JENNR8R 0 #1 May 14, 2006 ***"We were hot and heavy for about two months until I started seeing signs that she was a psycho. I ran. Far, far away." Quote What behavior in a woman makes her a "psycho"? Why does it take so long to recognize? Why do you stay around even after this realization?What do you call a beautiful, sunny day that comes after two cloudy, rainy ones? -- Monday. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Chizazz 0 #2 May 14, 2006 Quote What behavior in a woman makes her a "psycho"? reply] If she dresses as her mother and kills you with a knife while you're taking a shower. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites SkydiveStMarys 0 #3 May 14, 2006 Aaaaah sounds like my crazy neighbor lady!!!! We started out as friends.....got kinda close....you know, talking over the fence...watching the kids play...her hubby works for my SO.....and so on... What maked her psycho?? When her hubby asked me not to ask her anything pertaining to him...not even a "how is he feeling today?"...she accused him of fucking me and vice versa!!!!!!! She acted strangely towards me for a weekend maybe a little longer...then has acted as though nothing is wrong...to this day...she is as sweet to me as can be (I posted a thread about it asking for advice, but don't know how to make a "clicky".) Signs?? NONE!!! Out of left field...I was hurt/angry/and down right pissed that she would accuse me of such a thing... I keep my distance...a hello and wave every now and then...won't step foot into her house or share a cup of coffee with her...I don't need that shit. BobbiA miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites waltappel 1 #4 May 14, 2006 QuoteQuote"We were hot and heavy for about two months until I started seeing signs that she was a psycho. I ran. Far, far away." What behavior in a woman makes her a "psycho"? Mood swings. Going from "I love you" to "Die, you bastard--I hate you" within the space of a few minutes is a good indicator of psycho chick. Quote Why does it take so long to recognize? In my experience they mask it for the first few months of a relationship. Either that or it takes me that long to make their life a living hell. Quote Why do you stay around even after this realization? It's easy to chalk it up to PMS and blow it off the first couple of times. Especially since it doesn't happen frequently at first and they may feel really guilty and act accordingly afterward. That, plus I'm kind of a dumbass in that way. Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites waltappel 1 #5 May 14, 2006 Here ya' go, Bobbi. crazy neighbor lady thread Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites freeflir29 0 #6 May 14, 2006 I have a LOT of experience with this subject and I have to say, Walt...........you hit the nail on the head. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites waltappel 1 #7 May 14, 2006 QuoteI have a LOT of experience with this subject and I have to say, Walt...........you hit the nail on the head. "Psycho chick stories" would probably be a GREAT thread to start! Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites freeflir29 0 #8 May 14, 2006 Quote"Psycho chick stories" would probably be a GREAT thread to start! Nahhh..............some of them are still here on DZ.com. It'd get locked quickly. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites popsjumper 2 #9 May 14, 2006 Whew! What a relief! I was just sure that this thread was going to be about a friend who works in the same town as my ex and had run into her somewhere.My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites swedishcelt 0 #10 May 14, 2006 I know you realize that we ladies have just as many "psycho men" stories too. Way more than enough to fill a thread. I've told you some!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites freeflir29 0 #11 May 14, 2006 QuoteI know you realize that we ladies have just as many "psycho men" stories too. Yeah...........seems most people I know are crazy. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites yamtx73 0 #12 May 14, 2006 QuoteI know you realize that we ladies have just as many "psycho men" stories too. Way more than enough to fill a thread. I've told you some!! There are probably just as many 'psycho men' stories out there as there are 'psycho women' stories. I doubt anyone could reach the age of 30 without having at least 1 experience they could share. Some of us just seem to attract the psychos... The only naturals in this sport shit thru feathers... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites PLFXpert 0 #13 May 14, 2006 Oh, come on now ladies, we all have psycho tendencies, it's just a matter of to what extent and how often. I remember once (yes, just once, but it would definitely qualify as psycho) that I was SO upset and hurt and after screaming obscenities at him my hunny left to golf with his brother and cousin, which of course pissed me off more and I think I left him 15 messages over the course of a 5-hour golf game Did I mention each message was at least 5 minutes long??? But, hey, I felt better I haven't done that since though---I realized NOT calling would have been far more effective.Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites freeflir29 0 #14 May 14, 2006 QuoteSome of us just seem to attract the psychos... Like freakin FLY PAPER! