Well Damn.

[CSpenceFLY 1]

In a nut shell, Someone that does not know me sent me a PM telling me what a angry, miserable person I am and that I should change my ways if I wanted to contribute and be helpful on this site. I posted the PM(without name) asking everyone if they thought I was angry. Everyone disagreed, then the person posted in the thread who they were. The thread was very civil. It was deleted because of the "you should not post PM etiquette" ,not a forum rule mind you.

I'm feeling much better today though.

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I thought it was either "pre" or "post" menstrual...

In some cases "perma"

You are only as strong as the prey you devour

[iluvtofly 0]

I don't see the issue with posting a PM so long as you don't say who sent it to you. Nothing in what you posted gave me any idea who it might of been that sent you that PM. I was honestly surprised when I saw who it was. I'm still confussed as too exactly why your thread got deleted. At no point what anything demening said about the person who sent you that PM, until after the person outed themselves.

I wonder if you had just started a thread stated that someone told you in a PM that they think you're a mean person without posting the PM itself if the thread would still be here today.

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I'm feeling much better today though.

You're much more entertaining when you are angry though

You are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky)
My Life ROCKS!
How's yours doing?

[CSpenceFLY 1]

See...You just can't please everyone.

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I know, you people won't believe I missed stuff either.

Say it isn't so!! Oh..the shock...my brain feels woozy now.

It figures that a lot of the brouhaha happens between 5 and 9 pm CST, the block of time I'm rarely online. Once in a while I miss the whole evening and don't get back online til the next morning, and it's like WTF did I miss?

What are you doing.......taking a nap?

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I love and Miss you so much Honey!
Orfun #3 ~ Darla

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In a nut shell, Someone that does not know me sent me a PM telling me what a angry, miserable person I am and that I should change my ways if I wanted to contribute and be helpful on this site. I posted the PM(without name) asking everyone if they thought I was angry. Everyone disagreed, then the person posted in the thread who they were. The thread was very civil. It was deleted because of the "you should not post PM etiquette" ,not a forum rule mind you.

I'm feeling much better today though.

Actually, that's not what I said. I said that lately you seemed angry and/or bitter, and I was attempting to let you know that I for one would be willing to listen if you had constructive advice on how to fix the things that seemed to be of issue for you. However, because you and many others automatically take things in the most negative light possible, the comments were taken in a completely different spirit than I had intended. You could have had the conversation with me privately, but that wouldn't have stirred up enough drama.

I misjudged you when I thought that there was something constructive to be learned that you might be willing to share.

Ok, I'm done feeding the drama addicts. Any time I stick up for myself, I'm accused of being: bitter, angry, dramatic, etc. A wise person recently told me that you tend to see in others what's inside yourself. I think he was pretty right on.
Now, ya'll have an excellent day and an even better weekend!

[simplyputsi 0]

Why are you so angry!!!!????


Reminds me of an email my boss got back that said your tone was unneccessary in your email. How the hell can you read tone in an email? What people write is open to the interpretation of the reader, most get it wrong.

Can't we all just get along?

Skymama's #2 stalker -

[goofyjumper 0]

Well, I guess we know who sent the pm.

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I love and Miss you so much Honey!
Orfun #3 ~ Darla

[skybytch 273]

mmmm..... popcorn.....

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In a nut shell, Someone that does not know me sent me a PM telling me what a angry, miserable person I am and that I should change my ways if I wanted to contribute and be helpful on this site. I posted the PM(without name) asking everyone if they thought I was angry. Everyone disagreed, then the person posted in the thread who they were. The thread was very civil. It was deleted because of the "you should not post PM etiquette" ,not a forum rule mind you.

I'm feeling much better today though.

Actually, that's not what I said. I said that lately you seemed angry and/or bitter, and I was attempting to let you know that I for one would be willing to listen if you had constructive advice on how to fix the things that seemed to be of issue for you. However, because you and many others automatically take things in the most negative light possible, the comments were taken in a completely different spirit than I had intended. You could have had the conversation with me privately, but that wouldn't have stirred up enough drama.

