Amazon 7 #51 November 2, 2009 Quote Quote Quote Quote Only in your warped version of reality and engineering. So, Mark, what you're saying is that you remember all their names? ;-) (I know I know, sharing is icky.. whatever lol ) It does get harder to do when there are more than 6... then names should never be used... to prevent confusion This guy started pursuing me once.. After the second text where he started with "hello gorgeous", I thought.. hmm.. I wonder if he even knows my name.. I didn't reply to him straight away and never heard from him again!! I can't be sure, but I figured he was the type to cast the net wide to catch as many fish as possible.. Not for me. I've always known pretty quickly if I like a guy or not.. I have a theory that people who date multiple partners are either trying to fill a void in their life, or they're not mature enough to commit to a serious relationship, or they just don't know what they're looking for. Either way, I don't see how you can like more than one person at a time. But hey.. I imagine it's possible - I've just never personally experienced it. Nataly dear....I think you got the right idea.. but in the wrong context.. I think Remtard was a lot closer to where I was going with that.There is dating more than one person at a time..and there is DATING more than one person at a time and its really hard to keep a bunch of names straight at parties like that. AS far as catching as many fish as possible.. I guess it all depends on what the daily limit is.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sarahh 0 #52 November 2, 2009 hmm.. i am going to go with it's ok if you're a guy and the chicks don't know but all your buddies do, and never ok if you are a girl and wish to have som respect on a DZ. but that's in the guys head.. in the girls head. no. no. * smack upside the head* seriously? are you for real? NO lol Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andy9o8 2 #53 November 2, 2009 Quote Quote Quote Quote Remember, comunication is key here (everyone involved has a right to know exactly what is going on and where they stand). Cheating is NEVER acceptable..... Someone needs to frame this statement! Concur. One way to think of it is: First - does the other person know I'm seeing other people? Second - would I be happy for the other person to also date and/or sleep with other people? If the answer to either question is "no", then what you're doing is sneaking behind someone's back.. A don't-ask-don't-tell policy, in my view, is unacceptable (unless you specifically agreed that what you do with other people is up to you but you don't want to know the details - in which case you've gotten the other person's consent so it's fine).. Agreed w/all above in the post. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #54 November 2, 2009 Quote Quote Quote Quote Only in your warped version of reality and engineering. So, Mark, what you're saying is that you remember all their names? ;-) (I know I know, sharing is icky.. whatever lol ) It does get harder to do when there are more than 6... then names should never be used... to prevent confusion This guy started pursuing me once.. After the second text where he started with "hello gorgeous", I thought.. hmm.. I wonder if he even knows my name.. I didn't reply to him straight away and never heard from him again!! I can't be sure, but I figured he was the type to cast the net wide to catch as many fish as possible.. Nataly dear....I think you got the right idea.. but in the wrong context.. I think Remtard was a lot closer to where I was going with that.I think you will find the "misinterpretation" was deliberate!! You say spread the fish.. I say catch the fish.. Potatoes, potatoes!! "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
