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Misternatural

Women; guys trying to chat you up in public places?

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Maybe it's just me, but I generally appreciate the fact that someone took the time out of their day to chat with me.
She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man,
because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon

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Maybe it's just me, but I generally appreciate the fact that someone took the time out of their day to chat with me.

there a tad difference between chatting WITH you and chatting you UP:ph34r:
You are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky)
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there a tad difference between chatting WITH you and chatting you UP



At my age, any kind of chatting is appreciated. ;)
She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man,
because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon

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There are so many factors in that variable. Depends on the guy (creepy in a stained thin white wife-beater shirt with 4day stubble/beard and offering candy v. relatively "safe" looking and sincere comments). Depends on what he says to "chat me up" ("Hey girl, want some candy" v. "wow... is it hot lately"). Depends on my mood and psyche at the time (this weekend after being told that I was cold and uncaring, it might have been nice to have someone trying to actually know me before placing judgement). Depends on where (WORST place - had someone try to pick me up while I was working in an STD clinic!!!! He was there for treatment!!!). Depends on time of day (3am at the gas stations.... leave it alone).

Lots of factors.....

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I had this nice girl come up to me and say "Nice t-shirt!!!" in the Phoenix Airport yesterday... as I happened to be wearing a PD t-shirt and she was a jumper herself...

I don't think either of us were really chatting each other up though... since we were both in the area visiting our respective SOs... :P

Honestly I'm happy to chat with just about anyone... male or female... and frankly I don't "chat people up" I talk to them and try and get to know who they are... :P

Livin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife...

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I take my time to talk with just about anyone who wants to talk. Now, if the conversation goes something like this....

"Hey, you have beautiful hair."
"Thank you."
"I like long hair."
"Thank you. It's hard to maintain sometimes."
"Can I run my fingers through it."
"Uh, no... Better yet, why don't you ask my boyfriend."

The guy got in his car and left. That's just freaky and no, I wouldn't want to keep chatting it up with him.

"I had a dude tip his black cowboy hat to me after I provided him with a condom outside my hotel room at 3-something in the morning." -myself

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I'll carry on a conversation with anyone that starts one with me. B|

I will change the direction of that conversation if it's going someplace I'm not wanting to go, however. :P i.e.:

"Hey, do you know where a guy could score some good stuff around here?"

(Looking at self to see if I'm dressed like a dealer for some reason today) "Hmm, you know, the best place I've found to get premium, custom chocolates is Boehm's Chocolate Factory in Issaquah. They have a few satellite stores."

"No, man I mean some..."

"OH! You mean the good stuff." ;)

"Yeah, man! Good stuff."

"Well in that case, Godiva chocolates are sold on Ft. Lewis. I'm not sure of other retailers in the area. Wow, look at the time! My dad should be meeting me here any minute now. Then again, the chief of police is a busy man...daddy might be a little late." :)



The entire contents of this post are fictitious and in no way are meant to represent any person, event, or place, real or imaginary.

-accept Boehm's Chocolate Factory, which God placed on earth to allow humans a brief sensual awareness of the rapture that awaits in heaven.

~Jaye
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And you refused many invites from me to go Christmas carolling when I loved so close by...tsk tsk tsk. I would have chatted in between carols and sips of tequila...

:)

Vinny the Anvil
Post Traumatic Didn't Make The Lakers Syndrome is REAL
JACKASS POWER!!!!!!

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Bah! I haven't seen you in about five years since I was up in Kapowsin, but think you and Andrea both have probably got more than a few guys wanting to chat! Even if you weren't cool as hell, when you make pies and jumpsuits as well as you do, men of any age want to chat with you! Still have my awesome Vmax, though I haven't jumped it in a while being overseas and all...

:)

Vinny the Anvil
Post Traumatic Didn't Make The Lakers Syndrome is REAL
JACKASS POWER!!!!!!

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I take my time to talk with just about anyone who wants to talk. Now, if the conversation goes something like this....

"Hey, you have beautiful hair."
"Thank you."
"I like long hair."
"Thank you. It's hard to maintain sometimes."
"Can I run my fingers through it."
"Uh, no... Better yet, why don't you ask my boyfriend."

The guy got in his car and left. That's just freaky and no, I wouldn't want to keep chatting it up with him.



How would you take this comversation:

"Hey, you have beautiful hair."
"Thank you."
"I like long hair."
"Thank you. It's hard to maintain sometimes."
"Wanna have sex?"

:P
You are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky)
My Life ROCKS!
How's yours doing?

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How would you take this comversation:

"Hey, you have beautiful hair."
"Thank you."
"I like long hair."
"Thank you. It's hard to maintain sometimes."
"Wanna have sex?"

:P



MUCH, MUCH better. Now, see... That's direct and to the point. Hell, when he wanted to run his fingers through my hair, I'm sure he'd want to cuddle afterwards. Nope. I'll take what I can, then leave. :o:P

"I had a dude tip his black cowboy hat to me after I provided him with a condom outside my hotel room at 3-something in the morning." -myself

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How would you take this comversation:

"Hey, you have beautiful hair."
"Thank you."
"I like long hair."
"Thank you. It's hard to maintain sometimes."
"Wanna have sex?"

:P



MUCH, MUCH better. Now, see... That's direct and to the point. Hell, when he wanted to run his fingers through my hair, I'm sure he'd want to cuddle afterwards. Nope. I'll take what I can, then leave. :o:P
I may have to remind you of this conversation in 18 months ;)
You are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky)
My Life ROCKS!
How's yours doing?

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For most guys I think it's all about the adrenelin rush just to get out there, spark up a few senences, try to say something clever or witty,have you respond,(in a good way) and get the hell out of there without knocking everything over or blabbering some stupid crap.

Its like you're in the spotlight in a mini variety show,
and stuff.

unless you're near items like melons or cucumbers, -cuz thats just looking for trouble.:o

Beware of the collateralizing and monetization of your desires.
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For most guys I think it's all about the adrenelin rush just to get out there, spark up a few senences, try to say something clever or witty,have you respond,(in a good way) and get the hell out of there without knocking everything over or blabbering some stupid crap.

why can't it be about talking to someone and getting to know them... :|
Livin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife...

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I appreciate it most of the time.

The reason that I say most is that there's always that one guy that is really creepy and/or just "icky" - i.e. hasn't showered in a year/stinks, yellow teeth/bad breath, really bad one liners, etc. :S

Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile.

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