floridadiver81 0 #1 December 19, 2007 well..ive lasted through 3 drug addiction relapses, 4 broken promises...time to call it quits. I move into my new place tomorrow. All my friends think im crazy for even lasting this long! Lesson learned though...no more druggies!"Age has absolutely nothing to do with knowledge, learning, respect, attitude, or personality." -yardhippie "Fight the air, and the air will kick your ass!!! "-Specialkaye Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livendive 8 #2 December 19, 2007 So is this gonna make you unemployed too? Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
floridadiver81 0 #3 December 19, 2007 Nope. Her mom's bf got me the job i have now...and he understands perfectly why im leaving. It would be a really long post if i sat here and explained everything!"Age has absolutely nothing to do with knowledge, learning, respect, attitude, or personality." -yardhippie "Fight the air, and the air will kick your ass!!! "-Specialkaye Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jonstark 8 #4 December 19, 2007 GOOD! It is YOUR life after all... Stick to your guns and hang tough man. jon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
floridadiver81 0 #5 December 19, 2007 ill tell ya'll what...when i get settled in the new place and i have a better keyboard to use ill take the time to do a write up. I want to see how many of the guys on the board would have actually put up with it as long as i did."Age has absolutely nothing to do with knowledge, learning, respect, attitude, or personality." -yardhippie "Fight the air, and the air will kick your ass!!! "-Specialkaye Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wmw999 2,584 #6 December 19, 2007 Good for you. And I'm glad you get to keep your job. Wendy W.There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livendive 8 #7 December 19, 2007 Quote Nope. Her mom's bf got me the job i have now...and he understands perfectly why im leaving. It would be a really long post if i sat here and explained everything! Oh, my bad. I thought you were working for her dad at Haskell Construction and studying business, with expectations to start in the low 6 figures as soon as you graduate. I guess the only thing constant is change. Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
selbbub78 0 #8 December 19, 2007 sorry things aren't working out, but glad you're doing what's best, and what's right for you. That's excellent!!! Hang in there, it'll only get easier CReW Skies, bubbles "Women fake orgasms - men fake whole relationships" – Sharon Stone "The world is my dropzone" (wise crewdog quote) "The light dims, until full darkness pierces into the world."-KDM Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
floridadiver81 0 #9 December 19, 2007 hahal....good memory..or good search skills...lol. nah...is my life now...i learned a lot....now i know what to watch out for!"Age has absolutely nothing to do with knowledge, learning, respect, attitude, or personality." -yardhippie "Fight the air, and the air will kick your ass!!! "-Specialkaye Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Remster 30 #10 December 19, 2007 Quote Quote Nope. Her mom's bf got me the job i have now...and he understands perfectly why im leaving. It would be a really long post if i sat here and explained everything! Oh, my bad. I thought you were working for her dad at Haskell Construction and studying business, with expectations to start in the low 6 figures as soon as you graduate. I guess the only thing constant is change. Blues, Dave You beat me to it Dave! lolRemster Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #11 December 19, 2007 Quote You beat me to it Dave! lol You boys... ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Remster 30 #12 December 19, 2007 Quote Quote You beat me to it Dave! lol You boys... Maybe we should review the nespotism thread! Remster Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bolas 5 #13 December 19, 2007 It's a big eye opener when you realize no matter how much you try to care, be there for them, support them, try to help them better themselves that they aren't going to change. You did the right thing. Walk away and don't look back. She's someone elses problem now.Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #14 December 19, 2007 Quote All my friends think im crazy for even lasting this long! You rate looks and sanity on a scale of 1-to-10, then add them. For whoever you are dating, it is always the same number. Remember all the recent posts about Miss S Carolina? Totally hot, dumb as a box of hammers. How much chaos would you like ? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kschilk 0 #15 December 20, 2007 Smart move! I did a two year tour, in pretty much the same situation. There were kids involved (not mine) so it was hard to go but eventually, I hadda' haul ass. That was over 10 years ago and her kids still stay in touch with me. "T'was ever thus." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wrightskyguy 1 #16 December 20, 2007 : -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- In Reply To -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Nope. Her mom's bf got me the job i have now...and he understands perfectly why im leaving. It would be a really long post if i sat here and explained everything! -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- QuoteOh, my bad. I thought you were working for her dad at Haskell Construction and studying business, with expectations to start in the low 6 figures as soon as you graduate. I guess the only thing constant is change. *** Heh heh. John Wright World's most beloved skydiver Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites mamajumps 0 #17 December 20, 2007 WTF? Sorry man! Wow, Im floored, I never saw this coming.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites floridadiver81 0 #18 December 22, 2007 well..even though i was planning on leaving..im not. We talked it out. She is showing me that she is trying to get better...and she is getting better. It was a stupid decision on my part...but we are still together!"Age has absolutely nothing to do with knowledge, learning, respect, attitude, or personality." -yardhippie "Fight the air, and the air will kick your ass!!! "-Specialkaye Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites grannyinthesky 0 #19 December 22, 2007 Good for you, but keep talking.....it's really important."safety first... and What the hell..... safety second, Too!!! " ~~jmy POPS #10490 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites jonstark 8 #20 December 22, 2007 You should really consider the opportunity for your self preservation by making the MOVE OUT and letting her prove that she is making good with you living elsewhere. Not what you want to hear but why did you ask in the first place? Harden the fuck up! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Amazon 7 #21 December 22, 2007 A druggie is a druggie for life.. it will never go away if the location and the friends stay the same.... Try to let the big brain make the rational decisions without too much input from the little brain. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites havensiangst 0 #22 December 22, 2007 ohh, poor little boy, shut the fuck up..i have no sympathy for you at all...is it that bad why not kill yourself? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Krip 2 #23 December 22, 2007 No advice from this corner except. If it works for you be happyIf it don't work, well your the only one that has the answer about what to do then. One Jump Wonder Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites MrFreefall383 0 #24 December 22, 2007 Enjoy the single life while it lasts. It contributes to your relative sanity."If at first you don't succeed... well, so much for skydiving." - aviation cliche Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites sartre 0 #25 December 22, 2007 Quoteohh, poor little boy, shut the fuck up..i have no sympathy for you at all...is it that bad why not kill yourself? What is your problem?! So few posts, yet so many of them hateful. It must really suck to be you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 Next Page 1 of 2 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0
mamajumps 0 #17 December 20, 2007 WTF? Sorry man! Wow, Im floored, I never saw this coming.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
floridadiver81 0 #18 December 22, 2007 well..even though i was planning on leaving..im not. We talked it out. She is showing me that she is trying to get better...and she is getting better. It was a stupid decision on my part...but we are still together!"Age has absolutely nothing to do with knowledge, learning, respect, attitude, or personality." -yardhippie "Fight the air, and the air will kick your ass!!! "-Specialkaye Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
grannyinthesky 0 #19 December 22, 2007 Good for you, but keep talking.....it's really important."safety first... and What the hell..... safety second, Too!!! " ~~jmy POPS #10490 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jonstark 8 #20 December 22, 2007 You should really consider the opportunity for your self preservation by making the MOVE OUT and letting her prove that she is making good with you living elsewhere. Not what you want to hear but why did you ask in the first place? Harden the fuck up! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amazon 7 #21 December 22, 2007 A druggie is a druggie for life.. it will never go away if the location and the friends stay the same.... Try to let the big brain make the rational decisions without too much input from the little brain. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
havensiangst 0 #22 December 22, 2007 ohh, poor little boy, shut the fuck up..i have no sympathy for you at all...is it that bad why not kill yourself? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Krip 2 #23 December 22, 2007 No advice from this corner except. If it works for you be happyIf it don't work, well your the only one that has the answer about what to do then. One Jump Wonder Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MrFreefall383 0 #24 December 22, 2007 Enjoy the single life while it lasts. It contributes to your relative sanity."If at first you don't succeed... well, so much for skydiving." - aviation cliche Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sartre 0 #25 December 22, 2007 Quoteohh, poor little boy, shut the fuck up..i have no sympathy for you at all...is it that bad why not kill yourself? What is your problem?! So few posts, yet so many of them hateful. It must really suck to be you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
