SpeedRacer 1 #1 October 6, 2009 Found a few. Some I friended, others I just didn't touch. However, one of the ones I left alone, still looked pretty damn good in her pic. (we dated back in 91 or 92, evidently she is married now) Speed Racer -------------------------------------------------- Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #2 October 6, 2009 Nope. Somehow they find me first. Thank goodness for the "ignore" and "block" features. Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
futuredivot 0 #3 October 6, 2009 It keeps suggesting that we should be friends. You are only as strong as the prey you devour Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkyBastard 0 #4 October 6, 2009 yes i did. split a year ago after 6 years, i only was able to look recently, she's with someone who is more ugly than me. i hope he's got a tiny cock.Dude #320 "Superstitious" is just a polite way of saying "incredibly fucking stupid". DONK! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
amstalder 0 #5 October 6, 2009 Quote she's with someone who is more ugly than me. I never know if Im supposed to feel better or worse when I see an ex with someone uglier than me Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkyBastard 0 #6 October 6, 2009 i think you're supposed to feel like going down the pubDude #320 "Superstitious" is just a polite way of saying "incredibly fucking stupid". DONK! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnMitchell 16 #7 October 6, 2009 Quote I never know if Im supposed to feel better or worse when I see an ex with someone uglier than me They're just doing it to piss you off. Don't be a hater and play their game. Probably happens to you a lot. It would take some doing for your ex's to find someone cuter than you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
amstalder 0 #8 October 6, 2009 Aww youre sweet . Youre going to make my head get big over here Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 35 #9 October 6, 2009 Quote Nope. Somehow they find me first. Thank goodness for the "ignore" and "block" features. Yep. Never looked, been found. Did just that, blocked them."Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkyBastard 0 #10 October 6, 2009 I'd like to change my answer to John's answer please. Dude #320 "Superstitious" is just a polite way of saying "incredibly fucking stupid". DONK! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skybytch 273 #11 October 6, 2009 A musical response to friend requests from exes - "are you...." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
micduran 0 #12 October 6, 2009 Yes. His profile was viewable so I checked it out. It only confirmed that I made the right choice when I ended the relationship with him.Be patient with the faults of others; they have to be patient with yours. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #13 October 6, 2009 Quote A musical response to friend requests from exes - "are you...." *Love* it!!! Had an ex friend (not a boy) tag me as a friend about a year ago. This song mostly summarises how I felt. I get the occasional person show us as a friend suggestion, but I've never looked any of them up - I don't care what the exes are up to. I don't care much about any of the stuff my friends put on Facbook anyway, except for the pics and videos of my little niece "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #14 October 6, 2009 Yes I have had them ask to be my friends and I've asked to be their friends. In all I would say if you are a mature person it's not the end of the world. But I'm not mature by any stretch of the imagination and it can get bad quick and your life can be upside down for a while. As for seeing a gorgeous x with some fat excuse of a man who most likely can't even touch his toes let alone see his own dick without the use of a series of mirrors.........I don't know. I'm not happy about it for it makes me question my own self worth but it doesn't help when the x sends you a little note complimenting on how you have gotten better looking with time. Note the part about turning your life upside down.Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
d_squared431 0 #15 October 6, 2009 There is way more to a person than there exterior looks. You seem to constantly talk about how people look rather than who they are as a person. Frankly, I would much rather have a slightly over wt, caring, thoughtful man, than someone who thinks like you. I am sure many others have the same feelings as well.TPM Sister#130ONTIG#1 I love vodka.I love vodka cause it rhymes with Tuaca~LisaH You having a clean thought is like billyvance having a clean post.iluvtofly Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #16 October 6, 2009 Quote There is way more to a person than there exterior looks. You seem to constantly talk about how people look rather than who they are as a person. . I was just answering some ones question regarding their x with a worse looking dude or dudet. But yeah there is more to looks...like money....schlong size Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
k-dubjumps 0 #17 October 6, 2009 No, I have no desire to find out what any of my exs are up to. If they were dating someone who was uglier or fatter than me, I'd feel sorry for the person who is now with the ex, because they are the one getting the bad end of the deal. Why should someone have to suffer so greatly just because they aren't good looking or over weight?Adrenaline is my crack DPH #3 D.S. #16 FAG #12 Muff Brother #4406 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #18 October 6, 2009 Yeah but what if their new boy friend / girl friend was better looking than you? Yes I know it's rare since all sky divers are part time models on their time off. But it can happen.Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skyrider 0 #19 October 6, 2009 I searched, and found an Ex, turns out the guy she left me for, wasn't the father of her 23 year old daughter, and she swore I was the only other, Sooo....(being as I am adopted, and never knew my parents) I paid to fly her here to california, and get DNA test....I wasn't the father either....Her mom won't talk to me anymore! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VanillaSkyGirl 6 #20 October 6, 2009 Some of my exs ARE my friends on FB, although it doesn't matter now because I've deactivated my profile (temporarily...maybe). Even the people whom I might not be FB "friends" with, I wish them well. It's pointless to be vindictive. If my exs look are doing great, then that is fantastic. I would hope that they are happy with or without me. I'm sure that they feel the same way towards me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wmw999 2,589 #21 October 6, 2009 QuoteIt's pointless to be vindictive. If my exs look are doing great, then that is fantastic. I would hope that they are happy with or without me. Attagirl. Couldn't have said it better myself. Wendy P.There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skyrider 0 #22 October 6, 2009 I've never understood staying pissed at an Ex....they know you too well to be mad for very long, plus , being pissed about the past., just makes you grow old faster! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
k-dubjumps 0 #23 October 6, 2009 QuoteYeah but what if their new boy friend / girl friend was better looking than you? Yes I know it's rare since all sky divers are part time models on their time off. But it can happen. I really don't care if someone is better looking than me, I have self esteem so it isn't an issue. I'd still feel sorry for them. Considering I don't feel anything for my exes and they became drug addicts and felons among other things, I really don't feel I'm missing out on anything.Adrenaline is my crack DPH #3 D.S. #16 FAG #12 Muff Brother #4406 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skybytch 273 #24 October 6, 2009 QuoteYeah but what if their new boy friend / girl friend was better looking than you? I know he'll never find anyone else that's as good in bed as I am, so what she looks like really doesn't matter. Now if she was smarter or more compassionate or funnier or a better skydiver than me... well, then I might have an issue. But probably not.... he's a EX for a reason. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SARLDO 0 #25 October 6, 2009 Quote Frankly, I would much rather have a slightly over wt, caring, thoughtful man, than someone who thinks like you. How YOU do-in? [just kidding... happily married man here] I don't get the whole social website thing (except this one ). What ever happened to meeting/calling people and actually talking? If I have lost contact with people, there's a reason for it. I have no interest in what my ex's are doing (except for my ex wife, I just cwant to know when I can stop paying alimony)"Always do right. This will gratify some people and astonish the rest" ~Samuel Clemens MB#4300 Dudeist Skydiver #68 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
