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The Official 2009 Anti-Valentine's Day Thread

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I'm in and will be alone as usual. Probably be cleaning the house and trying to figure out why I'm invisible to men.

Peace,
Stacey



how YOU doin'!? :D


My thoughts exactly :)
Serious relationships turn into work after a few weeks and I already got a fucking job :)
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I detest Valentines day, I boycott every year. Dumb holiday created to make single people feel bad and lonely and for couples to try to come up with ways to show eachother they love eachother by spending money which is unnecessary.




I agree it's stupid to spend a lot of money for one day when you should be showing someone every day how important they are to you. My boyfriend and I agree on that. However, I guess we didn't agree as much as we thought on the subject. I thought we would take the opportunity to spend time together, order in, and cuddle up on the courch together. That was what he said he wanted to do.

Instead, he decided to prove that it is, indeed, just another day to him, and blew off our plans entirely.
Hope he feels good sitting by himself tonight.

I don't ask for much from him. Silly me, I still thought it would be nice to spend Valentine's Day with him sharing a bottle of wine and a naked cuddle on the couch.

Guess who's not going to be in the mood the next time HE wants to do that on an ordinary Tuesday?
We should not let our fears hold us back from pursuing our hopes.
-- John Fitzgerald Kennedy.

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I agree it's stupid to spend a lot of money for one day when you should be showing someone every day how important they are to you. My boyfriend and I agree on that. However, I guess we didn't agree as much as we thought on the subject. I thought we would take the opportunity to spend time together, order in, and cuddle up on the courch together. That was what he said he wanted to do.

Instead, he decided to prove that it is, indeed, just another day to him, and blew off our plans entirely.
Hope he feels good sitting by himself tonight.

I don't ask for much from him. Silly me, I still thought it would be nice to spend Valentine's Day with him sharing a bottle of wine and a naked cuddle on the couch.

Guess who's not going to be in the mood the next time HE wants to do that on an ordinary Tuesday?



So what is he doing instead? The way you put it, I don't think your wishes were all that demanding.

What if it was the first day in awhile that the weather was decent and he went to make a few jumps? Would you be as pissed off as you are?
Serious relationships turn into work after a few weeks and I already got a fucking job :)
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H.A.F. = Hard As Fuck ... Goddamn Amateurs

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He's home. Probably in bed by now. We're very low key. In fact, our plans for tonight were not any different than they might be for any other Saturday night. I guess I just feel hurt because I think he was trying to make a point (albeit, probably unconsciously) that Valentine's Day means nothing to him.

I find it hurtful because we've, up to this point, not given gifts for any holidays, instead opting for spending time together, which is more meaningful. Tonight he withheld from me the one thing we both deem most important, significant because of the date.

It's not the end of the world, by any means. Life goes on.:)
As for your question, about whether or not he were off jumping...if he were up for that, you better believe I'd be all over him when he got back. But only in a good way >:(

We should not let our fears hold us back from pursuing our hopes.
-- John Fitzgerald Kennedy.

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