LuckyMcSwervy 0 #1 December 18, 2008 So, how long do you think you should wait between being dumped and then getting back in the saddle, so to speak? I'm being serious. Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CSpenceFLY 1 #2 December 18, 2008 Quote So, how long do you think you should wait between being dumped and then getting back in the saddle, so to speak? I'm being serious. I think you're in the wrong forum for that. Have you had the rebound sex yet? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
poe62 0 #3 December 18, 2008 I wouldn't know. I'm still getting over my broken heart. It's been a month. ~Nikki http://www.facebook.com/poe62 Irgity Dirgity Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
d_squared431 0 #4 December 18, 2008 I think it varies from each person and relationship. Maybe a few weeks/months or for some a few days. I know for me, it does take more time before I feel I can date again.TPM Sister#130ONTIG#1 I love vodka.I love vodka cause it rhymes with Tuaca~LisaH You having a clean thought is like billyvance having a clean post.iluvtofly Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gonzalesna 1 #5 December 18, 2008 depends on the length of time dating... but then again, you're not gaining any ground by feeling bad and refusing to try againSome people refrain from beating a dead horse. Personally, I find a myriad of entertainment value when beating it until it becomes a horse-smoothie. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Yoshi 0 #6 December 18, 2008 well... in the past I was a complete ass hole and got back on the horse before I got off the other one... that is not a good move... not for anyone.. but I say let the healing begin as soon as ties are broken and there is no reason for guilt._________________________________________ this space for rent. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wolfriverjoe 1,523 #7 December 18, 2008 Quote So, how long do you think you should wait between being dumped and then getting back in the saddle, so to speak? I'm being serious. After I got diverced, I waited until after I could drive past a wedding party outside a church without wanting to scream "You'll be sorry" out the window. And I am being serious."There are NO situations which do not call for a French Maid outfit." Lucky McSwervy "~ya don't GET old by being weak & stupid!" - Airtwardo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
iluvtofly 0 #8 December 18, 2008 I wish I knew. I've been divorced for almost a year and still haven't been in any sort of relationships. Though I think a large part of that is lack of decent guys in my area. (Or maybe my standards are just too high.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SuFantasma 0 #9 December 18, 2008 Quote So, how long do you think you should wait between being dumped and then getting back in the saddle, so to speak? I'm being serious. Shouldn't be a problem if you are a polygamist Y yo, pa' vivir con miedo, prefiero morir sonriendo, con el recuerdo vivo". - Ruben Blades, "Adan Garcia" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #10 December 18, 2008 Quote Quote So, how long do you think you should wait between being dumped and then getting back in the saddle, so to speak? I'm being serious. I think you're in the wrong forum for that. Have you had the rebound sex yet? Nope. Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnMitchell 16 #11 December 18, 2008 Got dumped? Hell, hop back on and ride. Why give the dumper the satisfaction of seeing you sit on the sidelines? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CSpenceFLY 1 #12 December 18, 2008 Quote Quote Quote So, how long do you think you should wait between being dumped and then getting back in the saddle, so to speak? I'm being serious. I think you're in the wrong forum for that. Have you had the rebound sex yet? Nope. There is your problem. Oh and this is in the wrong forum. Where are the mods when you need them? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #13 December 18, 2008 Quote I wouldn't know. I'm still getting over my broken heart. It's been a month. Hugs, sweetie. I know how much you're hurting. Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #14 December 18, 2008 QuoteI think it varies from each person and relationship. Maybe a few weeks/months or for some a few days. I know for me, it does take more time before I feel I can date again. LOL - Like maybe from date of dump to date of Invasion?Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #15 December 18, 2008 Quote So, how long do you think you should wait between being dumped and then getting back in the saddle, so to speak? I'm being serious. Just grab a fuck buddy, and wait until you feel what you need deep inside.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Yoshi 0 #16 December 18, 2008 give yourself a helping hand until you feel someone else can do it for ya... then go get drunk and take advantage of some college kid... he will think he is the bomb, and it will stroke your own ego a bit too... amung other things_________________________________________ this space for rent. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #17 December 18, 2008 Quote well... in the past I was a complete ass hole and got back on the horse before I got off the other one... that is not a good move... not for anyone.. but I say let the healing begin as soon as ties are broken and there is no reason for guilt. Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Yoshi 0 #18 December 18, 2008 no...? I mean you could always go on dwelling on what could have been...what happened... who was he..who were you... blah blah blah... I know it sucks...ive had my share of break ups and what not...but I am also pretty needy.... I have found I almost always need someone... not just the sex and whatever, I just hate being alone so I usually get over people pretty quickly...especialy if they did me wrong... anyways. sorry that its difficult...or just something that is confusing... If you are happy not being with anyone...then no big deal... if you really want to be with someone...then start pickin through the few good guys out there and get you some!_________________________________________ this space for rent. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mnealtx 0 #19 December 18, 2008 All joking aside - when YOU'RE ready - not when anyone else says.Mike I love you, Shannon and Jim. POPS 9708 , SCR 14706 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #20 December 18, 2008 Quote Got dumped? Hell, hop back on and ride. Why give the dumper the satisfaction of seeing you sit on the sidelines? Oh, he wouldn't be satisfied seeing that. He's a good dude. Its just that all of a sudden my inner wild child is coming out and I don't know why besides getting dumped. There's gotta be a name for that, right? Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mnealtx 0 #21 December 18, 2008 Quote There's gotta be a name for that, right? Nymphomania?Mike I love you, Shannon and Jim. POPS 9708 , SCR 14706 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CSpenceFLY 1 #22 December 18, 2008 Quote Quote Got dumped? Hell, hop back on and ride. Why give the dumper the satisfaction of seeing you sit on the sidelines? Oh, he wouldn't be satisfied seeing that. He's a good dude. Its just that all of a sudden my inner wild child is coming out and I don't know why besides getting dumped. There's gotta be a name for that, right? There are a list of names but I don't want to offend you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TEXX56 0 #23 December 18, 2008 you are allowed one week for every six months you were together for being all depressed and what not but you can start sooner than that Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #24 December 18, 2008 Quote you are allowed one week for every six months you were together for being all depressed and what not but you can start sooner than that Now I have to sit down and do some long division for the almost 2 month formula. Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skittles_of_SDC 0 #25 December 18, 2008 Quote Quote I think it varies from each person and relationship. Maybe a few weeks/months or for some a few days. I know for me, it does take more time before I feel I can date again. LOL - Like maybe from date of dump to date of Invasion? LMAO. That is EXACTLY what I was going to say. I'll see you there. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
