they generally prefer those who are already getting some. I don't know if this is instinctual, or if it derives from the fact that men who are already having regular sex are calmer and therefore more attractive to women. Whatever the reason, when you're in the midst of a hot streak, you're at the peak of your attractiveness to women. You take advantage of the situation, no questions asked. The wave will peak and crash. You'll inevitably find yourself in a trough again, fucking your hand and cursing your luck. When nature offers you the wave, you grab it and ride it for all its worth, Truer words have never been....uh...postedwww.FourWheelerHB.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Carpediem 0 #10 January 12, 2007 Yes you should help him get laid if you're not gonna do it. No there is nothing wrong with that. Party on Those who do, can't explain. Those who don't, can't understand. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skinnyshrek 0 #11 January 12, 2007 QuoteA friend of mine is having a hard time getting a girl because he is just so shy. He asked me to hang out with him to help his SMV, is that wrong and would you do it for a friend? i did that for the dude once, he has a boring personality..ended up me talking and making her have fun all night. He thought this would help Good job i wasnt single, i probably would of nailed her while he watched. But i would of charged extra for thathttp://www.skydivethefarm.com do you realize that when you critisize people you dont know over the internet, you become part of a growing society of twats? ARE YOU ONE OF THEM? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
unformed 0 #12 January 12, 2007 if he's actually a fun person, and just shy .... yeah, it helps, and there's nothing wrong with it .... especially at bars girls are much more receptive if another girls comes to them and introduces a guy than if the guy comes himself... now if he's actually a really boring person and has no social skills....well, he's not going to get anywhere anyways.... the only thing you can do is get his foot in the door, so to speak .... and you should ...... but he has to understand the rest of it is still up to him...This ad space for sale. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnRich 4 #13 January 12, 2007 QuoteA friend of mine is having a hard time getting a girl because he is just so shy. He asked me to hang out with him to help his SMV, is that wrong and would you do it for a friend? I can't know if it's wrong or not until you tell me what "SMV" is. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
guppie01 0 #14 January 13, 2007 Quotewhat "SMV" is. sexual market value g"Let's do something romantic this Saturday... how bout we bust out the restraints?" Raddest Ho this side of Jersey #1 - MISS YOU OMG, is she okay? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livendive 8 #15 January 13, 2007 QuoteQuoteA friend of mine is having a hard time getting a girl because he is just so shy. He asked me to hang out with him to help his SMV, is that wrong and would you do it for a friend? I can't know if it's wrong or not until you tell me what "SMV" is. And you're the one constantly complaining about thread titles not being specific enough. Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rebecca 0 #16 January 13, 2007 Wingladies rock and seriously increase SMV. The fact that you want to do that says this to the prowling urban cougar: 1.) He MUST have redeeming qualities if an attractive cool chick is his friend. 2.) She can trust him not to hump her leg (right away). 3.) He doesn't NEED female companionship. Very irresistable. Note to men: I highly recommend this strategy, if you have an attractive cool lady friend. But be warned: The risks are high if you choose poorly. you've got to ask yourself one question: 'Do I feel loquacious?' -- well do you, punk? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tbrown 26 #17 January 13, 2007 QuoteWingladies rock and seriously increase SMV. I never even thought of it that way, but my senior year in college I sort of had a winglady. There was nothing more between us than just being friends, we'd lived in the same house (different rooms) once and fought like cats & dogs over who did dishes, toothpaste & so on. Living apart though, we were the best of friends. Anyway, her boyfriend went "on the road" - very important in those days. I was a student with a student I.D. and she was not. So I constantly took her out to movies, dances, concerts, whatever was happening on campus, with my I.D. I was happy to be her social date and we had fun. and part of that fun was I really met A LOT more women than I ever had before. I got SO laid my senior year and I think a lot of that might have had to do with squiring Maria around. Hey guys, it really works ! Your humble servant.....Professor Gravity ! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SpeedRacer 1 #18 January 14, 2007 the term is "wing girl" i think the concept is that women are more attracted to men if they believe that other women are attracted to him too. Speed Racer -------------------------------------------------- Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyflyer77 0 #19 January 15, 2007 QuoteWingladies rock and seriously increase SMV. The fact that you want to do that says this to the prowling urban cougar: 1.) He MUST have redeeming qualities if an attractive cool chick is his friend. 2.) She can trust him not to hump her leg (right away). 3.) He doesn't NEED female companionship. Very irresistable. Note to men: I highly recommend this strategy, if you have an attractive cool lady friend. But be warned: The risks are high if you choose poorly. Thanks...its good to hear I'm not the only one with this attitude. If I stand on my tip toes, I can see the weekend from here! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyflyer77 0 #20 January 15, 2007 Quotethe term is "wing girl" i think the concept is that women are more attracted to men if they believe that other women are attracted to him too. EXACTLY [;); This is why I am wanting to help a freind out. If I stand on my tip toes, I can see the weekend from here! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnMitchell 16 #21 January 15, 2007 So when you're helping him meet other women, do you act like a friend or pretend to be a girlfriend? Just wondering how that works. Lots of times women will hit on a guy who's with a date already out of competiveness or something. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyflyer77 0 #22 January 15, 2007 QuoteSo when you're helping him meet other women, do you act like a friend or pretend to be a girlfriend? Just wondering how that works. Lots of times women will hit on a guy who's with a date already out of competiveness or something. It really depends on what the guy is looking for. 1) if the guy if looking for another chick to just have fun with:--- the winglady acts a little more seductive with her male friend. Not too much though, just enough to get the other ladies checking him out. 2) if the guy is really looking for a chick to possibly have a relationship with.---by all means the winglady DOES NOT BE SEDUCTIVE AT ALL!!! Instead, she just hangs out with him as a hot, sexy, fun lady friend. This will grab another womans attention fast and then you help move the attention from the guy and the wingland to the guy and the OTHER GIRL. The cool thing about it, he gets the girl he wants and doesn't have to do really anything. And the winglady still have her friend. If I stand on my tip toes, I can see the weekend from here! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
