VanillaSkyGirl 6 #51 November 10, 2008 I've always been the most attracted to the kind of man, who is nice to me and who will treat me well. If that guy is going to be "bad", he will be bad, along with me. Being thought of as nice does not mean that a person cannot be hot and sexy, too. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amazon 7 #52 November 11, 2008 QuoteHow does that line go? 'Treat women like dirt and they will stick to you like mud.' Something like that. Nah.. its the mud that sticks on the boots after you bury the sum of a biotch. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
futuredivot 0 #53 November 11, 2008 QuoteA bad boy might be fun for awhile, but he's not a keeper. That works out pretty well, cuz as long as we're boys we don't really want to be kept. It's when we become men that we settle in for the long haul.You are only as strong as the prey you devour Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wildfan75 1 #54 November 11, 2008 I prefer something in between. A bad boy that treats me great. I need a guy with a little bit of bad in him...gives me permission to be a little bad myself. But I need to be able to bring him home to meet the family and have my dad approve, pack my rig at night after a long day, sing "Grandma's Feather Bed" at the top of his lungs with me at the bar and surprise me every once in a while. Damn...I miss him! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
futuredivot 0 #55 November 11, 2008 QuoteI prefer something in between. A bad boy that treats me great. A genderswapped version of "lady in town, whore at home"?You are only as strong as the prey you devour Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livendive 8 #56 November 11, 2008 Just out of curiousity, how are "nice guy" and "bad boy" defined? I'd like to know which I am. Blues, Dave "I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skymama 37 #57 November 11, 2008 Quote She's too busy today. On Mondays, she teaches a course in Flirting at the local community college. And I've decided I'm giving C's to half the class. Kids these days...She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man, because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Orchid 0 #58 November 11, 2008 yeah...nice guy in public & bad boy in bed....that's my final answer! "Love is doing small things with great love." Lacrosse: Legally beating men with sticks since 1492 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #59 November 11, 2008 Right now it stands: Nice = 37 Bad = 13 We have 36 bullshitters in here and 13 with balls enough to say their preference.My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mamajumps 0 #60 November 11, 2008 Quote Right now it stands: Nice = 37 Bad = 13 We have 36 bullshitters in here and 13 with balls enough to say their preference. I voted good guy and you know my man... so move one check to the one with balls enough to say their preference.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #61 November 11, 2008 YOU were the one "nice guy" vote exception. My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tigra 0 #62 November 11, 2008 QuoteAnd to all the guys that constantly complain they can't get a girlfriend cause they're "too nice" and often say "nice guys finish last." Well thats not true at all, the reason you can't get a girlfriend is cause nobody wants to date a guy that complains all the time. I agree with you! There is a huge difference between a "nice guy" and a whiner! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladydyver 0 #63 November 12, 2008 Quote Just out of curiousity, how are "nice guy" and "bad boy" defined? I'd like to know which I am. Blues, Dave Dave...those of us who know you well already know the answer to that questionDPH # 2 "I am not sure what you are suppose to do with that, but I don't think it is suppose to flop around like that." ~Skootz~ I have a strong regard for the rules.......doc! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydemon2 0 #64 November 12, 2008 Quote yeah...nice guy in public & bad boy in bed....that's my final answer! How you doin? Beauty is only skin deep, but ugly goes clean to the bone! I like to start my day off with a little Ray of Soulshine™!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
downwardspiral 0 #65 November 12, 2008 I know this is the time when all of us men band together and blame all the women for them not being attracted to us but I'm not going to do it. So I'm going to go out on a limb here. Push me off if you want. It's true. Women like bad boys. No they don't like a guy that treats them badly or cheats on em. They like a guy who stands up for himself and his woman. They like a guy who has bigger balls then they do. They like a man who can take care of business. And most of all they like a man who rocks it like a porn star. So for all you guys complaining about being so nice the women don't like you....remove your fucking panties and man the fuck up. *dawns flame resistant suit* www.FourWheelerHB.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladydyver 0 #66 November 12, 2008 Quote I know this is the time when all of us men band together and blame all the women for them not being attracted to us but I'm not going to do it. So I'm going to go out on a limb here. Push me off if you want. It's true. Women like bad boys. No they don't like a guy that treats them badly or cheats on em. They like a guy who stands up for himself and his woman. They like a guy who has bigger balls then they do. They like a man who can take care of business. And most of all they like a man who rocks it like a porn star. So for all you guys complaining about being so nice the women don't like you....remove your fucking panties and man the fuck up. *dawns flame resistant suit* exactly...i voted for the bad boy...not that i want to be treated poorly...but i do like a guy with a little bit of a wild side to him....that is how i am. i don't want to be trampled on or treated poorly...but i do like a man who gets a little crazy on occasion. you can take that flame resistant suit off by the way......DPH # 2 "I am not sure what you are suppose to do with that, but I don't think it is suppose to flop around like that." ~Skootz~ I have a strong regard for the rules.......doc! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SuFantasma 0 #67 November 12, 2008 Quote Let's settle the debate in the other threads once and for all.Edit: And which one do i fall under? Neither? I heard that.(Poll is about which you prefer... not me.) You left out "Egotistical Maniac"Y yo, pa' vivir con miedo, prefiero morir sonriendo, con el recuerdo vivo". - Ruben Blades, "Adan Garcia" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #68 November 12, 2008 Quote And to all the guys that constantly complain they can't get a girlfriend cause they're "too nice" and often say "nice guys finish last." Well thats not true at all, the reason you can't get a girlfriend is cause nobody wants to date a guy that complains all the time. So, WTF, Pops...you been shootin' yourself in the foot all along. No wonder Sunny hasn't jumped your bones yet. Dumbass. My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mamajumps 0 #69 November 12, 2008 Quote I know this is the time when all of us men band together and blame all the women for them not being attracted to us but I'm not going to do it. So I'm going to go out on a limb here. Push me off if you want. It's true. Women like bad boys. No they don't like a guy that treats them badly or cheats on em. They like a guy who stands up for himself and his woman. They like a guy who has bigger balls then they do. They like a man who can take care of business. And most of all they like a man who rocks it like a porn star. So for all you guys complaining about being so nice the women don't like you....remove your fucking panties and man the fuck up. *dawns flame resistant suit* I agree with what you said here. Whiney, whimpy guys are defintily not attractive.... but here is a news flash to a lot of men... You don't have to be a tee total fucking prick... it is okay to treat women with respect and love (and in public and around your friends too) and not be a whimp.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
poe62 0 #70 November 12, 2008 Quote They like a guy who has bigger balls then they do. They like a man who can take care of business... And most of all they like a man who rocks it like a porn star. You nailed it! ~Nikki http://www.facebook.com/poe62 Irgity Dirgity Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nerdgirl 0 #71 November 12, 2008 Quote It's true. Women like bad boys. No they don't like a guy that treats them badly or cheats on em. They like a guy who stands up for himself and his woman. They like a guy who has bigger balls then they do. They like a man who can take care of business. And most of all they like a man who rocks it like a porn star. I suspect what you describe may be a very different definition of "bad boy" than many of the respondants applied. Like others, I base the preference for "nice guy" over “bad boy” on the latter meaning “asshole” or “jerk” or "controlling." The former also doesn't mean "doormat" or "wimp" or "passive agressive." Inability to challenge me is the first thing that loses my interest. Ability to challenge me in a non-'asshole' way, (which admittedly is highly subjective,) is almost always the first thing that gets my attention ... & keeps it. But that's just me. --- (Responding more generally from here) I’m in the ‘35&under’ crowd & agree with the “good guy” over “bad guy.” For the couple month I’ve been seeing an FBI/former Marine type (cuz he is both ) who has an imposing physical appearance: 6’5”, >235#. I have no doubt that if he _wanted_, he could be a very effectively intimidating asshole. What initially attracted me to him was how kind he was and he asked interesting questions … when I spoke with him on the phone. VR/Marg Act as if everything you do matters, while laughing at yourself for thinking anything you do matters. Tibetan Buddhist saying Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livendive 8 #72 November 12, 2008 Quote Quote Just out of curiousity, how are "nice guy" and "bad boy" defined? I'd like to know which I am. Blues, Dave Dave...those of us who know you well already know the answer to that question Dammit, I'll take that as a vote for "nice guy". Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladydyver 0 #73 November 12, 2008 Quote Quote Quote Just out of curiousity, how are "nice guy" and "bad boy" defined? I'd like to know which I am. Blues, Dave Dave...those of us who know you well already know the answer to that question Dammit, I'll take that as a vote for "nice guy". Blues, Dave ahhh...but only the red headed step child knows the whole truth DPH # 2 "I am not sure what you are suppose to do with that, but I don't think it is suppose to flop around like that." ~Skootz~ I have a strong regard for the rules.......doc! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ChibiKuma 0 #74 November 12, 2008 Quote Quote They like a guy who has bigger balls then they do. They like a man who can take care of business... And most of all they like a man who rocks it like a porn star. You nailed it! +1TPM #131 People are just as the stars....there are bright ones and there are those that are dim. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
brenthutch 444 #75 November 12, 2008 Someone else on another thread said, correctly, that a man must strike a ballance between *sshole and doormat. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