I misjudged you when I thought that there was something constructive to be learned that you might be willing to share.

Ok, I'm done feeding the drama addicts. Any time I stick up for myself, I'm accused of being: bitter, angry, dramatic, etc. A wise person recently told me that you tend to see in others what's inside yourself. I think he was pretty right on.
Now, ya'll have an excellent day and an even better weekend!

So I guess that means you see "anger, distrust and bitterness" within yourself.

Have a nice day. Oh, and nice sig line for such a friendly,positive person. i guess some of us don't come across here as we really are in person.

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I know, you people won't believe I missed stuff either.

Say it isn't so!! Oh..the shock...my brain feels woozy now.

It figures that a lot of the brouhaha happens between 5 and 9 pm CST, the block of time I'm rarely online. Once in a while I miss the whole evening and don't get back online til the next morning, and it's like WTF did I miss?

What are you doing.......taking a nap?

Nope! Family Time!

"Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban

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Layered butter?

You are only as strong as the prey you devour

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Layered butter?

That and don't forget the salt, biatch!

"Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban

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Layered butter?
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That and don't forget the salt, biatch!

I'd like some of that cheddar cheese flavoring on mine please.

Oh and spence - even if you are an agry miserable a**hole, i still love you!!!

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I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug!

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I'll think I'll have some today as well thank you.
Anyone for a beer?

Some people.....

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I'm driving, so I'll stick with soda. But, thanks for asking. I'll get next round

You are only as strong as the prey you devour

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I'll think I'll have some today as well thank you.
Anyone for a beer?

I was thinking of grilling up some dead horse with my popcorn. Anyone have a good recipe? I find it's ordinarily a little tough, but after everyone's done beating it, it usually tenderizes it a bit.

"There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke

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I was thinking of grilling up some dead horse with my popcorn. Anyone have a good recipe? I find it's ordinarily a little tough, but after everyone's done beating it, it usually tenderizes it a bit.

Comedy fucking gold right there, people.

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It was deleted because of the "you should not post PM etiquette", not a forum rule mind you.

Of course it's not, but all it takes is for someone to go crying to the moderators (like usual) and some people get whatever they want. I'm still trying to figure out if the mods play favorites or if maybe they just feel sorry for the person bitching. I'm thinking it's the former. Maybe both, though.

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Ok, I'm done feeding the drama addicts. Any time I stick up for myself, I'm accused of being: bitter, angry, dramatic, etc. A wise person recently told me that you tend to see in others what's inside yourself. I think he was pretty right on.
Now, ya'll have an excellent day and an even better weekend!

So I guess that means you see "anger, distrust and bitterness" within yourself.

Have a nice day. Oh, and nice sig line for such a friendly,positive person. i guess some of us don't come across here as we really are in person.

Whew! and for the longest i thought it was just me.

I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama
BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun

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Ok, I'm done feeding the drama addicts. Any time I stick up for myself, I'm accused of being: bitter, angry, dramatic, etc. A wise person recently told me that you tend to see in others what's inside yourself. I think he was pretty right on.
Now, ya'll have an excellent day and an even better weekend!

So I guess that means you see "anger, distrust and bitterness" within yourself.

Have a nice day. Oh, and nice sig line for such a friendly,positive person. i guess some of us don't come across here as we really are in person.

Whew! and for the longest i thought it was just me.

nope

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It was deleted because of the "you should not post PM etiquette", not a forum rule mind you.

Of course it's not, but all it takes is for someone to go crying to the moderators (like usual) and some people get whatever they want. I'm still trying to figure out if the mods play favorites or if maybe they just feel sorry for the person bitching. I'm thinking it's the former. Maybe both, though.

If you can imagine it - it is possible that it is true.

I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama
BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun

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You're just mad cuz mom likes me best

You are only as strong as the prey you devour

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You're just mad cuz mom likes me best

So - You are speaking in Freudian terms?

Is there a complex you need to out yourself about?

Oedipus

I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama
BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun