galvar2439 0 #26 August 26, 2008 Quote I could do with a second opinion. At the start or last week everything seemed easy. I had two dates lined up with really attractive young ladies; a date with this hot blonde on Thursday evening and a date with a hot redhead on Tuesday (tomorrow) evening. Everything was simple and uncomplicated and I figured I had a pretty good week ahead of me. Now I don't know what to do. See, the date with the blonde went well... very well. And we've pretty much spent the last 4 nights together. So well in fact that I kinda get the feeling that there's an expectation of exclusivity there. It gets complicated however... Blonde chick moves away from the city in one month's time so there's no real expectation on either our part's that this is going to be a long term thing. Therefore, I really don't want to burn any bridges with redhead as I'd rather like to see more of her once blondie's left the city. So what the hell am I supposed to do about the date tomorrow night? I'm quite happy to still go on the date and simply not do anything... but what if I really hit it off with the redhead? I don't want to stuff things up by appearing uninterested or not following up on the date for like a whole month. On the other hand I'm not the kind of guy who will start seeing two girls at once, (I'm far too lazy and that seems like so much hard work) - so no suggestions that I should simply start seeing both of them as it's only a month I have to worry about. So do I call redhead, fess up that what seemed like a simple date has gone kinda further than I expected and that I no longer really feel in a position to start dating her... She'd not be pissed about my having had another date or anything, but might not be too impressed with the idea of being asked to wait around a month for me to screw the crap out of blondie while she waits in the wings. Do I simply cancel the date tomorrow with some kind of excuse and hope to pick things up in a few weeks time? Do I go on the date tomorrow night, not do anything, and somehow try and stall for a month?(the date by the way is just a first date meeting up for a couple of drinks after work - but then that's what my date with blondie on thursday was supposed to be ). Do I shut the hell up because the redhead probably isn't going to like me anyway so I'm agonizing about nothing? hehe GGGGEEEEEEZ! are you part woman? go on the date and stop whining, or are you kinda back hand braggin!. Women are like buses, one comes along every 15 minutes.So i just broke up with this woman who wasn't even my girlfriend! Hellfish #782, POPS #10664 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DangerRoo 0 #27 August 26, 2008 lol. GO on the date. have fun on your date(s), think about the qualitys you want in someone to be exclusive with. 4 days is a bit fast to decide you want to be exclusive on either side, unless your looking to marry someone next week .... your not going for a green card are ya? (I.C.D#2 VP) ""I'm good with my purple penis straw" ~sky mama Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
aresye 0 #28 August 26, 2008 Quote GGGGEEEEEEZ! are you part woman? go on the date and stop whining, or are you kinda back hand braggin!. Women are like buses, one comes along every 15 minutes. Hmmm, I seem to keep getting to the bus stop when it's closed Skydiving: You either learn from other's mistakes, or they'll learn from yours. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
galvar2439 0 #29 August 27, 2008 Quote Quote GGGGEEEEEEZ! are you part woman? go on the date and stop whining, or are you kinda back hand braggin!. Women are like buses, one comes along every 15 minutes. Hmmm, I seem to keep getting to the bus stop when it's closed Yeah, me too, i just been hangin on to that saying for the right time. I seem to always show up when the short yellow bus rolls up.So i just broke up with this woman who wasn't even my girlfriend! Hellfish #782, POPS #10664 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Baksteen 84 #30 August 27, 2008 Quote wonder what kind of instructors you have up there in the north! Personal one(s) "That formation-stuff in freefall is just fun and games but with an open parachute it's starting to sound like, you know, an extreme sport." ~mom Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
marks2065 0 #31 August 27, 2008 what's wrong with you? can't handle 2 chicks beating the crap out if you when they find out about each other? (and they just might) ps don't turn your back on the red head they are really underhanded (i know this from experience) really though just test drive both and see what one rides better. you might find out the blond is a dud and if you do have to piss her off she is leaving in a couple weaks. that means only having to hide for a short time. Haha Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sinjin 0 #32 August 27, 2008 so,, what happened ??? if you need witness protection i can help, but i am not cheapdont let life pass you by Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dirtyB 0 #33 August 28, 2008 Quote ps don't turn your back on the red head they are really underhanded (i know this from experience) Damnit, Shimmell!! "Don't let the bon-bons give you a fat ass. Merry X-mas!" - Skydemon2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mr2mk1g 10 #34 August 28, 2008 Quote what happened ??? hehe... met up with the redhead... date was ok, nothing to write home about. Clearly I was being a pussy... So I drove home from the date then went round and picked the blonde up and had a great night in Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