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites PLFXpert 0 #15 May 14, 2006 QuoteGoing from "I love you" to "Die, you bastard--I hate you" within the space of a few minutes is a good indicator I have a rule never to leave the house with the last thing being said sometime negative. On that particular occassion mentioned above, I believe as my hunny walked out the door I said something along the lines of "Have fun! I love you, asshole."Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites PLFXpert 0 #16 May 14, 2006 QuoteI know you realize that we ladies have just as many "psycho men" stories too I don't think dz.com has enough bandwidthPaint me in a corner, but my color comes back. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites shropshire 0 #17 May 14, 2006 Harsh rule.... some people would be stuck at home forever (.)Y(.) Chivalry is not dead; it only sleeps for want of work to do. - Jerome K Jerome Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites popsjumper 2 #18 May 14, 2006 Quote...I have a rule never to leave the house with the last thing being said sometime negative. ... "Have fun! I love you, asshole." I'm sure he would have rather heard... "Asshole! Have fun, I love you." Keeps the last word positive. My ex had to have the last word...always. She wouldn't even let it go when I said "Yes, dear."My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites waltappel 1 #19 May 14, 2006 QuoteOh, come on now ladies, we all have psycho tendencies, it's just a matter of to what extent and how often. I remember once (yes, just once, but it would definitely qualify as psycho) that I was SO upset and hurt and after screaming obscenities at him my hunny left to golf with his brother and cousin, which of course pissed me off more and I think I left him 15 messages over the course of a 5-hour golf game Did I mention each message was at least 5 minutes long??? But, hey, I felt better I haven't done that since though---I realized NOT calling would have been far more effective. Just curious. What were you upset about? Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites swedishcelt 0 #20 May 14, 2006 QuoteQuoteI know you realize that we ladies have just as many "psycho men" stories too I don't think dz.com has enough bandwidthI'm lucky enough to say the good experiences far exceed the bad. Maybe not in longevity... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites NWFlyer 2 #21 May 14, 2006 Quote Oh, come on now ladies, we all have psycho tendencies, it's just a matter of to what extent and how often. Speak for yourself. Not all of us do."There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites lisamariewillbe 1 #22 May 14, 2006 QuoteSome of us just seem to attract the psychos... I dont believe that. Definitly not about you. However if someone is consistenley having bad relationships, maybe its less others and more ones-self. Ive choosen some real winners (read sarcasim) in my life. However I realized due to poor self esteem and such I fed off the compliments and took what I could get. I choose to accept lies and see what I wanted. Since then progressivley friendships have gotten better and I still attrack the "bad" boys but I am smart enough now to know the difference. Its only a psyco relationship when the FBI gets involved Oh and a side note... if we live in the past about our experiences with people it bleeds into our future. When its over, its over, time to start anew without the crap from the past. Let go people. If one cant let go, then they are only making themselves misrable.Sudsy Fist: i don't think i'd ever say this Sudsy Fist: but you're looking damn sudsydoable in this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites skybytch 273 #23 May 14, 2006 QuoteSpeak for yourself. Not all of us do. What she said. Expressing unhappiness or hurt when he does something less than thoughtful is one thing; going berserk and screaming at him is not something that I think is acceptable behavior in myself for any reason. I wouldn't put up with it if he did it. I shouldn't expect him to put up with it from me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites NWFlyer 2 #24 May 14, 2006 Quote However if someone is consistenley having bad relationships, maybe its less others and more ones-self. Ding ding ding! We have a winner. Good observation, Lisamarie. If I'm looking at someone to date and all they do is go on about all their "psycho" or "bitchy" or "crazy" exes... I'm going to run far, far, away. Sure, we all make a choice or two that later on make us say "Damn, what was I thinking?" but really, by a certain point in our lives we ought to be able to make better choices. And one of those choices might be choosing to be alone for a while until we can be comfortable with ourselves... and therefore more comfortable in a relationship. But if I'm evaluating someone to date and I see consistent patterns of choosing "psycho" people, it will will make me wonder two things about the guy: 1) Why does he continue going back to the same types of people/types of relationships? and 2) Is he a contributing factor in the "psycho" behavior? Whatever the answer is, I've got better things to do with my time than wait around to be the next "psycho" ex. How people refer to people they've dated in the past tells me a lot about them. If it's always "her fault," chances are, it isn't."There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites wildcard451 0 #25 May 14, 2006 I don't feel that you need to differentiate between women, and psycho women. All women are crazy. discuss amongst yourselves. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 3 4 5 6 Next Page 1 of 6 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0 Go To Topic Listing
