Orchid 0 #1 August 15, 2008 ....well which is it...yes or no, discuss your dating style and why? Yes, inquiring minds want to know...."Love is doing small things with great love." Lacrosse: Legally beating men with sticks since 1492 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Conundrum 1 #2 August 15, 2008 Depends. I just go with the flow. If everything is going well and it feels right, why not? I've had sex on the first date once. We dated for nearly a year after that but the distance was too much in the end. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Unstable 9 #3 August 15, 2008 I'm all in favor of going on dates. 100%. That's what I'm workin' on right now - what happens during those dates is minor details. =========Shaun ========== Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cocheese 0 #4 August 15, 2008 Just like gun laws, there should be a 30 day "cool off" waiting period. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Orchid 0 #5 August 15, 2008 Yeah...relationships & distance rarely works out do they? Sorry 'bout that. "Love is doing small things with great love." Lacrosse: Legally beating men with sticks since 1492 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Orchid 0 #6 August 15, 2008 Quote a 30 day waiting period. I agreed about the waiting period, I'd like to get to know a person...after all, building up to a great thing is worth the wait right?! Having said that, I've done the first date sex thing, but I ended up regretting it though!"Love is doing small things with great love." Lacrosse: Legally beating men with sticks since 1492 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Orchid 0 #7 August 15, 2008 Quote what happens during those dates is minor details. "Love is doing small things with great love." Lacrosse: Legally beating men with sticks since 1492 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ifall 0 #8 August 15, 2008 Quote Yeah...relationships & distance rarely works out do they? Sorry 'bout that. Ain't that the truth. I'm in my first one ever but I think its done. Known her for 14+ years and we dated twice before but it was bad timing. We always got along perfectly and only had about 2 arguments and its been about a month since the last one and we're not talking. I'm trying, she's not.As for the topic of the thread. I have done it one time. But it was a one night stand thing. I like the idea of building up the excitement but sometimes you just hit it off really well on the first date and you're really into each other. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
guppie01 0 #9 August 15, 2008 hmm I prefer to wait. I did have a rule of at least 3 dates before having sex, I tried to stick to it, but there was a time when things just sort of happened. Now, thank the good lord, I don't have to date! g"Let's do something romantic this Saturday... how bout we bust out the restraints?" Raddest Ho this side of Jersey #1 - MISS YOU OMG, is she okay? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andy_Copland 0 #10 August 15, 2008 Im a guy, i want sex before the date.1338 People aint made of nothin' but water and shit. Until morale improves, the beatings will continue. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
billvon 3,116 #11 August 15, 2008 > Yeah...relationships & distance rarely works out do they? Hmm - so far all my relationships have been long distance! (Except the present one - but it _started_ long distance.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LisaH 0 #12 August 15, 2008 Quote Yeah...relationships & distance rarely works out do they? Sorry 'bout that. My long distance relationship so far has been wonderful and perfect and special.. and.. and.. Be yourself! MooOOooOoo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
guppie01 0 #13 August 15, 2008 Quote Quote Yeah...relationships & distance rarely works out do they? Sorry 'bout that. My long distance relationship so far has been wonderful and perfect and special.. and.. and.. Too CUTE!!! g"Let's do something romantic this Saturday... how bout we bust out the restraints?" Raddest Ho this side of Jersey #1 - MISS YOU OMG, is she okay? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Orchid 0 #14 August 15, 2008 Quote hmm I prefer to wait. I did have a rule of at least 3 dates before having sex, I tried to stick to it, but there was a time when things just sort of happened. The 3 dates thing.....AGREED! "...but when things just sort of happended" Yes, I know what you mean....that sort of energy is just dangerous!"Love is doing small things with great love." Lacrosse: Legally beating men with sticks since 1492 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Orchid 0 #15 August 15, 2008 Quote I'm trying, she's not. Sorry about that...., sometimes things happen for a reason. Hang in there!"Love is doing small things with great love." Lacrosse: Legally beating men with sticks since 1492 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Orchid 0 #16 August 15, 2008 Quote My long distance relationship so far has been wonderful and perfect and special.. and.. and.. That's great to hear, I'm happy for you Lisa! What's your secret?"Love is doing small things with great love." Lacrosse: Legally beating men with sticks since 1492 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LisaH 0 #17 August 15, 2008 Quote Quote My long distance relationship so far has been wonderful and perfect and special.. and.. and.. That's great to hear, I'm happy for you Lisa! What's your secret? Patience and love. Be yourself! MooOOooOoo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ifall 0 #18 August 15, 2008 Quote Sorry about that...., sometimes things happen for a reason. Hang in there! Exactly, and thanks! It sucks when someone can't act like an adult. But I had a really nice conversation with a very sweet and extremely nice female wednesday night that kept pouring me free beers after my softball game. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andy_Copland 0 #19 August 15, 2008 Quotefree beers Marry her right now.1338 People aint made of nothin' but water and shit. Until morale improves, the beatings will continue. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ifall 0 #20 August 15, 2008 Quote Quote free beers Marry her right now. Going to look at rings this weekend. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SpeedRacer 1 #21 August 15, 2008 Usually I'd say, not on the first date, but I'd never absolutely rule it out. Speed Racer -------------------------------------------------- Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bolas 5 #22 August 15, 2008 Should this be posted in the Womens Forum? Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
k_marr08 0 #23 August 15, 2008 Quote I'm trying, she's not. sorry dude, that would SUCK in any type of relationship. I'm in a long distance relationship, and BOTH parties need to make an effort to keep up communication and involvement of the other in their lives. It also helps to visit once in a while "I believe the risks I take are justified by the sheer love of the life I lead" - Charles Lindbergh Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Conundrum 1 #24 August 15, 2008 Quote Hmm - so far all my relationships have been long distance! (Except the present one - but it _started_ long distance.) Quote My long distance relationship so far has been wonderful and perfect and special.. and.. and.. What's the distance? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LisaH 0 #25 August 15, 2008 Quote Quote Hmm - so far all my relationships have been long distance! (Except the present one - but it _started_ long distance.) Quote My long distance relationship so far has been wonderful and perfect and special.. and.. and.. What's the distance? I'm in Cali, he's in Florida.Be yourself! MooOOooOoo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
