skysprite 0 #1 October 11, 2007 "Please accept _______ as a token of my gratitude." Is that cheesy for a thank you card? I'm thanking someone for some things she gave to me, and also got a small gift to give to her in return too, to show my appreciation. We're more acquaintances than friends, atm.~skysprite Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #2 October 11, 2007 Quote "Please accept oral sex as a token of my gratitude." Is that cheesy for a thank you card? I'm thanking someone for some things she gave to me, and also got a small gift to give to her in return too, to show my appreciation. We're more acquaintances than friends, atm. Look ok to me.My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lawrocket 3 #3 October 11, 2007 It says what you mean. It is a token of your gratitude. It is not cheesy, corny, or subject to interpretation. My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skysprite 0 #4 October 11, 2007 I really should have seen that one coming. ~skysprite Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shell666 0 #5 October 11, 2007 Quote "Please accept _______ as a token of my gratitude." Is that cheesy for a thank you card? I'm thanking someone for some things she gave to me, and also got a small gift to give to her in return too, to show my appreciation. We're more acquaintances than friends, atm. It sounds fine but I find it a little "stuffy". Why not just say Thanks so much! It's appreciated! and leave it at that. Give it to her along with the little gift. No need to say you're "giving" her something in return. She'll figure it out when she opens it up! Whatever you decide, it's really sweet that you're thanking her. Too many people don't do that nowadays! 'Shell Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ImGunnaJump 0 #6 October 11, 2007 My first reaction was the same as Shell's...I agree with her on all counts, especially the last one. A lot of people don't seem to make the effort, so it's great that you are. Which reminds me, I have some thank you notes to write!! "...I've learned that while the "needs" in life are important (food, water, shelter), it's the "wants" in life (ice cream, chocolate, sex) that make it worth the effort." Kbordson Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lawrocket 3 #7 October 11, 2007 Chicks and dudes see it differently. Guys are fine with "thanks." Women seems to need cards and stuff... My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ACMESkydiver 0 #8 October 11, 2007 I'd use that in a business correspondence, personally. I like to show 'me' in personal cards/gifts...then again, I show 'me' in my business correspondence, too, if I've already met face to face with the person. Hmm, either way is perfectly all right. suck at giving advice. ~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skysprite 0 #9 October 11, 2007 Yeah, I was concerned it was too stuffy/business-y too. We're probably close enough that I could have gone more personal, but oh well, I already sealed it up so that'll just have to do. I agree that people don't show enough gratitude nowdays. I used to be really bad about sending out thank yous. Then one time I quickly and grudgingly wrote one out at the insistence of my mom (I was a teenager at the time - I was busy, I had "better" things to do, etc.), then later heard how much it really meant to this person (who was actually a pretty special person to me). It changed my outlook. Hearing "thanks, you're appreciated" really can make someone's day. So now when someone has shown me some kindness or touched me in some way, it's important to me that they know what their kindness or generosity means to me. ~skysprite Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #10 October 11, 2007 Well, like lawrocket said guys are ok with a thanks. and like shell said not many people do stuff like that anymore. So, give her the cheesy card and write something a little more personable in there. Like Hey, sorry for the cheesy card but I couldnt find one that i liked. but thank you for your kindness/generousity/oral pleasure. whatever fits. I hate cards because they are written by someone else. a folded piece of paper with your thoughts on it would mean more to me...even if it's in crayonMy photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ntrprnr 0 #11 October 11, 2007 Quote I really should have seen that one coming. Actually, when it's oral sex, the girl usually DOESN'T see the coming. Therein lies the problem, I've been told. _______________ "Why'd you track away at 7,000 feet?" "Even in freefall, I have commitment issues." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
porpoishead 8 #12 October 11, 2007 Quote "Please accept _______ as a token of my gratitude." Is that cheesy for a thank you card? I'm thanking someone for some things she gave to me, and also got a small gift to give to her in return too, to show my appreciation. We're more acquaintances than friends, atm. atm = ass to mouth???thats a fetish isn't it???if you want a friend feed any animal Perry Farrell Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shell666 0 #13 October 11, 2007 Quote Yeah, I was concerned it was too stuffy/business-y too. We're probably close enough that I could have gone more personal, but oh well, I already sealed it up so that'll just have to do. I agree that people don't show enough gratitude nowdays. I used to be really bad about sending out thank yous. Then one time I quickly and grudgingly wrote one out at the insistence of my mom (I was a teenager at the time - I was busy, I had "better" things to do, etc.), then later heard how much it really meant to this person (who was actually a pretty special person to me). It changed my outlook. Hearing "thanks, you're appreciated" really can make someone's day. So now when someone has shown me some kindness or touched me in some way, it's important to me that they know what their kindness or generosity means to me. Any thanks will do! Especially in this day and age. While it's easy to whip off an email to say "thanks", actually SENDING a card is that much more special! 'Shell Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skysprite 0 #14 October 12, 2007 Dropped the card and gift off today! Hopefully it brightened her day when she got it! She's definitely brightened several of my days lately! Seriously though, whether it's a card, a phone call, or regular face to face interaction, I'm just a big dork. I'm always either too personal or too stuffy/business-y. Luckily my friends know this and love me anyway. It's those that don't know me well that I feel sorry for. ~skysprite Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #15 October 12, 2007 Hopefully, you didnt put the batteries in. Sometimes those things just turn on by themselves.My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dannydan 5 #17 October 12, 2007 correct me if I am wrong, but I am thinking that She is cleaning house for the winter and giving you stuff that she didnt have time to take to goodwill etc... But NOW yr giving Her stuff that she will probably give to me or someone else next winter.... a vicious circle of GIVING!!! ; DD Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skysprite 0 #18 October 12, 2007 Nah, it's not advisable to re-gift that sort of thing, right jt? ~skysprite Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #19 October 12, 2007 Yea, there's something not right about that. My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dannydan 5 #20 October 12, 2007 Quote Nah, it's not advisable to re-gift that sort of thing, right jt? I am getting the drift that this "gift" is an adult toy??? I didnt see that or exactly what kind of gift it was anywhere in this thread..... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jumpah 0 #21 October 12, 2007 My boss gave me a card last year after our team finished a big milestone in our project. It was real sweet, and at one point it said "...and for the objectionable way in which you view all things". This was a purchased card...straight from some smart card writer somewhere (not hallmark tho). I looked up "objectionable" recently as something wasn't sitting right. (from dictionary.com): ob·jec·tion·a·ble /əbˈuhb-jek-shuh-nuh-buhl –adjective 1. causing or tending to cause an objection, disapproval, or protest. 2. offending good taste, manners, etiquette, propriety, etc.; offensive: objectionable behavior. Well we all got a good laugh out of it...I knew what she meant, of course, the word "objectively". Its still on my office wall... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #22 October 12, 2007 Quote Quote Nah, it's not advisable to re-gift that sort of thing, right jt? I am getting the drift that this "gift" is an adult toy??? I didnt see that or exactly what kind of gift it was anywhere in this thread..... NO. I've just been a child throughout this whole thread. She didn't say what the gift was.My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites