iluvtofly 0 #1 November 9, 2009 sex in a relationship to you? You meet the greatest person in the world, someone you enjoy spending every moment with. But, they are absolutely terrible in bed. You try talking them through it, telling them what you like, but no change. Do you break it off? Or do you just depend on BOB/Rosy Palm forever to get you through? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
futuredivot 0 #2 November 9, 2009 Respect is the "Air" in a relationship. Communication is the "water". Sex is the "Food". Lack of any of them will kill the relationship but lack of respect or communication will do it faster. Lack of sex takes longer, but in the end it's just as dead. Chapter 8-The Tao of Divot.You are only as strong as the prey you devour Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wildcard451 0 #3 November 9, 2009 QuoteRespect is the "Air" in a relationship. Communication is the "water". Sex is the "Food". Lack of any of them will kill the relationship but lack of respect or communication will do it faster. Lack of sex takes longer, but in the end it's just as dead. Chapter 8-The Tao of Divot. qft Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Deisel 38 #4 November 9, 2009 If there is no sex then it's a deal breaker. I've broken up with a couple of women that did not do oral. But if she's willing to give it the good old college try - then we have something to work with. But I also believe that sex is an extention of a good relantionship anyway. So if the first is good then the other will be as well. If not, then there is something else going on (mental stuff?).The brave may not live forever, but the timid never live at all. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladydyver 0 #5 November 9, 2009 if you aren't being satisfied in every way....you will eventually stray.DPH # 2 "I am not sure what you are suppose to do with that, but I don't think it is suppose to flop around like that." ~Skootz~ I have a strong regard for the rules.......doc! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladydyver 0 #6 November 9, 2009 Quote Respect is the "Air" in a relationship. Communication is the "water". Sex is the "Food". Lack of any of them will kill the relationship but lack of respect or communication will do it faster. Lack of sex takes longer, but in the end it's just as dead. Chapter 8-The Tao of Divot. Divot...i think that is the smartest thing i have ever heard from you.....of course most of the time i talk to you is through bolas.DPH # 2 "I am not sure what you are suppose to do with that, but I don't think it is suppose to flop around like that." ~Skootz~ I have a strong regard for the rules.......doc! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freefallfreak 0 #7 November 9, 2009 Don't go giving him a big head now. Uhh, wait...that didn't sound right. Uhh, don't go inflating his ego. TripleF "Upon seeing the shadow of a pigeon, one must resist the urge to look up." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
virgin-burner 1 #8 November 9, 2009 i think a healthy sexlife in a relationship, just that, healthy; dont think i could go on for too long if that wasnt right.. “Some may never live, but the crazy never die.” -Hunter S. Thompson "No. Try not. Do... or do not. There is no try." -Yoda Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
metalslug 36 #9 November 9, 2009 Sex, as with most other parts of a relationship, should involve a little compromise, which means it might not always be about what you like. For guys to keep in mind is that many really good women are like Italian sports cars, there are some things that you just should not do when 'driving' them. Accept that, or drive something less exotic. It depends on what you're willing to compromise on, I guess. Partners can be 'bad' in bed for different reasons. The only dealbreakers for me (at the moment) are (1) less than once a week (2) unattractive/obese partner. I've been happy for many years with a partner who will not do many things, but that definitely does not mean that Rosy Palm is a better option. To me, she is smokin' hot and then some. That, for me, has made all the difference. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
futuredivot 0 #10 November 9, 2009 Just wanted to toss in that I used "Sex" as a general term for physical intimacy, not strictly intercourse.You are only as strong as the prey you devour Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nerdgirl 0 #11 November 11, 2009 QuoteRespect is the "Air" in a relationship. Communication is the "water". Sex is the "Food". Lack of any of them will kill the relationship but lack of respect or communication will do it faster. Lack of sex takes longer, but in the end it's just as dead. Chapter 8-The Tao of Divot. That's brilliant. /Marg Act as if everything you do matters, while laughing at yourself for thinking anything you do matters. Tibetan Buddhist saying Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RastaRicanAir 0 #12 November 11, 2009 Quotesex in a relationship to you? I've had sexless relationships with many people. It's called "Family". QuoteYou meet the greatest person in the world, someone you enjoy spending every moment with. That's "Friendship" QuoteBut, they are absolutely terrible in bed. ..."Weekend Fling" QuoteYou try talking them through it, telling them what you like, but no change. "Marriage Counseling" QuoteDo you break it off? Or do you just depend on BOB/Rosy Palm forever to get you through? "Prison"OrFunV/LocoBoca Rodriguez/Sonic Grieco/Muff Brother #4411 -"and ladies....messin with Robbie is venturing into territory you cant even imagine!-cuz Robbie is Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #13 November 11, 2009 I voted for "other".. I find it hard to imagine a healthy relationship where the sex is bad. I think great sex is part of a healthy relationship. Furthermore, I find it hard to believe that someone couldn't improve and *become* a good lover.. My worst partner ever turned into my best (well.. technically speaking he was 2nd best, but emotionally definitely number 1). If the guy didn't learn at all, then I think the problem is that he's not trying or not listening.. Unless there is a physical problem. Then my god I don't know what I'd do.. Like if the love-of-my-life *lost* the ability to have sex (by being paralysed or something).. That would be a tough one.."There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bolas 5 #14 November 12, 2009 Quote Quote Respect is the "Air" in a relationship. Communication is the "water". Sex is the "Food". Lack of any of them will kill the relationship but lack of respect or communication will do it faster. Lack of sex takes longer, but in the end it's just as dead. Chapter 8-The Tao of Divot. Divot...i think that is the smartest thing i have ever heard from you.....of course most of the time i talk to you is through bolas. It's good but it doesn't rhyme like yours. Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
