Why living close to your ex is bad...

[iluvtofly 0]

My ex and I live in the same apartment complex, he's about 2 buildings down from me. I was just taking my trash out to the dumpster and saw him leaving his apartment with who I'm guessing is his new gf. They were hugging and kissing good bye then i heard him say, "I love you." The gf thing is kinda be expected but DAMN...our divorce isn't even final yet and he's already saying I love you to someone else? WTF?????? I think it's time for a beer...or 2...or 5. OK...venting over.

[DangerRoo 0]

I'm with you there! beers for us!!
my x moved some new gf in the day I moved out

(I.C.D#2 VP)
""I'm good with my purple penis straw" ~sky mama

[ladydyver 0]

Sounds like you are better off without him.

DPH # 2
"I am not sure what you are suppose to do with that, but I don't think it is suppose to flop around like that." ~Skootz~
I have a strong regard for the rules.......doc!

[waltappel 1]

Too bad I live so far away. I'd generously offer to have wild monkey sex with you on his doorstep just to piss him off.

Who says chivalry is dead?

Walt

[iluvtofly 0]

Awe thanks....i think that's the sweetest thing anyone's ever offered to do "to" me.

[airtwardo 7]

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Too bad I live so far away. I'd generously offer to have wild monkey sex with you on his doorstep just to piss him off.

Who says chivalry is dead?

Walt

Gonna bring yer OWN monkey this time?

~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~

[waltappel 1]

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Awe thanks....i think that's the sweetest thing anyone's ever offered to do "to" me.

Hey, seriously, if he's that quick to "replace" you then you're probably better off without him. Might be time for you to celebrate.
Walt

[ladydyver 0]

ohhh...you know me, I am all about celebrating.

DPH # 2
"I am not sure what you are suppose to do with that, but I don't think it is suppose to flop around like that." ~Skootz~
I have a strong regard for the rules.......doc!

[waltappel 1]

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Too bad I live so far away. I'd generously offer to have wild monkey sex with you on his doorstep just to piss him off.

Who says chivalry is dead?

Walt

Gonna bring yer OWN monkey this time?

Damn, I just *knew* someone was gonna jump on that!

Walt

[monkycndo 0]

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Too bad I live so far away. I'd generously offer to have wild monkey sex with you on his doorstep just to piss him off.

Who says chivalry is dead?

Walt

Gonna bring yer OWN monkey this time?

Damn, I just *knew* someone was gonna jump on that!

Walt

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[waltappel 1]

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ohhh...you know me, I am all about celebrating.

There's always plenty to celebrate if you look at things in just the right way!

Walt

[tigra 0]

Didn't you dump him?

[iluvtofly 0]

Yes I did do the dumping...but it still hurts. Haven't you ever broken up with someone then didn't like seeing them with someone else at first? I think it just hurts knowing that he's able to get over me that fast. I'm in no way a cocky person thinking I'm the greatest thing god has given to men. But it does hurt to know he was able to get over me that fast.

[livendive 8]

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Yes I did do the dumping...but it still hurts. Haven't you ever broken up with someone then didn't like seeing them with someone else at first? I think it just hurts knowing that he's able to get over me that fast. I'm in no way a cocky person thinking I'm the greatest thing god has given to men. But it does hurt to know he was able to get over me that fast.

I could have sworn you were asking for dating advice on here like two or three days after you two agreed to divorce.

Blues,
Dave

"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!"
(drink Mountain Dew)

[waltappel 1]

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Yes I did do the dumping...but it still hurts. Haven't you ever broken up with someone then didn't like seeing them with someone else at first? I think it just hurts knowing that he's able to get over me that fast. I'm in no way a cocky person thinking I'm the greatest thing god has given to men. But it does hurt to know he was able to get over me that fast.

Maybe he's *not* over you.

Besides, if you did the dumping then it's *definitely* time to celebrate!

Walt

[Bolas 5]

So who got the apartment in the same complex as the other one?

She's probably just a rebound girl. He may just be saying what she wants to hear or fooling himself.

Then again, it could be a "show" he planned for weeks for you to "accidently" see.

Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting
If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh.

[waltappel 1]

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I could have sworn you were asking for dating advice on here like two or three days after you two agreed to divorce.

Blues,
Dave

You mean this?

Walt

[iluvtofly 0]

He moved into the apartment complex after things ended.

Though it's only fair to say that this is a very small town and he didn't have many other choices.

[iluvtofly 0]

Yes, i was asking for dating advice. However I quickly realized skymama and the others were right. I needed to take time to find myself first. And I've been doing just that. I haven't been on a single date yet. Yes, there is this one guy that I'm very interested in but I've been stopping myself from jumping head first into a full blown relationship with him. I'll be the first to admit that at first I thought I was ready to go straight back into the dating world. But thanks to the wise words of many I realized that I was wrong. I have no problem admitting that I've made some bad choices in the past but I think I'm learning from them.

[ryoder 1,590]

A wise man once said:

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The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.

"There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones.

[ladydyver 0]

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ohhh...you know me, I am all about celebrating.

There's always plenty to celebrate if you look at things in just the right way!

Walt

so true....it is always 5pm somewhere....time for a glass of wine

DPH # 2
"I am not sure what you are suppose to do with that, but I don't think it is suppose to flop around like that." ~Skootz~
I have a strong regard for the rules.......doc!

[Gato 0]

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However I quickly realized skymama and the others were right. I needed to take time to find myself first.

Good!!! Very good! It's always better to be by yourself for the right reasons than be with someone for the wrong reasons.

And you can be sure that your ex will be "relationship hopping" - you will not be the last woman to dump him, I can assure you!

You'll land on your feet (or on your back, knees, etc.) - Best of Luck!

Gato

T.I.N.S.

[chaoskitty 0]

Sorry if this sounds harsh, but since I read your other threads, I think the only thing that hurts is that he found someone else before you did. You'd probably be just fine if the tables were turned.

[popsjumper 2]

I didn't have the balls to say it first.

My reality and yours are quite different.
I think we're all Bozos on this bus.
Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239

[chaoskitty 0]

I'm not denying that it hurts, but when you're the one who left, you just have to suck it up cupcake!

BTW.. my balls are bigger than yours? eeeww!