warpedskydiver 0 #26 September 19, 2007 Lock and Load. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ACMESkydiver 0 #27 September 19, 2007 Quote At least you post here a lot, so all of us would notice if you were gone for very long Our new PSA: Post-Whore For Safety! ~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
simplyputsi 0 #28 September 19, 2007 Quote Lock and Load. errr I have to do this these days and I can tel you it's not something I want to do. I don't leave my house without being armed these days. I don't want to live that way, and don't think anyone else should have to. It is what one must do sometimes though.Skymama's #2 stalker - Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
warpedskydiver 0 #29 September 19, 2007 Agreed Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wmw999 2,560 #30 September 19, 2007 I'll jump on the advice bandwagon, and agree with AggieDave & simplyputsi. Don't answer. Delete your account. Keep a record if he does get in touch with you. I had a stalker for several years. It was miserable. He lived for interaction. It's just not worth it. I tried all the "nice" ways, and they didn't work. It would probably take more than you have right now for a restraining order (I filed a couple of complaints, and that wasn't enough). Live YOUR life. And first thing really is to delete the myspace account. At the very least, get rid of ALL of the pictures of you, your family, and where you live. But it's not hard to find someone. So get rid of the account. And if he does contact you, tell him you don't want to talk to him and then hang up. If he writes you to tell you that he's all changed, say "wonderful" to yourself and ignore him. Hopefully he'll think you're an asshole and leave you alone. It's OK to be thought an asshole by a lunatic. Wendy W.There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RichardCranium 0 #31 September 19, 2007 QuoteMy psycho ex-boyfriend just tried to contact me on MySpace. He's 35 and married with 2 kids but mentally he's still that 18 year old crazy. And you are mentally 15 years old for messing around with myspace!!!! What do you expect? jeeez Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gonzalesna 0 #32 September 19, 2007 I think myspace has a block user option... if so, use it.Some people refrain from beating a dead horse. Personally, I find a myriad of entertainment value when beating it until it becomes a horse-smoothie. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
simplyputsi 0 #33 September 19, 2007 QuoteI think myspace has a block user option... if so, use it. anyone can try to access your page without being logged in. Or anyone can create another page. Deletion/creation of a new one is the only way. yes it will suck if you keep in touch with friends that way, but you'll build it back up. I wouldn't include the friend that he got the info from though, as he'll be digging through her friends, again, to find her.Skymama's #2 stalker - Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ACMESkydiver 0 #34 September 19, 2007 Quote Quote My psycho ex-boyfriend just tried to contact me on MySpace. He's 35 and married with 2 kids but mentally he's still that 18 year old crazy. And you are mentally 15 years old for messing around with myspace!!!! What do you expect? jeeez MySpace has brought me a lot of business. If that's a 15 year old mentality, I'll say that's one entrepreneurial 15 year old...Hey it's just another website. I've gotten in touch with some service dog trainers through their groups, too. They've helped give us some ideas on directions to go for the twins. MySpace I really could take it or leave it; I think I check it once a week to see how my buddy in Canada is doing, and see pics of my friends baby that's growing up in California...-I'd have a hard time giving up the business contacts that I've got through MySpace, too. I have some customers on there, and I think they like that they can see who I am and what I'm about. Like I said, I run an internet website, my BUSINESS runs through the internet, I get business through the internet...it's a necessary evil.~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ACMESkydiver 0 #35 September 19, 2007 Quote Quote I think myspace has a block user option... if so, use it. anyone can try to access your page without being logged in. Or anyone can create another page. Deletion/creation of a new one is the only way. yes it will suck if you keep in touch with friends that way, but you'll build it back up. I wouldn't include the friend that he got the info from though, as he'll be digging through her friends, again, to find her. He can't get in to see anything on MySpace page except for the age, avatar, and city/state unless I allow them to. That's how mine is set up. I guess I'll just have to be careful about comments I post on other peoples' public profiles and make sure they don't say anything specific about where we're going to be when...And Wendy, that SUCKS!! Dang. Yeah I know that ANY contact is good contact to someone that is obsessed, so I'm going to forget about this one little message. If I get anything else, like Peregrinerose said, I'll make a very clear statement about no contact. Oy I hope I'm just overreacting. ~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Squeak 17 #36 September 19, 2007 What's his Myspace adress You are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky) My Life ROCKS! How's yours doing? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ACMESkydiver 0 #37 September 20, 2007 Quote What's his Myspace adress No...no you don't. Thankfully it was a shitty camera anyway...~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AggieDave 6 #38 September 20, 2007 Just so the people in this thread realize something about restraining orders. It depends on your state laws, for instance in TX restraining orders aren't really worth the paper their printed on. Protective orders are useful things that are entered into TCIC/NCIC and have laws to back them up. A restraining order is simply a judge's order that if you violate you could be held in contempt of court. Basically that means that law enforcement can't specifically do anything about it when the asshole shows up on your porch. The restraining order crap is basically people's belief's of their rights by what they watch on TV. Unfortunately too many people rely on TV and not educating themselves on what their rights and the laws actually are. So if the harrassment continues then consulting law enforcement as well as a lawyer in regards to what court order would be appropriate would be the best course of action. Law and Order, CSI and Cops is not how you should base your education of your rights and your state's laws on. --"When I die, may I be surrounded by scattered chrome and burning gasoline." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydemon2 0 #39 September 20, 2007 Quote Law and Order, CSI and Cops is not how you should base your education of your rights and your state's laws on. Awww come on your no fun...... those show are great wells of information!!Beauty is only skin deep, but ugly goes clean to the bone! I like to start my day off with a little Ray of Soulshine™!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CSpenceFLY 1 #40 September 20, 2007 Our laws are written by pussies. When are we going to get tired of this shit?? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amazon 7 #41 September 20, 2007 Dont worry.. the black helicopters are not too bad... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AggieDave 6 #42 September 20, 2007 Quote Our laws are written by pussies. When are we going to get tired of this shit?? Then start the process to get it changed. Write the elected state officials, run for office, get proactive. Its your government, you can work for change. If you get enough people together you can make a difference, especially on the state and city level.--"When I die, may I be surrounded by scattered chrome and burning gasoline." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Muenkel 0 #43 September 20, 2007 Hey Dave, first I want to say that it's good to see you posting again. I've missed you buddy.Second, When did you become so smart? _________________________________________ Chris Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 35 #44 September 20, 2007 Quote Second, When did you become so smart? When he became a cop. "Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AggieDave 6 #45 September 20, 2007 Everyone knows that cops are dumb. I got smart by watching JAG, the *real* law TV show.--"When I die, may I be surrounded by scattered chrome and burning gasoline." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
1969912 0 #46 September 20, 2007 Get him to do this for you: http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,297394,00.html "Once we got to the point where twenty/something's needed a place on the corner that changed the oil in their cars we were doomed . . ." -NickDG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Muenkel 0 #47 September 20, 2007 J, I'm really not concerned about you going missing because we all know that any good skydiver would catch it on video.I'm surprised no one has asked the obvious question. If you go missing, who gets your gear? _________________________________________ Chris Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ACMESkydiver 0 #48 September 20, 2007 Quote Get him to do this for you: http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,297394,00.html Damn...well, shoot. If something happens and this really is an obsession come back to haunt me, then I'm sure he'd be dumb enough to do that, too...~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ACMESkydiver 0 #49 September 20, 2007 Quote Tell me more about the Monkey thing! I have nothing to do with the monkey thing...my friend put 'monkeys are funny' on her mySpace and I guess he assumed that it was some kind of inside joke between the two of us or something. ~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Squeak 17 #50 September 20, 2007 Quote Everyone knows that cops are dumb. I got smart by watching JAG, the *real* law TV show. And NCIS dont forget NCISYou are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky) My Life ROCKS! How's yours doing? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