Chizazz 0 #2 May 14, 2006 Quote What behavior in a woman makes her a "psycho"? reply] If she dresses as her mother and kills you with a knife while you're taking a shower. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites SkydiveStMarys 0 #3 May 14, 2006 Aaaaah sounds like my crazy neighbor lady!!!! We started out as friends.....got kinda close....you know, talking over the fence...watching the kids play...her hubby works for my SO.....and so on... What maked her psycho?? When her hubby asked me not to ask her anything pertaining to him...not even a "how is he feeling today?"...she accused him of fucking me and vice versa!!!!!!! She acted strangely towards me for a weekend maybe a little longer...then has acted as though nothing is wrong...to this day...she is as sweet to me as can be (I posted a thread about it asking for advice, but don't know how to make a "clicky".) Signs?? NONE!!! Out of left field...I was hurt/angry/and down right pissed that she would accuse me of such a thing... I keep my distance...a hello and wave every now and then...won't step foot into her house or share a cup of coffee with her...I don't need that shit. BobbiA miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites waltappel 1 #4 May 14, 2006 QuoteQuote"We were hot and heavy for about two months until I started seeing signs that she was a psycho. I ran. Far, far away." What behavior in a woman makes her a "psycho"? Mood swings. Going from "I love you" to "Die, you bastard--I hate you" within the space of a few minutes is a good indicator of psycho chick. Quote Why does it take so long to recognize? In my experience they mask it for the first few months of a relationship. Either that or it takes me that long to make their life a living hell. Quote Why do you stay around even after this realization? It's easy to chalk it up to PMS and blow it off the first couple of times. Especially since it doesn't happen frequently at first and they may feel really guilty and act accordingly afterward. That, plus I'm kind of a dumbass in that way. Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites waltappel 1 #5 May 14, 2006 Here ya' go, Bobbi. crazy neighbor lady thread Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites freeflir29 0 #6 May 14, 2006 I have a LOT of experience with this subject and I have to say, Walt...........you hit the nail on the head. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites waltappel 1 #7 May 14, 2006 QuoteI have a LOT of experience with this subject and I have to say, Walt...........you hit the nail on the head. "Psycho chick stories" would probably be a GREAT thread to start! Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites freeflir29 0 #8 May 14, 2006 Quote"Psycho chick stories" would probably be a GREAT thread to start! Nahhh..............some of them are still here on DZ.com. It'd get locked quickly. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites popsjumper 2 #9 May 14, 2006 Whew! What a relief! I was just sure that this thread was going to be about a friend who works in the same town as my ex and had run into her somewhere.My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites swedishcelt 0 #10 May 14, 2006 I know you realize that we ladies have just as many "psycho men" stories too. Way more than enough to fill a thread. I've told you some!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites freeflir29 0 #11 May 14, 2006 QuoteI know you realize that we ladies have just as many "psycho men" stories too. Yeah...........seems most people I know are crazy. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites yamtx73 0 #12 May 14, 2006 QuoteI know you realize that we ladies have just as many "psycho men" stories too. Way more than enough to fill a thread. I've told you some!! There are probably just as many 'psycho men' stories out there as there are 'psycho women' stories. I doubt anyone could reach the age of 30 without having at least 1 experience they could share. Some of us just seem to attract the psychos... The only naturals in this sport shit thru feathers... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites PLFXpert 0 #13 May 14, 2006 Oh, come on now ladies, we all have psycho tendencies, it's just a matter of to what extent and how often. I remember once (yes, just once, but it would definitely qualify as psycho) that I was SO upset and hurt and after screaming obscenities at him my hunny left to golf with his brother and cousin, which of course pissed me off more and I think I left him 15 messages over the course of a 5-hour golf game Did I mention each message was at least 5 minutes long??? But, hey, I felt better I haven't done that since though---I realized NOT calling would have been far more effective.Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites freeflir29 0 #14 May 14, 2006 QuoteSome of us just seem to attract the psychos... Like freakin FLY PAPER! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites PLFXpert 0 #15 May 14, 2006 QuoteGoing from "I love you" to "Die, you bastard--I hate you" within the space of a few minutes is a good indicator I have a rule never to leave the house with the last thing being said sometime negative. On that particular occassion mentioned above, I believe as my hunny walked out the door I said something along the lines of "Have fun! I love you, asshole."Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites PLFXpert 0 #16 May 14, 2006 QuoteI know you realize that we ladies have just as many "psycho men" stories too I don't think dz.com has enough bandwidthPaint me in a corner, but my color comes back. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites shropshire 0 #17 May 14, 2006 Harsh rule.... some people would be stuck at home forever (.)Y(.) Chivalry is not dead; it only sleeps for want of work to do. - Jerome K Jerome Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites popsjumper 2 #18 May 14, 2006 Quote...I have a rule never to leave the house with the last thing being said sometime negative. ... "Have fun! I love you, asshole." I'm sure he would have rather heard... "Asshole! Have fun, I love you." Keeps the last word positive. My ex had to have the last word...always. She wouldn't even let it go when I said "Yes, dear."My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites waltappel 1 #19 May 14, 2006 QuoteOh, come on now ladies, we all have psycho tendencies, it's just a matter of to what extent and how often. I remember once (yes, just once, but it would definitely qualify as psycho) that I was SO upset and hurt and after screaming obscenities at him my hunny left to golf with his brother and cousin, which of course pissed me off more and I think I left him 15 messages over the course of a 5-hour golf game Did I mention each message was at least 5 minutes long??? But, hey, I felt better I haven't done that since though---I realized NOT calling would have been far more effective. Just curious. What were you upset about? Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites swedishcelt 0 #20 May 14, 2006 QuoteQuoteI know you realize that we ladies have just as many "psycho men" stories too I don't think dz.com has enough bandwidthI'm lucky enough to say the good experiences far exceed the bad. Maybe not in longevity... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites NWFlyer 2 #21 May 14, 2006 Quote Oh, come on now ladies, we all have psycho tendencies, it's just a matter of to what extent and how often. Speak for yourself. Not all of us do."There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites lisamariewillbe 1 #22 May 14, 2006 QuoteSome of us just seem to attract the psychos... I dont believe that. Definitly not about you. However if someone is consistenley having bad relationships, maybe its less others and more ones-self. Ive choosen some real winners (read sarcasim) in my life. However I realized due to poor self esteem and such I fed off the compliments and took what I could get. I choose to accept lies and see what I wanted. Since then progressivley friendships have gotten better and I still attrack the "bad" boys but I am smart enough now to know the difference. Its only a psyco relationship when the FBI gets involved Oh and a side note... if we live in the past about our experiences with people it bleeds into our future. When its over, its over, time to start anew without the crap from the past. Let go people. If one cant let go, then they are only making themselves misrable.Sudsy Fist: i don't think i'd ever say this Sudsy Fist: but you're looking damn sudsydoable in this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites skybytch 273 #23 May 14, 2006 QuoteSpeak for yourself. Not all of us do. What she said. Expressing unhappiness or hurt when he does something less than thoughtful is one thing; going berserk and screaming at him is not something that I think is acceptable behavior in myself for any reason. I wouldn't put up with it if he did it. I shouldn't expect him to put up with it from me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites NWFlyer 2 #24 May 14, 2006 Quote However if someone is consistenley having bad relationships, maybe its less others and more ones-self. Ding ding ding! We have a winner. Good observation, Lisamarie. If I'm looking at someone to date and all they do is go on about all their "psycho" or "bitchy" or "crazy" exes... I'm going to run far, far, away. Sure, we all make a choice or two that later on make us say "Damn, what was I thinking?" but really, by a certain point in our lives we ought to be able to make better choices. And one of those choices might be choosing to be alone for a while until we can be comfortable with ourselves... and therefore more comfortable in a relationship. But if I'm evaluating someone to date and I see consistent patterns of choosing "psycho" people, it will will make me wonder two things about the guy: 1) Why does he continue going back to the same types of people/types of relationships? and 2) Is he a contributing factor in the "psycho" behavior? Whatever the answer is, I've got better things to do with my time than wait around to be the next "psycho" ex. How people refer to people they've dated in the past tells me a lot about them. If it's always "her fault," chances are, it isn't."There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites wildcard451 0 #25 May 14, 2006 I don't feel that you need to differentiate between women, and psycho women. All women are crazy. discuss amongst yourselves. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 3 4 5 6 Next Page 1 of 6 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0
