Dating multiple people at once.

[shah269 0]

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Only in your warped version of reality and engineering.

I thought tandem dudes did well with the ladies?
Engineers....well if she's not wearing sweat pants and tube socks and her eye brows aren't connected....gggrrrr...that's the kind of woman you roll home to mom!

Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay.

The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

[normiss 891]

I think any decent guy with a good and somewhat outgoing personality, ability to talk to people, fun and adventurous, some level of intellect above a bag of hair, a bit of confidence, and a large cock should have no problems.
It works for me anyway.

I've never classified myself as a "biker", a "skydiver", a tandem master", nor an "engineer" so much as simply being me....


and Remi...."babe" seems to work well with most of them.....

[micduran 0]

babe is just little better than princess

Be patient with the faults of others; they have to be patient with yours.

[JohnDeere 0]

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Seeing if you are compatible enough with someone to see where it goes. Whats wrong with doing that with multiple people in the same week or two?

Nothing at all. I've never done the online dating thing. But i see no problem with what your talking about. I have mostly been set up with others by friends. I completely agree that after the second or third date it should be discussed.

Nothing opens like a Deere!

You ignorant fool! Checks are for workers!

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babe is just little better than princess

But sugar seems to be best.

Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay.

The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

[downwardspiral 0]

I'm not one to date more than one woman at a time. If I'm interested enough in a woman to date her then she gets all of my attention. Otherwise I wouldn't call it dating. "Hanging out" would be more appropriate. I also tend to quickly lose interest in women that date multiple men.

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Seeing if you are compatible enough with someone to see where it goes. Whats wrong with doing that with multiple people in the same week or two?

Nothing at all. I've never done the online dating thing. But i see no problem with what your talking about. I have mostly been set up with others by friends. I completely agree that after the second or third date it should be discussed.

after 2nd or 3rd date? A bit early is it not?

[futuredivot 0]

Sure it's ok. I wouldn't (and didn't) offer up in conversation with a chick that she wasn't exclusive but if it came up in conversation, no need to avoid it.

You are only as strong as the prey you devour

[JohnDeere 0]

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Seeing if you are compatible enough with someone to see where it goes. Whats wrong with doing that with multiple people in the same week or two?

Nothing at all. I've never done the online dating thing. But i see no problem with what your talking about. I have mostly been set up with others by friends. I completely agree that after the second or third date it should be discussed.

after 2nd or 3rd date? A bit early is it not?

Yea i pretty good at seeing if someone is worth (for me) going out with again. I wont waste my time if there not my type. So if I make it to the second or third date with someone, I have no problem talking to them about being exclusive. Not proposing . I dont do the sharing thing.

Nothing opens like a Deere!

You ignorant fool! Checks are for workers!

[kmills0705 0]

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I think any decent guy with a good and somewhat outgoing personality, ability to talk to people, fun and adventurous, some level of intellect above a bag of hair, a bit of confidence, and a large cock should have no problems.
It works for me anyway.

How YOU doin?

Kim Mills
USPA D21696
Tandem I, AFF I and Static Line I

[virgin-burner 1]

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I think any decent guy with a good and somewhat outgoing personality, ability to talk to people, fun and adventurous, some level of intellect above a bag of hair, a bit of confidence, and a large cock should have no problems.
It works for me anyway.

How YOU doin?

how YOU doin'!?

“Some may never live, but the crazy never die.”
-Hunter S. Thompson
"No. Try not. Do... or do not. There is no try."
-Yoda

[Misternatural 0]

meh, my problem is dating women with multiple personalities- which is almost the same thing

Beware of the collateralizing and monetization of your desires.
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I think any decent guy with a good and somewhat outgoing personality, ability to talk to people, fun and adventurous, some level of intellect above a bag of hair, a bit of confidence, and a large cock should have no problems.
It works for me anyway.

How YOU doin?

how YOU doin'!?

how you doin big boy?

[virgin-burner 1]

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I think any decent guy with a good and somewhat outgoing personality, ability to talk to people, fun and adventurous, some level of intellect above a bag of hair, a bit of confidence, and a large cock should have no problems.
It works for me anyway.

How YOU doin?

how YOU doin'!?

how you doin big boy?

sorry nicci, you're not my type..

“Some may never live, but the crazy never die.”
-Hunter S. Thompson
"No. Try not. Do... or do not. There is no try."
-Yoda

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I think any decent guy with a good and somewhat outgoing personality, ability to talk to people, fun and adventurous, some level of intellect above a bag of hair, a bit of confidence, and a large cock should have no problems.
It works for me anyway.

How YOU doin?

how YOU doin'!?

how you doin big boy?

sorry nicci, you're not my type..

thank god for that!!

