banesanura 1 #1 June 3, 2008 Naturally in my array of human selection I find that the ones that have piqued my interest always have a girlfriend or in a "complicated" relationship. Questions are: 1. Do you tell them you are interested, meanwhile? Or resume the "friend" role? 2. Once and IF they become available- if you are taken- break up with your current boyfriend/girlfriend? 3. You are going to visit them soon- but have to hold back your feelings, and its killing you- how do you alleviate this?Best Girl Scout Ever. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #2 June 3, 2008 QuoteNaturally in my array of human selection I find that the ones that have piqued my interest always have a girlfriend or in a "complicated" relationship. Questions are: 1. Do you tell them you are interested, meanwhile? Or resume the "friend" role? 2. Once and IF they become available- if you are taken- break up with your current boyfriend/girlfriend? 3. You are going to visit them soon- but have to hold back your feelings, and its killing you- how do you alleviate this? Serenity prayer.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnnyD 0 #3 June 3, 2008 QuoteI find that the ones that have piqued my interest always have a girlfriend or in a "complicated" relationship. Red flags? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andy_Copland 0 #4 June 3, 2008 Quote 3. You are going to visit them soon- but have to hold back your feelings, and its killing you- how do you alleviate this? 1338 People aint made of nothin' but water and shit. Until morale improves, the beatings will continue. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
futuredivot 0 #5 June 3, 2008 Bide your time. Remember, if they'll cheat with you, they'll cheat on youYou are only as strong as the prey you devour Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skybytch 273 #6 June 3, 2008 Quote1. Do you tell them you are interested, meanwhile? Or resume the "friend" role? Why would you tell them you are interested? Are you hoping to break up their relationship? That's pretty fucked up. Quote2. Once and IF they become available- if you are taken- break up with your current boyfriend/girlfriend? Um... no. That'd be pretty fucked up. Quote3. You are going to visit them soon- but have to hold back your feelings, and its killing you- how do you alleviate this? Have some respect for him, his s/o and yourself and don't go visit, since it's obvious that all you really want is to get in his pants. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
banesanura 1 #7 June 3, 2008 No- I don't sabotage relationships- I get interested in them THEN to find out they are taken. Not the reverse- once I find somebody who is taken I steer clear. I don't like baby mamma drama hahahahha Best Girl Scout Ever. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
futuredivot 0 #8 June 3, 2008 Oh, and in GUYSPEAK, 'complicated relationship' often means "I want to keep this one in the dark because I want her to stay available to me while I shop for an upgrade"You are only as strong as the prey you devour Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #9 June 3, 2008 Quote Quote 1. Do you tell them you are interested, meanwhile? Or resume the "friend" role? Why would you tell them you are interested? Are you hoping to break up their relationship? That's pretty fucked up. Quote 2. Once and IF they become available- if you are taken- break up with your current boyfriend/girlfriend? Um... no. That'd be pretty fucked up. Quote 3. You are going to visit them soon- but have to hold back your feelings, and its killing you- how do you alleviate this? Have some respect for him, his s/o and yourself and don't go visit, since it's obvious that all you really want is to get in his pants. Some wingman YOU are . . . I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
banesanura 1 #10 June 3, 2008 QuoteHave some respect for him, his s/o and yourself and don't go visit, since it's obvious that all you really want is to get in his pants. If I wanted to do that I would have saved myself the time of posting this and just done it already!Best Girl Scout Ever. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
normiss 892 #11 June 3, 2008 Quote You are going to visit them soon- but have to hold back your feelings, and its killing you- how do you alleviate this? What? You don't have a BOB??? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
banesanura 1 #12 June 3, 2008 What's a BOB?Best Girl Scout Ever. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,590 #13 June 3, 2008 QuoteWhat's a BOB? http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=BOB"There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
banesanura 1 #14 June 3, 2008 hahaha- Nope. Don't have one of those. Best Girl Scout Ever. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,590 #15 June 3, 2008 Quote hahaha- Nope. Don't have one of those. Hi! I'm Bob."There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Baksteen 84 #16 June 3, 2008 You have a battery operated penile prosthesis? "That formation-stuff in freefall is just fun and games but with an open parachute it's starting to sound like, you know, an extreme sport." ~mom Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
futuredivot 0 #17 June 3, 2008 Nah, he just shoves a stack of D cells up his ass for the rush You are only as strong as the prey you devour Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnnyD 0 #18 June 3, 2008 Quote QuoteHave some respect for him, his s/o and yourself and don't go visit, since it's obvious that all you really want is to get in his pants. If I wanted to do that I would have saved myself the time of posting this and just done it already! So what you're really trying to say is you want a FWB. Its pretty obvious, because you're saying you just want to get in these guys pants and either consciously or subconsciously you're seeking out guys who are unavailable. Line forms on the right guys. Have your applications ready Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
banesanura 1 #19 June 3, 2008 Quote Have some respect for him, his s/o and yourself and don't go visit, since it's obvious that all you really want is to get in his pants. No one ever said it was a him....Best Girl Scout Ever. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mamajumps 0 #20 June 3, 2008 You poor poor girl...I have a whole suitcase full of them! I have discovered that most men (excluding my boyfriend of course) are not worth the headaches they cause. Bob's come with many benefits: 1) they only want it when you do 2) they dont bitch when you get off and wanna stop 3) you dont have to put up with them in the rest of your life 4) no bullshit included, no arguing, etc etc 5) BOB will NEVER cheat on you 6) batteries are cheaper than most men... 7) BOB's come in a wide variety and sizes, you go for men like that and you get a nasty label attached to your ass 8)BOB's dont transmit STD's Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
poe62 0 #21 June 3, 2008 Quote Nah, he just shoves a stack of D cells up his ass for the rush OMG you just made me laugh so hard I spit my lunch on my monitor!!! ~Nikki http://www.facebook.com/poe62 Irgity Dirgity Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
banesanura 1 #22 June 3, 2008 I heart mamajumps and all the words of wisdom.Best Girl Scout Ever. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
normiss 892 #23 June 3, 2008 go to one fucking executive meeting to explain VoIP project issues and look at the fun I miss. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RastaRicanAir 0 #24 June 3, 2008 QuoteNo- I don't sabotage relationships- I get interested in them THEN to find out they are taken. In my experience, if the person you're talking to is an honest, mature and loving SO, their boyfriend or girlfriend will come up in the conversation, walk up during the conversation, or interrupt the conversation with a "Hang on, I have to take this" phone call at least once within the first several hours. Is it possible you're "getting interested" a little too quickly?OrFunV/LocoBoca Rodriguez/Sonic Grieco/Muff Brother #4411 -"and ladies....messin with Robbie is venturing into territory you cant even imagine!-cuz Robbie is Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
banesanura 1 #25 June 3, 2008 It could be... I can't tell you how many times I've met people to find out that they are married or with some one. It never came up in conversation and when I hear it from another source or I have to say "Hey- are you married" Then they finally fess up. Which irritates me. Some have told me- well does it really matter- we are just friends...or I haven't had the time to tell you OR it didn't come up in conversation. I end it right at that point. It sucks to have to be dragged into a situation like that- because the "idea" of the relationship isn't mutual. And it sucks even more because you are now back at square oneBest Girl Scout Ever. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
