RastaRicanAir 0 #76 June 5, 2008 Quote Come on now... I have LOTS of male friends. OK... some of them truly are gay. And others do know that both I and my husband can hit a man sized target at a thousand yards. But... I rarely feel "hit on" and never assume that the guy is just talking to me cuz he wants to "get jiggy." Men CAN be gentlemen. {*sigh*} As a doctor, I'd expected you to place more importance on periodically re-visiting your references. But in case you've forgotten, I'll simply defer to [url http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aJz1f8hPRGc]an EXPERT[/URL] (yeah, that's a link)OrFunV/LocoBoca Rodriguez/Sonic Grieco/Muff Brother #4411 -"and ladies....messin with Robbie is venturing into territory you cant even imagine!-cuz Robbie is Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
banesanura 1 #77 June 5, 2008 Oh of course! I don't agree with that statement. Or the "housewife in training" as most of my childhood consisted of me preparing to become a proper house wife. Obviously I was the deviant. Now I was questions to bring me back to find a nice and stable grey area- so everything isn't so black and white.Best Girl Scout Ever. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
galvar2439 0 #78 June 5, 2008 QuoteNaturally in my array of human selection I find that the ones that have piqued my interest always have a girlfriend or in a "complicated" relationship. Questions are: 1. Do you tell them you are interested, meanwhile? Or resume the "friend" role? Your making this whole thing way to hard! Relax and use common sense, the rest will fall in place. Lifwe and relationships dont have to be hard. If someone will leave thier current relationship to try with you, then its just like cheating, they will do it to you. Just one mans opinion. 2. Once and IF they become available- if you are taken- break up with your current boyfriend/girlfriend? 3. You are going to visit them soon- but have to hold back your feelings, and its killing you- how do you alleviate this? Dont make this whole thing much harder than it has to be. Just let it happen. Thinking and overthinking it just makes it worse and keeps it from happening. Life and relationships are much easier when you just bring common sense to it. If it feels good, go for it, if it does not, dont do it. Just one mans opinionSo i just broke up with this woman who wasn't even my girlfriend! Hellfish #782, POPS #10664 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
woady 0 #79 June 5, 2008 Best advice would be if the feeling is mutual, hold off and keep that option open. Now for self-respect purposes, obviously, don't close off the rest of the world to any other good thing that comes your way. I fell in love with a girl back and HS and closed off myself for years in hopes to be with her :S Gotta live your life. If its meant to be it will happen. Maybe tomorrow or later on down. I wouldn't break things off with your B/F or G/F for a present feeling. Time will tell if its more than that. But breaking it off would be skipping dollars for cents. The grass always looks greener on the other side. I've thought about it, but I've never cheated on any girlfriend I've ever had and if I really wanted it that badly I would have broken things off first. I guess the whole "Do unto others..." Karma thing is my biggest reasoning. Sorry this was chalked full of metaphors. Let me know if it doesn't work out with whomever, we'll go out You know what's similar between Cops and Firefighters? They both wanna be firefighters. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yeyo 1 #80 June 5, 2008 Quote ...... how do you alleviate this? Call me. Im a great alleviator! (is that a word?)HISPA #93 DS #419.5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
