skymama 37 #1 September 9, 2009 QuoteDearest friends and music lovers, I am thrilled to let you know that on Saturday, we will be hosting our first ever house concert! We would really love for you to be a part of this fun, intimate, and truly special evening. It is destined to warm our souls, and touch our hearts. Attached is an e-flyer with all of the details. Our idea to host a house concert came about because my oldest and dearest friend, (name deleted), is an established New York City based singer-songwriter. Recently, she decided to take a year-long creative sabbatical from the chaos of the city and the hustle of the music business, to focus on writing and developing her craft. Lucky for us, she's set up shop here in the sleepy south, and has also decided to bring her professional focus to performing house concerts throughout the USA and Europe! Included below is some important info about the concert, and why it is so special. But first, allow me to introduce you to our very special guest artist... (description deleted, but I watched the video and it was making me sleepy after about 30 seconds. ) A PARTY - WITH A PURPOSE. While a house concert is in essence a party, it's also...a private concert! What makes this particular event so unique and meaningful is that it offers us the opportunity to enjoy an intimate performance AND give back to the arts community directly, by patronizing the featured artist's music. We're excited to host this exclusive event, and in doing so, we ask that you join us in our effort to support vital, independent music, by making an artist donation the evening of the concert. Together, your kind donations will be collectively presented to her in support of not only the exclusive performance she will give, but also, her ongoing commitment to creating music, and sharing it with others. Please know that any donation amount will be greatly appreciated. The suggested range is $20 - $30, but we invite you to give whatever amount is within your means, and interest. Your support may be given in the form of cash or check, and we will collect all donations after the performance. As a token of appreciation for your presence and support, she will be presenting everyone with a complimentary copy of her latest CD! ~~~~~~~~~~~~ Here's the thing- these are very good friends who invited us to this "party", so we almost feel obliged to go. But, I've met her songwriter friend before and I didn't really care for her. I know she's not taking a sabbatical, she couldn't make it in New York and has moved back home into her parent's house and doesn't have a "real" job. Yeah, I could pop for the $25 and just go, but I didn't like her music either and don't really want to sit through her songs. What would you do?She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man, because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
quade 4 #2 September 9, 2009 I've never heard of a "bringer" show in my life that charged that much. $5 and maybe a minimum drink, but for a party at a person's home?!? Holy crap. Unless you know the artist and really, REALLY, like what they do and want to support it, I'd just respectfully decline the invite. It's a bit much.quade - The World's Most Boring Skydiver Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #3 September 9, 2009 That $25 is a jump ticket... Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 35 #4 September 9, 2009 If she was really that bad of a singer, just say no thanks, we have other plans."Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skymama 37 #5 September 9, 2009 She's not really bad, per se, but not the type of music I'd pay to hear in any other type of venue.She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man, because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladydyver 0 #6 September 9, 2009 since they are friends just decline --- no way would i go.DPH # 2 "I am not sure what you are suppose to do with that, but I don't think it is suppose to flop around like that." ~Skootz~ I have a strong regard for the rules.......doc! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 35 #7 September 9, 2009 QuoteShe's not really bad, per se, but not the type of music I'd pay to hear in any other type of venue. what kind of music?"Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
normiss 891 #8 September 9, 2009 Is this happening during sky jumping operations??? "I have other plans thank you." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
