kj126 0 #51 July 29, 2009 Sure did, and then met them later, just as good. Would move right now if not so far from my kiddos....I Am Sofa King We Todd Did!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RastaRicanAir 0 #52 July 29, 2009 Quote That is what I was thinking. I just wanted to see if there were good endings to meeting someone online and having it develop into more. I think if I met someone online they would be let down when they would meet me in person. We all picture people differently until we are face to face. For instance: many of us picture YOU as someone who shouldn't put yourself down so much. I've witnessed an oddly large number of these things, now that I think about it. Some ended in marriage, some in a change of username. Personally, I've never fallen deeper than the High Mutual Interest-to-Potential Crush level without meeting the person first. ......I've also seen messages stop coming once the pictures were exchanged. Thanks for dredging up that excruciating memory Deeds. Now, I'm gonna crack a beer and cry in the shower. OrFunV/LocoBoca Rodriguez/Sonic Grieco/Muff Brother #4411 -"and ladies....messin with Robbie is venturing into territory you cant even imagine!-cuz Robbie is Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OlympiaStoica 0 #53 July 29, 2009 Quote ......I've also seen messages stop coming once the pictures were exchanged. Thanks for dredging up that excruciating memory Deeds. Now, I'm gonna crack a beer and cry in the shower. You need a hug ... I need a hug ... lets just ... umm ... hug each other ... Seriously ... BIG hug your way O Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Misternatural 0 #54 July 30, 2009 >I must have a really hard heart or something That is so Bruce Springsteen,wait sorry... that's Hungry Heart maybe i was thinking of a Silvio Soprano quote. Beware of the collateralizing and monetization of your desires. D S #3.1415 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #55 July 30, 2009 Quote >I must have a really hard heart or something That is so Bruce Springsteen,wait sorry... that's Hungry Heart maybe i was thinking of a Silvio Soprano quote. Maybe it's a New Jersey thing... Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkyBastard 0 #56 July 30, 2009 my last relationship was 6 years and spoke to her for 6 months online and calls before we met and definitely had feelings during the time we spoke online especially after a few months.Dude #320 "Superstitious" is just a polite way of saying "incredibly fucking stupid". DONK! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #57 July 30, 2009 Do you have a pic of you in the red dress? (From Pirate Day at Zhills) That pic would be perfect for this thread. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bolas 5 #58 July 30, 2009 Devolop feelings? Ish. I think you can definitely develop interest and get to know each other very well and while the video technology helps and you can experience pleasure together if desired, it's just not the same. Nothing compares to the touch, physical sight, smell, and/or taste of another and I feel until you've had this actual physical connection you can't really know for sure.Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,590 #59 July 30, 2009 Quote ......I've also seen messages stop coming once the pictures were exchanged. Thanks for dredging up that excruciating memory Deeds. Now, I'm gonna crack a beer and cry in the shower. Cheer up; If you had met them in person, you would have realized the pictures they sent you were taken 6 years, (and 60 pounds), ago.I learned that more than once."There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pinkfairy 0 #60 July 30, 2009 Yes, but I've gotten some surprises when I finally met them IRL. They weren't quite what they had made me believe they were, but maybe that's just me, maybe I have a too vivid imagination. Oh, the joys of online dating... Relax, you can die if you mess up, but it will probably not be by bullet. I'm a BIG, TOUGH BIGWAY FORMATION SKYDIVER! What are you? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
davjohns 1 #61 July 30, 2009 Currently trying it for the first time. Yes, you can feel just as deeply with all the communication available today. Physical touch will only add to the experience. I think learning about each other without the distraction of a physical relationship actually has advantages.I know it just wouldnt be right to kill all the stupid people that we meet.. But do you think it would be appropriate to just remove all of the warning labels and let nature take its course. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Conundrum 1 #62 July 30, 2009 Absolutely. I have. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OlympiaStoica 0 #63 July 30, 2009 QuoteCurrently trying it for the first time. Yes, you can feel just as deeply with all the communication available today. Physical touch will only add to the experience. I think learning about each other without the distraction of a physical relationship actually has advantages. I thought about that ... and I think you are on to something. I am quite sexual … being forced to “slow down” on that front (by the distance) would give me more time to develop deeper feelings. As a matter of fact, all of my serious, long term relationships, started out as long distance. It seems this “model” works for me best … O Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #64 July 30, 2009 Food for thought about on-line relationships....My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #65 July 30, 2009 Quote .. all of my serious, long term relationships, started out as long distance. It seems this “model” works for me best … O Just how far away do I need to be? My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OlympiaStoica 0 #66 July 30, 2009 Quote Quote .. all of my serious, long term relationships, started out as long distance. It seems this “model” works for me best … O Just how far away do I need to be? Far enough that it requires an airplane ride to see each other ... O Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LisaH 0 #67 July 30, 2009 Andy, you're so cute. Be yourself! MooOOooOoo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OlympiaStoica 0 #68 July 30, 2009 Quote Do you have a pic of you in the red dress? (From Pirate Day at Zhills) That pic would be perfect for this thread. You are creeping me out ... how would that be appropriate for this thread? Do I know you? And how "happy" are your "thoughts"? O Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #69 July 30, 2009 What if you guys do all of the phone calls/Internet technology stuff and when you finally meet IRL they SMELL?? You're fucked. Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
npgraphicdesign 3 #70 July 30, 2009 Quote Food for thought about on-line relationships.... Hahaha....that was great. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
d_squared431 0 #71 July 30, 2009 QuoteDevolop feelings? Ish. I think you can definitely develop interest and get to know each other very well and while the video technology helps and you can experience pleasure together if desired, it's just not the same. Nothing compares to the touch, physical sight, smell, and/or taste of another and I feel until you've had this actual physical connection you can't really know for sure. I understand some people can and have developed feelings from interaction via internet /phone. I dont think I ever could and I was very surprised with a recent conversation I had with a friend and hearing that that person had.TPM Sister#130ONTIG#1 I love vodka.I love vodka cause it rhymes with Tuaca~LisaH You having a clean thought is like billyvance having a clean post.iluvtofly Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
d_squared431 0 #72 July 30, 2009 Quote Food for thought about on-line relationships.... That was my first morning LMAO TPM Sister#130ONTIG#1 I love vodka.I love vodka cause it rhymes with Tuaca~LisaH You having a clean thought is like billyvance having a clean post.iluvtofly Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cocheese 0 #73 July 30, 2009 You stay away from that guy! He's .....oh never mind. Go ahead and get hurt. You never listen to me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
d_squared431 0 #74 July 30, 2009 QuoteYou stay away from that guy! He's .....oh never mind. Go ahead and get hurt. You never listen to me. I am not having an online or off line anything going on.TPM Sister#130ONTIG#1 I love vodka.I love vodka cause it rhymes with Tuaca~LisaH You having a clean thought is like billyvance having a clean post.iluvtofly Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,590 #75 July 30, 2009 Quote What if you guys do all of the phone calls/Internet technology stuff and when you finally meet IRL they SMELL?? You're fucked. So you only visit them during the time of year when your hay fever is acting up."There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
