Darktreader 0 #1 January 3, 2008 I would like to get some answers on an age old debate I have had with a friend. *The question at hand is : "which gender cheats more often?" I personally believe more women cheat then men, however I believe they are more secretive about it as they normally have alot more to fear and lose. I think typically men are not as afraid to be caught and tend to be less secretive especially to other guys. Be honest noone will know-Lets find out."Before we waste time talking and getting to know each other, let's just have sex once and see if we're compatible" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 35 #2 January 3, 2008 You need more poll options... like those who have never cheated, but think about it. And those that think about it, but never do it. "Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NWFlyer 2 #3 January 3, 2008 Well, there's not really an option that fits for me, as I am female and there is only one of me. "There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Darktreader 0 #4 January 3, 2008 either your a cheater or your not theres no gray area lol"Before we waste time talking and getting to know each other, let's just have sex once and see if we're compatible" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 35 #5 January 3, 2008 Quote either your a cheater or your not theres no gray area lol Well then I'm not a cheater. But I can dream, can't I? "Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mamajumps 0 #6 January 3, 2008 I firmly believe that the old adage "once a cheater, always a cheater" is not true. It is where my ex is concerned, he has never been in a monogamos (sp?) relationship. He cheated on me from word go in our 10 yr marriage. After about 7 years of this, I cheated on him trying to show him how it felt. He didnt care and even tho we are now in the middle of a divorce and its 4 years later, I still feel like shit for my actions. But I agree, I think more women cheat than men. Maybe its just because I am more aware of women who cheat. Also, I know some women who only pursue married men, honestly it makes me sick to my stomach, but apparently it is some kind of game to conquer the unattainable man. Men and women who cheat on their wives or husbands have no place in my friend book. There is no excuse for it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
galvar2439 0 #7 January 3, 2008 MOST DEFINITELY WOMENSo i just broke up with this woman who wasn't even my girlfriend! Hellfish #782, POPS #10664 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Broke 0 #8 January 3, 2008 I had a friend who's GF was a total slut, and when he talked to her about it she came out with this line that made him feel like shit, "What you don't trust me honney." He found a letter a couple of months later. She made him feel lower than anyone could feel even though she cheated on him with only how many guys. It is really quite sad that women can be so evil.Divot your source for all things Hillbilly. Anvil Brother 84 SCR 14192 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
galvar2439 0 #9 January 3, 2008 here, here! well said. But is it cheating if they are involvedSo i just broke up with this woman who wasn't even my girlfriend! Hellfish #782, POPS #10664 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Royd 0 #10 January 3, 2008 OK, which one of you guys hit the'Never thought of cheating' button 14 times. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jewels 0 #11 January 3, 2008 I'm curious. Why do you think women have more to lose than men?TPM Sister #102 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waltappel 1 #12 January 3, 2008 Define cheating. Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waltappel 1 #13 January 3, 2008 QuoteI'm curious. Why do you think women have more to lose than men? Last time I checked, women can get pregnant and guys can't. Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Broke 0 #14 January 3, 2008 When you lose love it hurts no matter if you are a man or a woman.Divot your source for all things Hillbilly. Anvil Brother 84 SCR 14192 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waltappel 1 #15 January 3, 2008 Quote I had a friend who's GF was a total slut, and when he talked to her about it she came out with this line that made him feel like shit, "What you don't trust me honney." He found a letter a couple of months later. She made him feel lower than anyone could feel even though she cheated on him with only how many guys. It is really quite sad that women can be so evil. Got the GF's phone number? Heh hehWalt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jewels 0 #16 January 3, 2008 Well, duh. But the OP is talking about women being more secretive because they have more to lose. I don't think being more secretive helps keep you from getting pregnant. TPM Sister #102 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mamajumps 0 #17 January 3, 2008 Quote Define cheating. Walt IMHO, anything that could potentionally lead to an orgasm. I have a few guy friends that I care a lot about, but am not sleeping with them. Also, anything that the husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend feels that they have to lie about or hide from their S.O. My guy, knows that I can be very outgoing and flirty, but I don't hide this from him and it is very innocent. I will be very quick to shut it down if it starts going out of my comfort zone. Even tho, I am very openly bi, I still have more male friends than I do female. It has been my experience that the majority of women, no matter how good of a friend they seem to be will stick a knife in your back at their first given chance, especially if you have something they want. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waltappel 1 #18 January 3, 2008 Quote Well, duh. But the OP is talking about women being more secretive because they have more to lose. I don't think being more secretive helps keep you from getting pregnant. Well maybe he's referring to the hypocrisy that has existed in our society since who knows when--a man who has a lot of partners is a hero; a woman who has more than one is a slut. Or maybe he's talking about the scenario of a married woman with kids who fears losing custody in a divorce. Personally, I think it's just women's nature to be more secretive about their affairs. Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mamajumps 0 #19 January 3, 2008 Quote Well maybe he's referring to the hypocrisy that has existed in our society since who knows when--a man who has a lot of partners is a hero; a woman who has more than one is a slut. Walt That is one of my most hated ideas in this world! Very few things anger me more than that!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waltappel 1 #20 January 3, 2008 Quote It has been my experience that the majority of women, no matter how good of a friend they seem to be will stick a knife in your back at their first given chance, especially if you have something they want. Why do I feel that someone is going to adopt this as a sig line?Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Broke 0 #21 January 3, 2008 I don't even remember where she is now. Something about being trashy in west Virginia. I have always found it is easier for a woman to replace a man that the other way aroundDivot your source for all things Hillbilly. Anvil Brother 84 SCR 14192 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jewels 0 #22 January 3, 2008 QuotePersonally, I think it's just women's nature to be more secretive about their affairs. That's probably true. I mean, I go out of my way never to mention that you and I . . . I mean . . . wait . . . . Uhhhhh, nice weather we've been having!TPM Sister #102 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Broke 0 #23 January 3, 2008 I think we need to change that double standard. A slut is a slut is a slut weither male or femaleDivot your source for all things Hillbilly. Anvil Brother 84 SCR 14192 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Broke 0 #24 January 3, 2008 Who would admit to doing anything with walt? Divot your source for all things Hillbilly. Anvil Brother 84 SCR 14192 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waltappel 1 #25 January 3, 2008 Quote Quote Well maybe he's referring to the hypocrisy that has existed in our society since who knows when--a man who has a lot of partners is a hero; a woman who has more than one is a slut. Walt That is one of my most hated ideas in this world! Very few things anger me more than that!!!! Personally I think that for women, having a lot of partners *may* be more indicative of self-destructive tendencies than the same thing in men. Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