downwardspiral 0 #9 September 9, 2009 Tough call skymama. I don't like the idea of a "charity" event for the musician. I certainly don't like the spin on her reasoning for being in town. I probably wouldn't go.www.FourWheelerHB.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skymama 37 #10 September 9, 2009 Soulful, slow piano songs. Kinda like Joni Mitchell, I guess. Like I said- Zzzzzzzzzz. She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man, because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnMitchell 16 #11 September 9, 2009 Some friends of ours provide financial assistance to a lower income family so that their childred could form a classical string quartet. They have done really well, performing at weddings, etc. They played at our friend's house for a party once and there was a donation jar. I appreciated their talent and was glad to donate. What your friend is doing? I would probably be busy that night. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnMitchell 16 #12 September 9, 2009 Quote Soulful, slow piano songs. Kinda like Joni Mitchell, I guess. Like I said- Zzzzzzzzzz. Whew, at first I thought you said Johnny Mitchell. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skymama 37 #13 September 9, 2009 Quote Is this happening during sky jumping operations??? It's Florida, everything happens during sky jumping operations! You make a good point though, it IS on a Saturday. She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man, because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 35 #14 September 9, 2009 Quote Soulful, slow piano songs. Kinda like Joni Mitchell, I guess. Like I said- Zzzzzzzzzz. Yeah, fuck that. Gimme some hard banging stuff instead. No wonder she couldn't hack it up there... She needs to be playing gigs at nursing homes... "Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wayneflorida 0 #15 September 9, 2009 That invitation put me to sleep! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skybytch 273 #16 September 9, 2009 Quote It's Florida, everything happens during sky jumping operations! Yeah, like clouds, rain and hurricanes... On topic - just tell them you're busy that night. No need to explain. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RastaRicanAir 0 #17 September 9, 2009 And Now... The MUSICIAN'S PERSPECTIVE: .....what??? pppsssshhhYEAHH! Catch a case of "cramps." My rent's late too. Doesn't mean I'm gonna start begging money from my friends to hear me play the same sh*t they can hear me play ANY OTHER drunken night. OrFunV/LocoBoca Rodriguez/Sonic Grieco/Muff Brother #4411 -"and ladies....messin with Robbie is venturing into territory you cant even imagine!-cuz Robbie is Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skymama 37 #18 September 9, 2009 I think I would have taken it better if there was a tip jar, like at the party that John went to, instead of inviting me to a party and then asking me to pay for it. It's just weird. If this is a new trend, I don't like it.She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man, because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #19 September 9, 2009 Quote That invitation put me to sleep! I dunno.. I decline invites from friends all the time - I just tell them the truth: it's not my cup of tea. If I do end up going, at least they know it's a favour & they don't expect me to stay awake "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 35 #20 September 9, 2009 Quote I think I would have taken it better if there was a tip jar, like at the party that John went to, instead of inviting me to a party and then asking me to pay for it. It's just weird. If this is a new trend, I don't like it. Wasn't there a wedding where the couple asked for donations in lieu of presents to help them pay for the ceremony some time ago? I thought that was tacky and stupid. "Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
downwardspiral 0 #21 September 9, 2009 Don't make up an excuse. The truth works a hell of a lot better. Especially between friends.www.FourWheelerHB.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RastaRicanAir 0 #22 September 9, 2009 Quote Quote That invitation put me to sleep! I dunno.. I decline invites from friends all the time - I just tell them the truth: it's not my cup of tea. If I do end up going, at least they know it's a favour & they don't expect me to stay awake Yes. Like your post was not MY cup of tea, and didn't keep me very well entertained. Not to be mean, I just keep hoping you'll use the phrase "cock-up" again. Sorry. I'm saucy today. I just had "lunch" w/ Divot. Carry on....OrFunV/LocoBoca Rodriguez/Sonic Grieco/Muff Brother #4411 -"and ladies....messin with Robbie is venturing into territory you cant even imagine!-cuz Robbie is Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #23 September 9, 2009 Quote Yes. Like your post was not MY cup of tea, and didn't keep me very well entertained. Not to be mean, I just keep hoping you'll use the phrase "cock-up" again. Sorry.. Was trying to be funny, but I guess I just cocked it up.. Seriously, though, you should be able to politely decline.. The whole invite sounds like the type of email that just goes straight to my junk folder.. "Please send money to this refugee who has escapes persecution in Ngudu.. Just $20 dollars per day is enough to keep Nwabbee clothed and nourished.." Umm.. No thanks. Even if it isn't a scam, it sounds pretty dull!!"There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
guppie01 0 #24 September 9, 2009 Politely decline.... Agree with a tip jar, the obligatory donation makes it very uncomfortable. g"Let's do something romantic this Saturday... how bout we bust out the restraints?" Raddest Ho this side of Jersey #1 - MISS YOU OMG, is she okay? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
headoverheels 334 #25 September 9, 2009 Quote What would you do? I'd be doing something else, but that is just me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
