Why do we have to place blame....

[guppie01 0]

when someone dies?

For shit's sake, we're all grieving, why can't we join together and give each other support and strength instead of pointing fingers????



rant over

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"Let's do something romantic this Saturday... how bout we bust out the restraints?"
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OMG, is she okay?

[airtwardo 7]

Because we're human... and when something hurts we try to find a reason, for some people, placing blame makes 'them' feel better.




Sorry you're going through it, hope you are doing okay.

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[sunshine 2]

Sweet pea, i wish more than anything i could give you a hug right now.

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Who died?

You are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky)
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How's yours doing?

[guppie01 0]

I'm okay, my heart aches for people who are facing this problem right now - feeling helpless. I also face never seeing some of my family because of a "revenge."

Everyone is shedding tears, everyone is in pain, and placing blame on one person only makes things worse. People placing the blame cannot find closure if they don't face the truth. People who are being blamed are only made to feel like pond scum.

None of this helps - it will not bring the person back. It will not eliminate the pain. It will not bring anyone peace.

I simply do not understand peoples reactions some times.

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"Let's do something romantic this Saturday... how bout we bust out the restraints?"
Raddest Ho this side of Jersey #1 - MISS YOU
OMG, is she okay?

[skybeergodd 0]

because some dumb ass money grubbing lawyers have turned our society into a "someone also is at fault" society. If someone's at fault that means there is someone to sue and those law suits cause havoc to everyone but those pocket lining idiots.....The sad part now is thats just the norm for society even if there is no lawsuit....I believe Shakespeare in Henry VI when he wrote "We should start by killing all the lawyers"

[aprilcat 0]

My brother's 'wife' (see: look term girlfriend with a kid) doesn't like me because of what my sister told her about the way I handled our Mother's ashes. I did what Mom wanted. My sister couldn't handle it so she bitched.

Now I have haters that aren't even related to me mad at me for giving my Mom a decent scattering in a place she loved.(and I'm all torn up about it...NOT)

Its alright. I did what I needed to do and Mom is not coming back. She wasn't coming back even if I did what 'everyone' thought was the best thing.

Fear and pain make people strike out. Those who take the time to dwell on despising others in the family and want 'revenge' for something that in the long run and despite circumstances, IS normal, need a serious time out before making promises their souls can't keep!

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