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So i was in a customers office who apparently had no idea i skydive. I dont broadcst it, but she was looking at my computer when we went to tie into the building's automation system and saw some photos.
She proceeds to tell me how stupid i am for doing this. My kids, i can die, She actually said, : i thought you were a pretty smart guy until now". You would have thought it was affecting her life in some way.
So i let in one ear and out the other. Two days later i go back to install new software. She starts in again about the whole thing, Now my day is not going to so well and i just did not want to hear this crap again.
So i fired back and asked if she was planning to live forever, she said "no, we are all gonna die" I said exactly, we are all dying, the only question is how much are you going to live while your dying? I went on about judging people and other shit! I went off! I told her i think she is stupid for doing the samr thing everyday, day after day, work, dinner, tv and expecting life to just hand her happiness! Anyway, I just finished my work and she stood there fuming, smoke out of the ears. Maybe i should have held my tounge in this economy, but damn, you can only take so much shit.
So i just broke up with this woman who wasn't even my girlfriend!

Hellfish #782, POPS #10664

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Say "It's not for everyone" and change the subject. And if you don't ever want the topic to come up at work, take the photos off your work computer.
"There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke

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Say "It's not for everyone" and change the subject. And if you don't ever want the topic to come up at work, take the photos off your work computer.


Photos were removed after the first conversation
So i just broke up with this woman who wasn't even my girlfriend!

Hellfish #782, POPS #10664

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Simply tell her "unless you are willing to try it...dont talk shit about it". I agree with Sunny...she sounds like she is just that type of person to get under your skin. Tell her what i said above should shut her up...unless she is just really that ignorant...in that case just ignore her comments unless it pertains directly to work.

I've had a few people at work critisize(sp) me for skydiving. I did to them what i adised you to do and it ended right there and never arose again.
"Age has absolutely nothing to do with knowledge, learning, respect, attitude, or personality." -yardhippie
"Fight the air, and the air will kick your ass!!! "-Specialkaye

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She won that one i hate to say. Anytime you let someone win the "mental" challenge, they have won the mental battle as well, which is their objective from the get go. I would have consistantly simply ignored this person, end deal.
-Richard-
"You're Holding The Rope And I'm Taking The Fall"

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At one point, I had a pic of our 10-way team in freefall as my screensaver. I haven't for years.

I never mention it at work for a variety of reasons.
-Discussions with idiots like that.
-Stalkers who show up at the dz.

In the future, look at her and do not reply, but smile in a condescending manner as if to say, "Your opinion has no value". Trust me, it's the worst thing you can do.

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In the future, look at her and do not reply, but smile in a condescending manner as if to say, "Your opinion has no value". Trust me, it's the worst thing you can do.



And then, when you've left and are in the parking lot, identify which car is hers...remove the gas cap...take about 15 packets of sugar...

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I hate to say it, but you also might want to watch out that she (or the next person like her) doesn't lodge a complaint against you with your employer.
Try to keep your temper..
"That formation-stuff in freefall is just fun and games but with an open parachute it's starting to sound like, you know, an extreme sport."
~mom

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I hate to say it, but you also might want to watch out that she (or the next person like her) doesn't lodge a complaint against you with your employer.
Try to keep your temper..



Luckily i am the owner of the company, but she is the facilities person for a very good customer. I am just going to let it die down and see what happens when (if) i return to the facility. I should have just let it go.
So i just broke up with this woman who wasn't even my girlfriend!

Hellfish #782, POPS #10664

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