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Nataly

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And people wonder why i stick with dz.com for all my women.:P:ph34r:



Oh, yeah; You just can't beat the 85:15 M:F ratio.:S
"There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones.

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I am not knocking any match.com users so don't take this wrong.

In our area here Match.com is known as the bootycall.com. It is for the people who just want to get together and have sex. So friends of mine who have used it stopped. Some have tried e-harmany and liked it better, even one is now married to the guy she met on there.
You create life, life does not create you.

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I've used Match off and on (I'm a guy). Currently in a relationship, so haven't used it in a while.

But what interested me about your post is that you talk about how many guys have contacted you, how many winks you've gotten, etc. -- Have you contacted anyone yourself? You're right, there's only so much you can see from a profile, but if you're the one doing the contacting, you've got a much better shot at finding someone compatible. And, speaking as a guy, it was always great to get a message from a girl.

Also, if you know that you're selecting things that don't matter -- stop selecting them.



No no.. I mean when you set up your profile, you have to select all this stuff about your ideal match and rate it's importance.. So I answered all the questions, but none of the questions were about the stuff I really care about.. Anyway.. How does one filter and search on personality?? Doesn't seem to work..

I've done a bunch of searches, but am not having much luck. Yes, I've taken the lead and messaged some people.. Still finding it hard to "read" people's personalities online.. For obvious reasons, I'm reluctant to give away personal info like my phone number, because I think there could be some scary people on there.. Maybe the trick is to go on some coffee dates??

I don't know.. I guess I'm not "down" with the whole modern way of dating.. Well.. Never mind the modern way - I didn't get it in the traditional way either!!!
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- Chris Hadfield
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It is for the people who just want to get together and have sex.


I love it when people say that in a condescending tone!
No we want to get together and play Uno! :)
Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay.

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ok how about dropzone.com dating?

take me for example: i'm lovely. probably just what you need. and i'm in london. who needs match.com?




Hmm.. What girl wouldn't fall for this:

"What people have said about SkyBastard: 'you really are a cunt' 'you're beautiful, in a fucking ugly way' 'your book was a scintillating read, rife with novel anecdotes and oodles of fuck you. - five stars' 'you'll go a long way - this is a big catapult' 'marry me skybastard, then marry my mummy' 'Actually, I do know why you are so popular. It's because people are stupid' 'i'm going to fucking fuck your shit cunt life up' 'you've got the nicest arse i've ever seen, mind you, i'm blind' 'i wish i was you, you're so awesome'"

:D:D:D
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I'm just busting your chops. Do y'all have craigslist over there?



Fiew!! For a moment there I thought you'd figured out that I'm really a big-ego'd gold-diggin cunt!! :D:D:D
"There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse."
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- my boss

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Buy a cheap throw away phone with one of those pay as you go services so you don't have to give out your number till you know someone.



Oh my god, that's GENIUS!!! Ha ha ha!! A "dating" phone!!! :D:D:D
"There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse."
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« Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. »
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It's bloody hard to read people from some little written profile.. Even I come off sounding like a totally different person, no matter how "true to myself" I try to be..



Yep,cause part of what you wrote here makes you seem like a gold digging cunt, but I'm sure you aren't. I mean some people here think I'm an asshole but that just isn't true at all.:D:D:D


fucking priceless Chris.

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Here is what I don't get.
Why does any girl have to go out and "look" for a date?
Here are my thoughts on the subject. Dress for success!
High heels, tight jeans, v neck shirt, push up bra and brush your teeth and go out to bar.
Wait till a guy you like comes over and if you like him give him your real number?
What gives?
Are guys that afraid of walking up to a girl to say hi or are you maybe going out dressed in some sort of burka?
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It's bloody hard to read people from some little written profile.. Even I come off sounding like a totally different person, no matter how "true to myself" I try to be..



Yep,cause part of what you wrote here makes you seem like a gold digging cunt, but I'm sure you aren't. I mean some people here think I'm an asshole but that just isn't true at all.:D:D:D


fucking priceless Chris.



Were the smilies too much?

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this fails because a lot of decent blokes don't chat women up in bars.

me included.


1) Why?
2) Who says your decent! Don't kid your self your in the gutter with the rest of us!
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Buy a cheap throw away phone with one of those pay as you go services so you don't have to give out your number till you know someone.



Oh my god, that's GENIUS!!! Ha ha ha!! A "dating" phone!!! :D:D:D


OMG that is Genius. I am telling all my single friends to do that. lol
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Here are my thoughts on the subject. Dress for success!
High heels, tight jeans, v neck shirt, push up bra and brush your teeth and go out to bar.

I'd rather be myself. Jeans/sweats/sundress, ponytail, no make-up. Meet someone fun at the grocery store, dz, pet store, the beach. I've had no problems so far. :)
Screw dressing up fake and striking a pose at a bar.

Blech!

Be yourself!
MooOOooOoo

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