Muenkel 0 #51 December 11, 2007 I saw what you wrote Yvonne and understood where you were coming from. I definitely don't want this to be sent to the dark side either, so I won't do that. My point came up because so many replies were about what the deceased wanted. Organ donation I can understand. I always believed it should be done my way and that's how it is written in my will. It wasn't until my best bro recently died that I realized that it should really be discussed with your loved ones. Find out what they would want to do and at the same time explain what your own wishes are. Once again Yvonne, you made it quite clear. It just seemed like no one else understood that part. With all that said, STOP FUCKING DYING PEOPLE! _________________________________________ Chris Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sartre 0 #52 December 11, 2007 Quote With all that said, STOP FUCKING DYING PEOPLE! I concur. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Squeak 17 #53 December 11, 2007 QuoteI've always thought that I wanted to be cremated and then have my ashes spread somewhere.. but you make a really good point about seeing the body.. You can still have a casket vieing if they are cremated. the service is not different either way (here at least), it what happens after the service that determines the cadavers fate. but a viewing is fine in either case (if an open casket is allowable)You are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky) My Life ROCKS! How's yours doing? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #54 December 11, 2007 Quote Yeah, there's just no way to present the upper body and head to make it look like they're sleeping when the injuries were too disfiguring. If the head was ok, but it was body injuries, they could swap the head, just for the service. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
