airdvr 210 #1 November 1, 2009 ...know how to work your equipment? And we're not talking about your rig here I'm pretty certain most men would say they know how. Wondering if they're right.Please don't dent the planet. Destinations by Roxanne Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Southern_Man 0 #2 November 1, 2009 ummmm....they'd have to have a pretty big sample size to reach statistical significance. Not that there's anything wrong w/ that, just saying.... "What if there were no hypothetical questions?" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #3 November 1, 2009 You mean, like on the first shot? Or after you've been hooking up for a while and the familiarity kicks in??Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #4 November 1, 2009 Quote ...know how to work your equipment? And we're not talking about your rig here I'm pretty certain most men would say they know how. Wondering if they're right. Only 1 guy I've ever been with. He was an AWESOME sexual partner, but sort-of damaged goods in terms of a relationship Shame.. The sex was so amazing I'd put him on par with the only man I've ever loved (the first was technically exceptional; the latter was emotionally mindblowing). Perhaps you need to start at 20% and work down to 0%!!! Most guys have NO CLUE and don't learn especially well either.. Edit to say: In fairness, I don't think most women really know how to operate a man's equipment properly.. Most women probably think they give amazing blowjobs, but that's likely not the case.. Do we need to start another poll?!! I think I will..!"There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SpeedRacer 1 #5 November 1, 2009 Speed Racer -------------------------------------------------- Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #6 November 1, 2009 I think most men focus too much attention on the clit.. Personally (obviously we're all slightly different), I find this quickly becomes too intense thus un-pleasurable.. Also, I think men underestimate how sexy *kissing* is.. I can live with someone who isn't great at oral sex, but a good kisser is a *must*.. It's incredibly hot."There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #7 November 1, 2009 Quote Also, I think men underestimate how sexy *kissing* is.. I can live with someone who isn't great at oral sex, but a good kisser is a *must*.. It's incredibly hot. Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zep 0 #8 November 1, 2009 Your definition of a good kisser is? I've had one or two parteners and have found over the years that kissing lightly can be incredidbly erotic for both, I favour the light whispy almost butterfly touch with the tongue slowly teasing the erogenous zones, with a new partner I tended to pay attention (one eye watching) the flat of the lower abdomen as the muscle set their is a great give away as to when a woman is about to climax. Gone fishing Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #9 November 1, 2009 Quote Your definition of a good kisser is? I've had one or two parteners and have found over the years that kissing lightly can be incredidbly erotic for both, I favour the light whispy almost butterfly touch with the tongue slowly teasing the erogenous zones, with a new partner I tended to pay attention (one eye watching) the flat of the lower abdomen as the muscle set their is a great give away as to when a woman is about to climax. It's hard to describe.. A good kisser enjoys kissing - it's not just a means to an end (sex).. He can manage a slow, soft kiss, as well as a hard, passionate one.. He uses his warm tongue both delicately and with urging, pressing desire.. He suckles on your lip and teasingly pretends to bite (gently).. He moans softly and runs his hands all over your body whilst locking lips with you and looking deep into your eyes.. He pulls you in like he can't get enough.. He caresses your face, and brushes your hair away from your face.. You can just tell he *wants* you.. He makes your head spin and gets you wet without ever taking your clothes off or even touching anything but the back of your neck.. Mmm.."There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airdvr 210 #10 November 1, 2009 ChubPlease don't dent the planet. Destinations by Roxanne Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #11 November 1, 2009 Quote Chub Hahaha!! Never heard someone post they've gotten a boner from reading something on here... Awesome!! Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #12 November 1, 2009 Quote Quote Chub Hahaha!! Never heard someone post they've gotten a boner from reading something on here... Awesome!! The best part is I was only describing first base!! I probably would have made him blow his load if I'd gone any farther "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airdvr 210 #13 November 1, 2009 Wow!...tough crowd Please don't dent the planet. Destinations by Roxanne Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #14 November 1, 2009 Quote Wow!...tough crowd Don't worry about it.. We all know men like a bit of dirty talk "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SarahC07 0 #15 November 2, 2009 Quote Quote Wow!...tough crowd Don't worry about it.. We all know men like a bit of dirty talk Pretty sure he was referring to the poll outcome. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #16 November 2, 2009 Things to know, What happens in porno movies does not turn your average girl on. Nipples are not rock climbing holds! A clitoris is not some sort of speed bag and should not be treated as such with ones fingers! That "friction" rule is a myth! Some women love sex and some tolerate it the way to tell is to hire a private investigator and sub contract the CIA to figure out all her subtle clues! Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ridestrong 1 #17 November 2, 2009 I know I'm not instinctively good. I just do what I'm told, and I follow directions very well.*I am not afraid of dying... I am afraid of missing life.* ----Disclaimer: I don't know shit about skydiving.---- Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #18 November 2, 2009 Why do I get the feeling that a couple of men voted on this?!! Boys: if you are unhappy with the results, all the more reason to aim toward being included in that exceptional 10%!! I'm not really surprised by the results.. It's a well-known fact that women encourage men in the bedroom in the hopes that a boost in his confidence will help him improve.. Personally, I'm very direct about what I do and don't like - I think it's possible to give constructive criticism without deflating a guy's ego, but if he sucks and you're overly complimentary he's likely to keep doing it badly. "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FreeFlyer2100 0 #19 November 2, 2009 QuotePersonally, I'm very direct about what I do and don't like If you want it done right then this is what it is going to take! If he doesn't listen then think about what else we won't listen to. The flip side of this is true also, if she lies or doesn't tell us what she wants in the bedroom then she won't tell us about what she wants in other areas. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tiger6513 0 #20 November 2, 2009 Thats too bad that most votes are for only 10%... would be much higher if I had more influence here Travis Roy Foundation. At very least its a tax write off Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
warpedskydiver 0 #21 November 2, 2009 I am not saying nothing! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airdvr 210 #22 November 2, 2009 Quote Things to know, What happens in porno movies does not turn your average girl on. Nipples are not rock climbing holds! A clitoris is not some sort of speed bag and should not be treated as such with ones fingers! That "friction" rule is a myth! Some women love sex and some tolerate it the way to tell is to hire a private investigator and sub contract the CIA to figure out all her subtle clues! Everyone's a little different. I've known several women who liked it rough. Included biting, nipple twisting etc...Please don't dent the planet. Destinations by Roxanne Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladydyver 0 #23 November 2, 2009 Quote Quote Also, I think men underestimate how sexy *kissing* is.. I can live with someone who isn't great at oral sex, but a good kisser is a *must*.. It's incredibly hot. a good kiss can go a long way - DPH # 2 "I am not sure what you are suppose to do with that, but I don't think it is suppose to flop around like that." ~Skootz~ I have a strong regard for the rules.......doc! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #24 November 3, 2009 Quote Quote Quote Also, I think men underestimate how sexy *kissing* is.. I can live with someone who isn't great at oral sex, but a good kisser is a *must*.. It's incredibly hot. a good kiss can go a long way - Oh yeah!!! ETA: So glad I have a date tonight. Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