SkydiveStMarys 0 #3 May 14, 2006 Aaaaah sounds like my crazy neighbor lady!!!! We started out as friends.....got kinda close....you know, talking over the fence...watching the kids play...her hubby works for my SO.....and so on... What maked her psycho?? When her hubby asked me not to ask her anything pertaining to him...not even a "how is he feeling today?"...she accused him of fucking me and vice versa!!!!!!! She acted strangely towards me for a weekend maybe a little longer...then has acted as though nothing is wrong...to this day...she is as sweet to me as can be (I posted a thread about it asking for advice, but don't know how to make a "clicky".) Signs?? NONE!!! Out of left field...I was hurt/angry/and down right pissed that she would accuse me of such a thing... I keep my distance...a hello and wave every now and then...won't step foot into her house or share a cup of coffee with her...I don't need that shit. BobbiA miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waltappel 1 #4 May 14, 2006 QuoteQuote"We were hot and heavy for about two months until I started seeing signs that she was a psycho. I ran. Far, far away." What behavior in a woman makes her a "psycho"? Mood swings. Going from "I love you" to "Die, you bastard--I hate you" within the space of a few minutes is a good indicator of psycho chick. Quote Why does it take so long to recognize? In my experience they mask it for the first few months of a relationship. Either that or it takes me that long to make their life a living hell. Quote Why do you stay around even after this realization? It's easy to chalk it up to PMS and blow it off the first couple of times. Especially since it doesn't happen frequently at first and they may feel really guilty and act accordingly afterward. That, plus I'm kind of a dumbass in that way. Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waltappel 1 #5 May 14, 2006 Here ya' go, Bobbi. crazy neighbor lady thread Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #6 May 14, 2006 I have a LOT of experience with this subject and I have to say, Walt...........you hit the nail on the head. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waltappel 1 #7 May 14, 2006 QuoteI have a LOT of experience with this subject and I have to say, Walt...........you hit the nail on the head. "Psycho chick stories" would probably be a GREAT thread to start! Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #8 May 14, 2006 Quote"Psycho chick stories" would probably be a GREAT thread to start! Nahhh..............some of them are still here on DZ.com. It'd get locked quickly. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #9 May 14, 2006 Whew! What a relief! I was just sure that this thread was going to be about a friend who works in the same town as my ex and had run into her somewhere.My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
swedishcelt 0 #10 May 14, 2006 I know you realize that we ladies have just as many "psycho men" stories too. Way more than enough to fill a thread. I've told you some!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #11 May 14, 2006 QuoteI know you realize that we ladies have just as many "psycho men" stories too. Yeah...........seems most people I know are crazy. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yamtx73 0 #12 May 14, 2006 QuoteI know you realize that we ladies have just as many "psycho men" stories too. Way more than enough to fill a thread. I've told you some!! There are probably just as many 'psycho men' stories out there as there are 'psycho women' stories. I doubt anyone could reach the age of 30 without having at least 1 experience they could share. Some of us just seem to attract the psychos... The only naturals in this sport shit thru feathers... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PLFXpert 0 #13 May 14, 2006 Oh, come on now ladies, we all have psycho tendencies, it's just a matter of to what extent and how often. I remember once (yes, just once, but it would definitely qualify as psycho) that I was SO upset and hurt and after screaming obscenities at him my hunny left to golf with his brother and cousin, which of course pissed me off more and I think I left him 15 messages over the course of a 5-hour golf game Did I mention each message was at least 5 minutes long??? But, hey, I felt better I haven't done that since though---I realized NOT calling would have been far more effective.Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #14 May 14, 2006 QuoteSome of us just seem to attract the psychos... Like freakin FLY PAPER! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PLFXpert 0 #15 May 14, 2006 QuoteGoing from "I love you" to "Die, you bastard--I hate you" within the space of a few minutes is a good indicator I have a rule never to leave the house with the last thing being said sometime negative. On that particular occassion mentioned above, I believe as my hunny walked out the door I said something along the lines of "Have fun! I love you, asshole."Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PLFXpert 0 #16 May 14, 2006 QuoteI know you realize that we ladies have just as many "psycho men" stories too I don't think dz.com has enough bandwidthPaint me in a corner, but my color comes back. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shropshire 0 #17 May 14, 2006 Harsh rule.... some people would be stuck at home forever (.)Y(.) Chivalry is not dead; it only sleeps for want of work to do. - Jerome K Jerome Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #18 May 14, 2006 Quote...I have a rule never to leave the house with the last thing being said sometime negative. ... "Have fun! I love you, asshole." I'm sure he would have rather heard... "Asshole! Have fun, I love you." Keeps the last word positive. My ex had to have the last word...always. She wouldn't even let it go when I said "Yes, dear."My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waltappel 1 #19 May 14, 2006 QuoteOh, come on now ladies, we all have psycho tendencies, it's just a matter of to what extent and how often. I remember once (yes, just once, but it would definitely qualify as psycho) that I was SO upset and hurt and after screaming obscenities at him my hunny left to golf with his brother and cousin, which of course pissed me off more and I think I left him 15 messages over the course of a 5-hour golf game Did I mention each message was at least 5 minutes long??? But, hey, I felt better I haven't done that since though---I realized NOT calling would have been far more effective. Just curious. What were you upset about? Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
swedishcelt 0 #20 May 14, 2006 QuoteQuoteI know you realize that we ladies have just as many "psycho men" stories too I don't think dz.com has enough bandwidthI'm lucky enough to say the good experiences far exceed the bad. Maybe not in longevity... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NWFlyer 2 #21 May 14, 2006 Quote Oh, come on now ladies, we all have psycho tendencies, it's just a matter of to what extent and how often. Speak for yourself. Not all of us do."There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lisamariewillbe 1 #22 May 14, 2006 QuoteSome of us just seem to attract the psychos... I dont believe that. Definitly not about you. However if someone is consistenley having bad relationships, maybe its less others and more ones-self. Ive choosen some real winners (read sarcasim) in my life. However I realized due to poor self esteem and such I fed off the compliments and took what I could get. I choose to accept lies and see what I wanted. Since then progressivley friendships have gotten better and I still attrack the "bad" boys but I am smart enough now to know the difference. Its only a psyco relationship when the FBI gets involved Oh and a side note... if we live in the past about our experiences with people it bleeds into our future. When its over, its over, time to start anew without the crap from the past. Let go people. If one cant let go, then they are only making themselves misrable.Sudsy Fist: i don't think i'd ever say this Sudsy Fist: but you're looking damn sudsydoable in this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skybytch 273 #23 May 14, 2006 QuoteSpeak for yourself. Not all of us do. What she said. Expressing unhappiness or hurt when he does something less than thoughtful is one thing; going berserk and screaming at him is not something that I think is acceptable behavior in myself for any reason. I wouldn't put up with it if he did it. I shouldn't expect him to put up with it from me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NWFlyer 2 #24 May 14, 2006 Quote However if someone is consistenley having bad relationships, maybe its less others and more ones-self. Ding ding ding! We have a winner. Good observation, Lisamarie. If I'm looking at someone to date and all they do is go on about all their "psycho" or "bitchy" or "crazy" exes... I'm going to run far, far, away. Sure, we all make a choice or two that later on make us say "Damn, what was I thinking?" but really, by a certain point in our lives we ought to be able to make better choices. And one of those choices might be choosing to be alone for a while until we can be comfortable with ourselves... and therefore more comfortable in a relationship. But if I'm evaluating someone to date and I see consistent patterns of choosing "psycho" people, it will will make me wonder two things about the guy: 1) Why does he continue going back to the same types of people/types of relationships? and 2) Is he a contributing factor in the "psycho" behavior? Whatever the answer is, I've got better things to do with my time than wait around to be the next "psycho" ex. How people refer to people they've dated in the past tells me a lot about them. If it's always "her fault," chances are, it isn't."There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wildcard451 0 #25 May 14, 2006 I don't feel that you need to differentiate between women, and psycho women. All women are crazy. discuss amongst yourselves. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
