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[jhrmustang 0]

I dive out of a small dz and am interested in somebody I have met there. Not sure whether or not she knows. If I tell her and things don't go right it may be uncomfortable at the dz. Should I tell her?

The strong can always afford to be gentle, It is only the weak who need to "give as good as they get."

[Zenister 0]

nope...

if it happens it happens.. if you 'force it' at all youll just screw up DZ life for you, her and anyone else involved..

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[DFWAJG 4]

go for it. She may be your misses. just ask her out for coffee, and take it from there.

[Beerlight 0]

Noooooooooooooooooo!!! don't do it!!

[-Scatter- 0]

Tell her what? "I'm madly in love with you. Can we get straight to the having babies and moving to the suburbs part?"

If you have to ask on the internet you're planning on WAYYYYYYYY overdoing it. Leave her a graceful out, and what's the problem?

[jamiem 1]

well as a girl myself here is my advice.

don't straight out ask her out on a date, because if your dz is anything like my dz, the ration of men to women is crazy. and because of that i'm sure she's been hit on at the dz before. so take a different approach. I would keep it skydiving related in the beginning. maybe see if she wants to do a group jump with you, talk to her about when she comes out, things like that and see if you can get a friendship going and try and gage her feelings before you balls out and ask her out.

[Beerlight 0]

I forgot to add something. Ever heard the phrase "You don't crap where you eat" Trust me, it's appropriate.

[Fast 0]

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I dive out of a small dz and am interested in somebody I have met there. Not sure whether or not she knows. If I tell her and things don't go right it may be uncomfortable at the dz. Should I tell her?

My thought is, knowing how DZs work, if you are asking on the internet, you don't have the moves to get her. She has already been wooed by someone who knows what they are doing.

My suggestion, just hang out, be friendly and maybe the right situation will present itself. Then again, I have been single for awhile!

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[redwings 0]

Why the hurry? Even if you did tell her and she didn't return your feelings, why would it be uncomfortable? How long have you known her?

Like the others said, start with a friendship. Get to know her and then go from there.

Good luck, with the girl and skydiving.

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