galvar2439 0 #1 May 29, 2008 So i was in a customers office who apparently had no idea i skydive. I dont broadcst it, but she was looking at my computer when we went to tie into the building's automation system and saw some photos. She proceeds to tell me how stupid i am for doing this. My kids, i can die, She actually said, : i thought you were a pretty smart guy until now". You would have thought it was affecting her life in some way. So i let in one ear and out the other. Two days later i go back to install new software. She starts in again about the whole thing, Now my day is not going to so well and i just did not want to hear this crap again. So i fired back and asked if she was planning to live forever, she said "no, we are all gonna die" I said exactly, we are all dying, the only question is how much are you going to live while your dying? I went on about judging people and other shit! I went off! I told her i think she is stupid for doing the samr thing everyday, day after day, work, dinner, tv and expecting life to just hand her happiness! Anyway, I just finished my work and she stood there fuming, smoke out of the ears. Maybe i should have held my tounge in this economy, but damn, you can only take so much shit.So i just broke up with this woman who wasn't even my girlfriend! Hellfish #782, POPS #10664 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NWFlyer 2 #2 May 29, 2008 Say "It's not for everyone" and change the subject. And if you don't ever want the topic to come up at work, take the photos off your work computer."There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sebazz1 2 #3 May 29, 2008 She wants you man, go for it!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
galvar2439 0 #4 May 29, 2008 QuoteSay "It's not for everyone" and change the subject. And if you don't ever want the topic to come up at work, take the photos off your work computer. Photos were removed after the first conversationSo i just broke up with this woman who wasn't even my girlfriend! Hellfish #782, POPS #10664 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #5 May 29, 2008 Some people just like to start shit to get under your skin...sounds like she's that kinda person. ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Programmer 0 #6 May 29, 2008 No doubt about it, you're the bad boy she's been looking for. You should totally ask her out. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
floridadiver81 0 #7 May 30, 2008 Simply tell her "unless you are willing to try it...dont talk shit about it". I agree with Sunny...she sounds like she is just that type of person to get under your skin. Tell her what i said above should shut her up...unless she is just really that ignorant...in that case just ignore her comments unless it pertains directly to work. I've had a few people at work critisize(sp) me for skydiving. I did to them what i adised you to do and it ended right there and never arose again."Age has absolutely nothing to do with knowledge, learning, respect, attitude, or personality." -yardhippie "Fight the air, and the air will kick your ass!!! "-Specialkaye Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
downwardspiral 0 #8 May 30, 2008 just say... "You know what? You're right. In fact I was thinking that just the other day while I was shopping for bowling shoes." www.FourWheelerHB.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Whiskeyboi 0 #9 May 30, 2008 She probably gives bad shoulders anyway... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rwieder 0 #10 May 30, 2008 She won that one i hate to say. Anytime you let someone win the "mental" challenge, they have won the mental battle as well, which is their objective from the get go. I would have consistantly simply ignored this person, end deal.-Richard- "You're Holding The Rope And I'm Taking The Fall" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SarahC07 0 #11 May 30, 2008 that was great. just great. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cocheese 0 #12 May 30, 2008 I'd whip my junk out and..oh wait, wrong thread. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GflyDog 0 #13 May 30, 2008 Sounds like she needs to either: get laid find a hobby or both. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #14 May 30, 2008 Quote I agree with Sunny. I like totally owe beer. Tis the first time someone has publicly admitted to agreeing with me!!! ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #15 May 30, 2008 At one point, I had a pic of our 10-way team in freefall as my screensaver. I haven't for years. I never mention it at work for a variety of reasons. -Discussions with idiots like that. -Stalkers who show up at the dz. In the future, look at her and do not reply, but smile in a condescending manner as if to say, "Your opinion has no value". Trust me, it's the worst thing you can do. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Whiskeyboi 0 #16 May 30, 2008 QuoteIn the future, look at her and do not reply, but smile in a condescending manner as if to say, "Your opinion has no value". Trust me, it's the worst thing you can do. And then, when you've left and are in the parking lot, identify which car is hers...remove the gas cap...take about 15 packets of sugar... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Baksteen 84 #17 May 30, 2008 I hate to say it, but you also might want to watch out that she (or the next person like her) doesn't lodge a complaint against you with your employer. Try to keep your temper.."That formation-stuff in freefall is just fun and games but with an open parachute it's starting to sound like, you know, an extreme sport." ~mom Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
galvar2439 0 #18 May 30, 2008 QuoteI hate to say it, but you also might want to watch out that she (or the next person like her) doesn't lodge a complaint against you with your employer. Try to keep your temper.. Luckily i am the owner of the company, but she is the facilities person for a very good customer. I am just going to let it die down and see what happens when (if) i return to the facility. I should have just let it go.So i just broke up with this woman who wasn't even my girlfriend! Hellfish #782, POPS #10664 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites