kbordson 8 #1 May 12, 2007 With all the sex (or lack there of) threads and the conversation with a patient yesterday (she had only had a TOTAL of one orgasm in her life).... started me thinking. (and yes, I did a search - thus the resurection of the Happy Orgasm Day thread from 2005) Here's the question: Females: Have you ever had an orgasm (honestly - not the faking it ones)? Do you have one every time? Are you capable of mulitple orgasms? Men - same questions... but I bet I can guess the answers. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
caspar 0 #2 May 12, 2007 guys can have multiple orgasms? i feel like ive missed the first half of the conversation... ?????"When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sharimcm 0 #3 May 12, 2007 This may sound, well, not right, but I don't want to stop until the man reaches an orgasm. It's hard to get me there at times, so I at least want him to have the ultimate feeling. "I had a dude tip his black cowboy hat to me after I provided him with a condom outside my hotel room at 3-something in the morning." -myself Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 35 #4 May 12, 2007 Quote guys can have multiple orgasms? i feel like ive missed the first half of the conversation... ????? Yep, we can have them. I've had up to three in one session. Three is probably the max number for men though, after the third spewing, the poor dick hangs limp and no amount of fluffing is going to bring it back to attention, at least for a few hours. Still, women have got us men beat in # of orgasms possible in one session. I've seen my wife go through at least 5 a few times."Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,590 #5 May 12, 2007 Quote [Three is probably the max number for men though, after the third spewing, the poor dick hangs limp and no amount of fluffing is going to bring it back to attention, at least for a few hours. Unless the Coolidge Effect comes into play: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coolidge_effect"There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
caspar 0 #6 May 12, 2007 Quote Quote guys can have multiple orgasms? i feel like ive missed the first half of the conversation... ????? Yep, we can have them. I've had up to three in one session. Three is probably the max number for men though, after the third spewing, the poor dick hangs limp and no amount of fluffing is going to bring it back to attention, at least for a few hours. Still, women have got us men beat in # of orgasms possible in one session. I've seen my wife go through at least 5 a few times. you totally just wanted to say that you can give your wife 5+ orgasms in one go. haha. or did you mean you were watching someone else give her 5+ "When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 35 #7 May 12, 2007 Quote Quote [Three is probably the max number for men though, after the third spewing, the poor dick hangs limp and no amount of fluffing is going to bring it back to attention, at least for a few hours. Unless the Coolidge Effect comes into play: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coolidge_effect You might have a good point there! But damned if I'm going to go that route as a married man. "Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 35 #8 May 12, 2007 Quote Quote Quote guys can have multiple orgasms? i feel like ive missed the first half of the conversation... ????? Yep, we can have them. I've had up to three in one session. Three is probably the max number for men though, after the third spewing, the poor dick hangs limp and no amount of fluffing is going to bring it back to attention, at least for a few hours. Still, women have got us men beat in # of orgasms possible in one session. I've seen my wife go through at least 5 a few times. you totally just wanted to say that you can give your wife 5+ orgasms in one go. haha. or did you mean you were watching someone else give her 5+ It takes practice and getting to know her well enough to know what methods work and what doesn't, and alternate between the clit and the g-spot. And yes, I can give my wife 5. And when that happens, she's a happy woman for the rest of the month. "Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,590 #9 May 12, 2007 Quote Still, women have got us men beat in # of orgasms possible in one session. I've seen my wife go through at least 5 a few times. you totally just wanted to say that you can give your wife 5+ orgasms in one go. haha. or did you mean you were watching someone else give her 5+ I was thinking he might have been peeking through the door while she was playing with her favorite battery-operated "toy"."There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 35 #10 May 12, 2007 Quote Quote Still, women have got us men beat in # of orgasms possible in one session. I've seen my wife go through at least 5 a few times. you totally just wanted to say that you can give your wife 5+ orgasms in one go. haha. or did you mean you were watching someone else give her 5+ I was thinking he might have been peeking through the door while she was playing with her favorite battery-operated "toy".She does have her toys, but she likes the real thing better. "Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,590 #11 May 12, 2007 An example of the "Coolidge Effect"."There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 35 #12 May 12, 2007 Quote An example of the "Coolidge Effect". All bow down to Sooty! He DA MAN! "Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
matt1215 0 #13 May 12, 2007 I've had multiples, also dry orgasms. Seems like by riding the edge right, more intense orgasms with less juice seem to happen. Orgasm and ejaculation can definitely happen independently. Antidepressants do some strange things for me climax-wise. Zoloft (which I'm on now) leaves my libido, often makes it more intense by making it tough to bust a nut. Often times, I'm at it for a long time just to not be a walking erection . It's a side-effect I enjoy most of the time , tho it can get old . Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
base689 0 #14 May 12, 2007 Talking about men and multiple orgasms, by "multiple orgasms" do you mean: 1) having intercourse, reach orgasm, ejaculate, rest (for an "appropriate" amount of time), having intercourse, reach orgasm, ejaculate, rest (for an "appropriate" amount of time) and so on 2) having intercourse, reach orgasm, NOT ejaculate, continuing having intercourse, reach orgasm, NOT ejaculate, continuing having intercourse, reach orgasm and finally ejaculating To be clear, I DO reach multiple orgasms in the meaning 1. I heard there are men who can reach multiple orgasms in the meaning 2: I am wondering if this is a "possibility" given by training/technique or by "pure talent"Stay safe out there Blue Skies and Soft Walls BASE #689 - base_689AT_NO_123_SPAMyahoo.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TrophyHusband 0 #15 May 12, 2007 that reminds me of an adam carolla rant where he was talking about the idiotic things that cosmo suggests to impress your man in bed. "ladies, if want to impress your man, grow a new vagina, that's what we really want!" in turn that reminds me of the phrase"ass, the other vagina." "Your scrotum is quite nice" - Skymama www.kjandmegan.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mamajumps 0 #16 May 12, 2007 Quote With all the sex (or lack there of) threads and the conversation with a patient yesterday (she had only had a TOTAL of one orgasm in her life).... started me thinking. (and yes, I did a search - thus the resurection of the Happy Orgasm Day thread from 2005) Here's the question: Females: Have you ever had an orgasm (honestly - not the faking it ones)? Do you have one every time? Are you capable of mulitple orgasms? Men - same questions... but I bet I can guess the answers. I can have one everytime if we break out the toys and take it to kinky level, however, if its just a wham bam thank ya mam quicky, it never happens. However, my sister who is 24 has shared with me that she has never had one, I offered to take her toy shopping but she was so not interested... oh well her loss.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
willard 0 #17 May 12, 2007 Quote Quote [Three is probably the max number for men though, after the third spewing, the poor dick hangs limp and no amount of fluffing is going to bring it back to attention, at least for a few hours. Unless the Coolidge Effect comes into play: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coolidge_effect So, after three shots, if the woman wants more action from her man all she has to do is change the bag over her head?? I'm gettin' gone before Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
leroydb 0 #18 May 12, 2007 3, thats it?... (edit for clarity) if you keep it stimulated one can keep it up indef. I have had five (but I was a tired puppy, with some pulled muscles) with no down time. Quote Quote guys can have multiple orgasms? i feel like ive missed the first half of the conversation... ????? Yep, we can have them. I've had up to three in one session. Three is probably the max number for men though, after the third spewing, the poor dick hangs limp and no amount of fluffing is going to bring it back to attention, at least for a few hours. Still, women have got us men beat in # of orgasms possible in one session. I've seen my wife go through at least 5 a few times. Leroy ..I knew I was an unwanted baby when I saw my bath toys were a toaster and a radio... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
caspar 0 #19 May 12, 2007 you've had 3 in your ass? thanks for sharing that with us.... i guess. "When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #20 May 13, 2007 I could use one now. I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kbordson 8 #21 May 13, 2007 Just one? You're not a multiple type, are you? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #22 May 13, 2007 Quote Just one? You're not a multiple type, are you? Not tonight.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DFWAJG 4 #23 May 13, 2007 I didn't start having them until I was 33...after I was diagnosed with ADHD AND treated for it. For the first time in my life, I finally knew what the big deal about sex is. I had seen at least three psychiatrists from med school to multiple residencies, who never inquired about adhd symptoms, despite my giving them plenty of symptoms. It was always rode off as a manifestation of PTSD. So, when my female patients have sexual dysfunction complaints, I always screen them for ADHD. Because, they just may not be present in the moment, as I had heard from my many lovers prior to treatment. I have dated at least two men who are capable of multiple orgasms. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hipwrddude 0 #24 May 13, 2007 To answer the question, Do you have one every time? I’ll say this: I’ve never had to fake it. What a sad state of affairs for women trying to achieve orgasm. Only some 20% of women experience orgasm during the dirty deed. Two prominent studies show over half of all women suffer from some sexual problem. Heck, Elisabeth Lloyd, a professor and chair at Indiana University, wrote a book that suggests female orgasm may have not any evolutionary purpose; period! She suggests orgasm may be incidental, not purposeful (i.e., for reproductive success, mate branding/guarding, etc.) The late highly acclaimed biologist Stephan J. Gould strikes again. (His research brought him to the same conclusion.) Here’s something that may not be commonly known: Intimacy for women, cheap thrill for men: research on orgasm using brain scans showed the parts of the brain activated were different in women then from men. Parts of the brain involving intimacy and trust lit up for women, lower animal pleasure centers for men. Researchers suggest the notion that women, in order to have orgasm, must trust and release themselves in order to get the big ‘O.’ Heck, women are more successful getting the big O solo then with a partner. I guess it’s because they’re having sex with someone they love. Mr. Right Hypothesis: studies show married women orgasm more frequently then single women. While it gets slightly more complicated then that, in essence, studies show birds took flight with guys they’re really attracted to. (Lloyd discounts this as a male derived bias in her book.) Studies often show the causality between the quality of the orgasm and the quality of the marriage. While not the whole story, another study flipped the lights back on: frequency and desire in women drop sharply after just one year, then declines steadily until just 4 years into it her desire was down 50%! Oh no, 20% after 20 years, eeek! Whether women are keeping their “resources” scarce to keep their man interested, or men maintain their higher sex drive for mate guarding (against other men) and/or to keep their girl faithful (since they’re always ready,) it’s not fun. This is not a good state of affairs for the sexes (unless you’re a homosexual – the busiest group in every study.) But it could be worse—consider “Lesbian Bed Death.” Ultimately, when driving the sex bus, it’s up to the operator. True, if sexual activity were measured by frequent flyer miles, the sky would be filled with solo flights! Hmm, no wonder the decline in in-flight meals. You're always the starter in your own life! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #25 May 13, 2007 The Dr. talks sex under the guise of a pseudo-clinical study. That turns me on unless this is really Dr. Ruth talkin'. My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
