tigra 0 #26 July 7, 2009 QuoteI never had either. Call me weird but I don't enjoy sex unless there is mutual emotional involvement. Nothing weird about that at all. For me, good sex involves intimacy and trust. Sex just to have sex doesn't really appeal to me at this stage of my life. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
k-dubjumps 0 #27 July 7, 2009 Quote AHA!! So my theory *does* have some merit!! If you're going to break his heart, at least do it gently.. No worries, I'm a big believer in karma. He's leaving the country for three months tomorrow. I think he's afraid I may not be here when he gets back. He's actually an awesome guy. I wouldn't mind seeing if things went somewhere between us. I plan on talking to him tonight to find out what he wants. We shall see.....Adrenaline is my crack DPH #3 D.S. #16 FAG #12 Muff Brother #4406 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #28 July 7, 2009 Quote Ever had one or both? How'd it work out for you? Did he/she start to fall for you or vise versa? Did it get too complicated or did it work out great? Discuss. Here is how I define the two: Fuck buddy: Come over, get it on, say good-bye until next time. Friend with benefits: Like a fuck buddy, but you're friends outside of the bedroom. Maybe you hang out every now and then, grab a bite or drink, etc., but you're not in a relationship. Q1 - Ever had one or both? A1 - Had a few, had both, had both at the same time (Different era of my life). Q2 - How'd it work out for you? A2 - Worked out ok for me until I tried the whole "relationship" thing (Different Woman). Then my faith was reaffirmed ijn womankind, and everything turned out just like it always does - Trust - who'd have thunk it. Funny thing is the emphasis that was put on my "Trust Issues"Should have stuck to the Fuckbuddie/FWB and called it good from there.Q3 - Did he/she start to fall for you or vise versa? A3 - One did - she couldn't handle the whole "No strings" thing, the others - not so much - at least not to my knowledge. Q4 - Did it get too complicated or did it work out great? A4 - Worked out as long as it was kept as it was supposed to be, no strings, wouldn't know how it would be now, haven't done that in a long time.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
