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JENNR8R

Psycho Women

By JENNR8R, in The Bonfire

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soulshine    0

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I can be considered loopy or weird, but I don't think I'm psycho.

I make it a point to never have a discussion while I am angry. It takes so much to anger me that when I get to that point I know I can easily lose control and say or do something that I deeply regret. I don't like regrets so I just keep my mouth shut until I am rational.

I am proud to say that I have never yelled or cussed at a SO out of anger or spite. If someone yells it is because they feel as if they are not being heard so they speak their words louder in an attempt to get their point across. If I am put in that situation I will let the person know that I am not hearing impaired nor am I a dog that doesn't understand their words. I inform them that if they would like to continue the conversation then they can speak to me calmly and rationally or wait until they feel more in control of their emotions.

I dated a man once that accused me of being cold hearted. Apparently he and his last girlfriend would have epic fights that destroyed each other and their posessions. He would try to start that shit with me and I would just leave until he could talk to me calmly. Sadly, he had confused love and positive attention for those horrible fights.

It has been my experience that some people need drama, they feed off of it. These people tend to get into relationships with others that are similar to them. These are usually the people that complain of psycho ex's. The really amusing thing to me is that if you talk to either party involved they will each swear that they did everything they could to make the other happy and it was the other one that was pure evil and psycho to the core. I love to hear both sides of the story because it is so amusing to listen to the drastic story changes.


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skybytch    273

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if you talk to either party involved they will each swear that they did everything they could to make the other happy



(emphasis mine)

And, imho, therein lies a big problem.

Your happiness is your responsibility. It's not anyone else's job besides your own to make you happy. Expecting someone else to make you happy is setting yourself up for disappointment, hurt and anger. (note - that's a generic "you," not directed at anybody in particular)

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NWFlyer    2

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It has been my experience that some people need drama, they feed off of it. These people tend to get into relationships with others that are similar to them. These are usually the people that complain of psycho ex's.



Amen, girl. Drama feeds drama.

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"Damn, what was I thinking?"





That's the bad part. I usually know EXACTLY what I was thinking. Lets take for instance when I got married. She had blonde hair, green eyes, and 38DD's. What the hell was I supposed to do? :D I'm smart enough to know when it's NOT going to work long term. Often I decide to just go along for the ride and have fun. Limiting my risk emotionally, financially, and otherwise to ONLY what I am willing to lose. Don't get me wrong........I don't approach ALL relationships like that but there are certain ones that I know will not last from the get go. ;)

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swedishcelt    0

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It has been my experience that some people need drama, they feed off of it. These people tend to get into relationships with others that are similar to them. These are usually the people that complain of psycho ex's.


Amen, girl. Drama feeds drama.

Yes. And it is possible to recognize and break that cycle too. The quality of men I actually date
and surround myself with now is different, they aren't perfect but the
dramas and selfish explosions are gone.
I must be either getting smarter or luckier in my old age. :)

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lisamariewillbe    1

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No need to pop corn, this actually has been a thread that has more substence to it then titties and beer. As long as people are mature....

okay Im gonna go pop some corn lol skydivers cant be mature for long:D
Sudsy Fist: i don't think i'd ever say this
Sudsy Fist: but you're looking damn sudsydoable in this

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RkyMtnHigh    0

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No need to pop corn, this actually has been a thread that has more substence to it then titties and beer. As long as people are mature....

okay Im gonna go pop some corn lol skydivers cant be mature for long:D



You don't say?;):D





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stitch    0

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Some of us just seem to attract the psychos...



I dont believe that. Definitly not about you. However if someone is consistenley having bad relationships, maybe its less others and more ones-self. Ive choosen some real winners (read sarcasim) in my life. However I realized due to poor self esteem and such I fed off the compliments and took what I could get. I choose to accept lies and see what I wanted. Since then progressivley friendships have gotten better and I still attrack the "bad" boys but I am smart enough now to know the difference.

Its only a psyco relationship when the FBI gets involved :|:ph34r:

Oh and a side note... if we live in the past about our experiences with people it bleeds into our future. When its over, its over, time to start anew without the crap from the past. Let go people. If one cant let go, then they are only making themselves misrable.

By chance,were you drunk/hungover when you posted this.:oOr are your kids wearing you down;)Just curious with all of the misspelled words:P:)
"No cookies for you"- GFD
"I don't think I like the sound of that" ~ MB65
Don't be a "Racer Hater"

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stitch    0

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Please do not tell me this is the first time you have realized I am too lazy for spell check???

Fixed it for ya;)Oh yeah!!Almost forgot,its "penguins":P;):D
"No cookies for you"- GFD
"I don't think I like the sound of that" ~ MB65
Don't be a "Racer Hater"

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stitch    0

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I know that now, Im not fixing it now, I like to annoy people....I do it well :D Now un-bunch your panties and go jump.... fucking slacker lol

Why are you so mean:(:(:(It is overcast,and raining where I'm at.[:/][:/]
"No cookies for you"- GFD
"I don't think I like the sound of that" ~ MB65
Don't be a "Racer Hater"

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lisamariewillbe    1

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Shit , here to, which means I made a wise decsion to skip the DZ ...

Why am I so mean??? Now that is a difficult question to answer... however I am only mean to my friends, the ones I dont like I am nice to.... ya know kill them with kindness :P
Sudsy Fist: i don't think i'd ever say this
Sudsy Fist: but you're looking damn sudsydoable in this

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