npgraphicdesign 3 #1 October 23, 2009 ...ask for someone elses number with their ex standing about ten away and overhearing the conversation? In this case, a woman asking for a number of a bouncer at a bar with her ex a fee feet away on the street. Of course the ex gets mad and they proceed to have a shouting match on the street next to the bar, until the womans friend calms her ex down... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cheach 0 #2 October 23, 2009 The need to get laid. I woke up next to a blowup doll Ash....so what do you think? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
npgraphicdesign 3 #3 October 23, 2009 Quote The need to get laid. besides the obvious Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Icon134 0 #4 October 23, 2009 No offense meant... but what business is it of the ex who he/she gets a phone number from... or where they are when asked... the old boy/girlfriend no longer has a need to know... but that's just my opinion... Livin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
micduran 0 #5 October 23, 2009 She was looking for attention and hoping to get a response from the ex. Be patient with the faults of others; they have to be patient with yours. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DavidB 0 #6 October 23, 2009 Quote Quote The need to get laid. besides the obvious And realize that this kind of shit happens all the time in THE CITY... When the only tool you have is a hammer, every problem looks like a nail. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
npgraphicdesign 3 #7 October 23, 2009 Quote No offense meant... but what business is it of the ex who he/she gets a phone number from... or where they are when asked... the old boy/girlfriend no longer has a need to know... but that's just my opinion... that's my opinion too ;) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cocheese 0 #8 October 23, 2009 +1 what ever Shah replies with. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
npgraphicdesign 3 #9 October 23, 2009 Quote +1 what ever Shah replies with. Don't you mean 'Dr. Love'? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
robskydiv 0 #10 October 23, 2009 Quote +1 what ever Shah replies with. +1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RastaRicanAir 0 #11 October 23, 2009 Spite? Vindictiveness? Manipulation? Cold, calculating, cruelty? Or, to narrow it down, a morbid urge to undermine the ex's self-esteem while stealing emotionally dominant power for herself, because she's still vested in the situation and can't fully regain her strut until she knows she's left him with a permanent limp. (I.E. She's an immature brat.) Just out of curiosity, were you raised on an island that didn't have many women?? No. I'm not bitter. I prefer to think of myself as tangy. OrFunV/LocoBoca Rodriguez/Sonic Grieco/Muff Brother #4411 -"and ladies....messin with Robbie is venturing into territory you cant even imagine!-cuz Robbie is Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
npgraphicdesign 3 #12 October 23, 2009 Quote Just out of curiosity, were you raised on an island that didn't have many women?? No. I'm not bitter. I prefer to think of myself as tangy. Hey Arnold was raised on such an island, and the first woman he scored with was Kellh Preston, so that may not be a bad thing Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
xtravrtsoul 0 #13 October 23, 2009 Quote No offense meant... but what business is it of the ex who he/she gets a phone number from... or where they are when asked... the old boy/girlfriend no longer has a need to know... but that's just my opinion... Exactly what I was thinking.You create life, life does not create you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #14 October 23, 2009 Quote ...ask for someone elses number with their ex standing about ten away and overhearing the conversation? In this case, a woman asking for a number of a bouncer at a bar with her ex a fee feet away on the street. Of course the ex gets mad and they proceed to have a shouting match on the street next to the bar, until the womans friend calms her ex down... 1. Why was the ex 10 feet away at the same bar? 2. If she wants someone's number that's her business (but she doesn't have to be rude about it) 3. Why the hell would the ex get mad?? If she just wants attention - she wins; otherwise, he still winds up looking like a knob."There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Misternatural 0 #15 October 23, 2009 Alcoholspeaking of which- have a good weekend man, good luck on game 6 say hey to Oly for me if you go back to JT.Beware of the collateralizing and monetization of your desires. D S #3.1415 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #16 October 23, 2009 Quote Quote +1 what ever Shah replies with. Don't you mean 'Dr. Love'? Yes that's Dr. D to you there! You want my brutally honest opinion? A wise man once said in some movie when asked by a busty babe, How do you write women so well? To which he replied: I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability. So let us ponder this declaration, this pontification, this dissemination...... In that it is safe to assume that she had no clue where her x was, let alone he was with in ear shot nor had a clue that her actions could have some repercussions, such as offending her X to the point of starting an argument. Was she trying to be heartless and cruel? Possibly. Was she just being brainless and clueless? More likely. But then again you have to view the world as I view it, in that people should not go out of their way to hurt others just to make them selves feel better. But as a good friend always says, the best way to deal with some one who lacks reason and accountability.....is to simply walk away and be the better person regardless of the harm they inflicted on you. Not easy, not fun, not satisfying as a slap to the back of the head. But it's the right thing to do. And your friend shouldn't hold his breath for an apology, girls don't apologize. They say they do but.....frankly they could stab you a dozen times in the back and with a blank face tell the cops that you just fell on the knife.Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andy9o8 2 #17 October 23, 2009 Quote She was looking for attention and hoping to get a response from the ex. Of course. Is that not obvious? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnMitchell 16 #18 October 23, 2009 Quote Quote She was looking for attention and hoping to get a response from the ex. Of course. Is that not obvious? Or trying to send the ex an obvious message that he hasn't gotten yet . . . that it's over.A lot of questions in my head, like how long has he been "ex", why was he there at the bar, and why did he think he had to yell at her all the way down the street? If he's the "ex", it's none of his business. In fact, he should have left with someone else. If they are thinking about getting back together, then she is into to serious mind screwing games . . . and is winning.Either way, it's time for that guy to move on. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