[Stewie 0]

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I think any decent guy with a good and somewhat outgoing personality,

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ability to talk to people,

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fun and adventurous, some level of intellect above a bag of hair, a bit of confidence,

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and a large cock

FML.

"Fuck that. I'll take a good ass-pounding over a bj any day." -- pyrotech

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Only in your warped version of reality and engineering.

So, Mark, what you're saying is that you remember all their names? ;-)

(I know I know, sharing is icky.. whatever lol )

It does get harder to do when there are more than 6... then names should never be used... to prevent confusion

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Only in your warped version of reality and engineering.

So, Mark, what you're saying is that you remember all their names? ;-)

(I know I know, sharing is icky.. whatever lol )

It does get harder to do when there are more than 6... then names should never be used... to prevent confusion

This guy started pursuing me once.. After the second text where he started with "hello gorgeous", I thought.. hmm.. I wonder if he even knows my name.. I didn't reply to him straight away and never heard from him again!! I can't be sure, but I figured he was the type to cast the net wide to catch as many fish as possible.. Not for me.

I've always known pretty quickly if I like a guy or not.. I have a theory that people who date multiple partners are either trying to fill a void in their life, or they're not mature enough to commit to a serious relationship, or they just don't know what they're looking for. Either way, I don't see how you can like more than one person at a time. But hey.. I imagine it's possible - I've just never personally experienced it.

"There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse."
- Chris Hadfield
« Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. »
- my boss

[shropshire 0]

Remember, comunication is key here (everyone involved has a right to know exactly what is going on and where they stand).

Cheating is NEVER acceptable.....

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Chivalry is not dead; it only sleeps for want of work to do. - Jerome K Jerome

[Nataly 38]

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Remember, comunication is key here (everyone involved has a right to know exactly what is going on and where they stand).

Cheating is NEVER acceptable.....

Someone needs to frame this statement!

"There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse."
- Chris Hadfield
« Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. »
- my boss

[shropshire 0]

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Chivalry is not dead; it only sleeps for want of work to do. - Jerome K Jerome

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Remember, comunication is key here (everyone involved has a right to know exactly what is going on and where they stand).

Cheating is NEVER acceptable.....

Someone needs to frame this statement!

Concur.

I know it just wouldnt be right to kill all the stupid people that we meet..

But do you think it would be appropriate to just remove all of the warning labels and let nature take its course.

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Remember, comunication is key here (everyone involved has a right to know exactly what is going on and where they stand).

Cheating is NEVER acceptable.....

Someone needs to frame this statement!

Concur.

One way to think of it is:

First - does the other person know I'm seeing other people?

Second - would I be happy for the other person to also date and/or sleep with other people?

If the answer to either question is "no", then what you're doing is sneaking behind someone's back.. A don't-ask-don't-tell policy, in my view, is unacceptable (unless you specifically agreed that what you do with other people is up to you but you don't want to know the details - in which case you've gotten the other person's consent so it's fine)..

Not discussing it at all assumes you are able to read each-other's minds and that you're both aware of and happy with what's going on.. As far as I know, humans have yet to develop this skill..

"There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse."
- Chris Hadfield
« Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. »
- my boss

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I'm with k.. As long as you're honest with (all) the people involved, I think in theory it's ok.

Personally, I've never done it & I don't see the point. If I like someone I'm not interested in anyone else. If I'm not that interested, there's little point in pursuing anything. So by default I've never had any desire to date more than one person at a time.

you are officially dubbed datable. and capable of love.

people who date multiple partners lack any real development between each other as a couple. development involves putting yourself at risk and putting certain desires aside.

there is no point besides sexual cravings to be with someone who doesn't command your entire attention. if that is the case why pretend to date. get an AFF (adult friend finder)account and make "friends"

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I'm with k.. As long as you're honest with (all) the people involved, I think in theory it's ok.

Personally, I've never done it & I don't see the point. If I like someone I'm not interested in anyone else. If I'm not that interested, there's little point in pursuing anything. So by default I've never had any desire to date more than one person at a time.

you are officially dubbed datable. and capable of love.

people who date multiple partners lack any real development between each other as a couple. development involves putting yourself at risk and putting certain desires aside.

there is no point besides sexual cravings to be with someone who doesn't command your entire attention. if that is the case why pretend to date. get an AFF (adult friend finder)account and make "friends"

I guess maybe I should've specified a bit more. I don't mean dating and sleeping with multiple people; my question was more directed for the first 4-5 dates, or however long it takes you to narrow down your interest to one person. I think you can be attracted to more than one person for various qualities. And I do agree with you.