SarahC07 0 #51 January 4, 2008 Quote Quote Well, there's not really an option that fits for me, as I am female and there is only one of me. I'm with you. However... I have never cheated and don't really ever think I will cheat, but I've clearly thought about it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NWFlyer 2 #52 January 4, 2008 Oh, I wasn't even talking about the cheating part. I was talking about the singular vs. plural part. "There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SarahC07 0 #53 January 4, 2008 I followed - I thought it was funny...I'm just a bad poster... No organizational skills... Doesn't anyone else think that maturity has more to do with this than gender? You could counter with: Well, yeah but I bet lots of people in their 40's and 50's cheat. So then I think, maybe marriage makes us feel trapped and instead of a) working on improving the relationship or b) getting out of the relationship (aka divorce) people choose option c) and they CHEAT. ... It's gonna take a long time for me to decide to get married, that's for sure... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #54 January 4, 2008 Quote I honestly think women cheat more than men. Depending on the survey, it is 19-21% for both sexes. Everything that I've read says it is about equal. Quote And, I don't think most women would admit to anyone that they cheated, if they had. I know a woman whose sister didn't know about her affair until her husband caught her after 2 years. Most women don't even tell the people close to them. Most are discrete and go to "visit a friend nearby". In Tampa, we call them "the Orlando girls". There are women who are actually close friends, but will deny it in casual conversation. The funny part is when I happen to already know it for a fact. "I would never..." "Uh-huh..." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
normiss 897 #55 January 4, 2008 that's funny Bill...I've heard a few in Orlando refer to visiting friends in Temple T! inner-office cheating floors me...I see it all the time. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #56 January 4, 2008 Quote that's funny Bill...I've heard a few in Orlando refer to visiting friends in Temple T! inner-office cheating floors me...I see it all the time. I know. Work becomes that social arena that you have to attend. I never mention skydiving at work because of the stalker potential. I have a rule that if anything is correct 95% of the time, then I can use it as a generalization. F- buddies at work is a bad idea. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