crashmcwhly 0 #19 October 24, 2009 Quote ...ask for someone elses number with their ex standing about ten away and overhearing the conversation? Have button...will push Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
npgraphicdesign 3 #20 October 24, 2009 Quote Quote ...ask for someone elses number with their ex standing about ten away and overhearing the conversation? In this case, a woman asking for a number of a bouncer at a bar with her ex a fee feet away on the street. Of course the ex gets mad and they proceed to have a shouting match on the street next to the bar, until the womans friend calms her ex down... 1. Why was the ex 10 feet away at the same bar? 2. If she wants someone's number that's her business (but she doesn't have to be rude about it) 3. Why the hell would the ex get mad?? If she just wants attention - she wins; otherwise, he still winds up looking like a knob. 1. Because it's hiphop/open mic night, and he usually plays the drums there, and she happens to come on that night. 2. True 3. Because he is apparently jealous or upset or annoyed that the girl asked me...err...the bouncer for his number. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
npgraphicdesign 3 #21 October 24, 2009 Quote Quote Quote +1 what ever Shah replies with. Don't you mean 'Dr. Love'? Yes that's Dr. D to you there! You want my brutally honest opinion? A wise man once said in some movie when asked by a busty babe, How do you write women so well? To which he replied: I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability. So let us ponder this declaration, this pontification, this dissemination...... In that it is safe to assume that she had no clue where her x was, let alone he was with in ear shot nor had a clue that her actions could have some repercussions, such as offending her X to the point of starting an argument. Was she trying to be heartless and cruel? Possibly. Was she just being brainless and clueless? More likely. But then again you have to view the world as I view it, in that people should not go out of their way to hurt others just to make them selves feel better. But as a good friend always says, the best way to deal with some one who lacks reason and accountability.....is to simply walk away and be the better person regardless of the harm they inflicted on you. Not easy, not fun, not satisfying as a slap to the back of the head. But it's the right thing to do. And your friend shouldn't hold his breath for an apology, girls don't apologize. They say they do but.....frankly they could stab you a dozen times in the back and with a blank face tell the cops that you just fell on the knife. Dr. D? What does the D stand for? 1. That guy isn't my friend. 2. She knew he was there, as her, him and 3 other people were leaving the bar together. They were walking outside by the front door of the bar, and she made a little detour inside to the front door... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #22 October 24, 2009 Quote Quote Quote ...ask for someone elses number with their ex standing about ten away and overhearing the conversation? In this case, a woman asking for a number of a bouncer at a bar with her ex a fee feet away on the street. Of course the ex gets mad and they proceed to have a shouting match on the street next to the bar, until the womans friend calms her ex down... 1. Why was the ex 10 feet away at the same bar? 2. If she wants someone's number that's her business (but she doesn't have to be rude about it) 3. Why the hell would the ex get mad?? If she just wants attention - she wins; otherwise, he still winds up looking like a knob. 1. Because it's hiphop/open mic night, and he usually plays the drums there, and she happens to come on that night. 2. True 3. Because he is apparently jealous or upset or annoyed that the girl asked me...err...the bouncer for his number. She sounds like trouble.. Enjoy! "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
npgraphicdesign 3 #23 October 24, 2009 Quote Quote Quote Quote ...ask for someone elses number with their ex standing about ten away and overhearing the conversation? In this case, a woman asking for a number of a bouncer at a bar with her ex a fee feet away on the street. Of course the ex gets mad and they proceed to have a shouting match on the street next to the bar, until the womans friend calms her ex down... 1. Why was the ex 10 feet away at the same bar? 2. If she wants someone's number that's her business (but she doesn't have to be rude about it) 3. Why the hell would the ex get mad?? If she just wants attention - she wins; otherwise, he still winds up looking like a knob. 1. Because it's hiphop/open mic night, and he usually plays the drums there, and she happens to come on that night. 2. True 3. Because he is apparently jealous or upset or annoyed that the girl asked me...err...the bouncer for his number. She sounds like trouble.. Enjoy! Thanks. I'm not sure if I'll decide to enjoy or let someone else have the pleasure. In other news, how YOU doin'? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Krip 2 #24 October 25, 2009 EgoSome insecure girls get off watching men fighting over them. Think high school. One Jump Wonder Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
npgraphicdesign 3 #25 October 25, 2009 Quote EgoSome insecure girls get off watching men fighting over them. Think high school. oh she gave her number willingly...wasn't even asked for it Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
