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Nataly

MEN: What's with not calling after sex??

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Edit: Cuz I kept reading and found out Divot beat me to the line.



I ALWAYS get there first-Why? Cuz I don't give a damn.:)
Original Subject---Guys are pretty basic, uncomplicated, and easy to keep happy. If he doesn't call you back it HAS to be because there's something horribly wrong with you. Glad I could clear that up for all the chicks that are trying to shift responsibility.
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OK dumb question.
Do most girls really think that they are really that good so as to warrant a phone call?

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Do guys think they are that good to warrant us answering their calls?!

Why would we want a call back?
We got what we wanted ;)
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Edit: Cuz I kept reading and found out Divot beat me to the line.



I ALWAYS get there first-Why? Cuz I don't give a damn.:)
Original Subject---Guys are pretty basic, uncomplicated, and easy to keep happy. If he doesn't call you back it HAS to be because there's something horribly wrong with you. Glad I could clear that up for all the chicks that are trying to shift responsibility.


First hand experience?:o:P

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Hey Nataly,
I tried to call this morning;
Honest, I really did;
But the call wouldn't go through.[:/]



Aww sweetie.. 1-800-get-bent is not really my number.. :P:D:D


Now guys, you see what happens when we do try to call?

(And yet they complain when we don't...:S)
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First hand experience?



Oh yeah. Not much on the meet/bang/dump in 4 hours or less because any girl that put out that fast scared me and the bad diseases weren't even out back then. But there was more than one girl that didn't rate an after sex call-and probably a few that didn't consider me worth a call either. It's like test driving a car, if you don't like the ride, why waste any time with it. And even if the ride was okay-if you can't afford it and know it, walk away.
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Hey Nataly,
I tried to call this morning;
Honest, I really did;
But the call wouldn't go through.[:/]



Aww sweetie.. 1-800-get-bent is not really my number.. :P:D:D


Now guys, you see what happens when we do try to call?

(And yet they complain when we don't...:S)



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Call me if you're ever in the UK.. I might even be persuaded to give you my real phone number!!! :D:D:D
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Me, I'm old fashioned. Relationships don't start with sex, they start with respect and that starts with self respect. If one does not have that, then one has nothing.

But it sounds to me as though the guy didn't want to "start a relationship." He wanted to get laid.
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Oh my god.. I just got off the phone to my friend who was sobbing because this guy she slept with hasn't called her.. The (shortened) conversation went a little like this:

Her: "was I that bad? Does it mean he thinks I'm ugly?"
Me: "who knows??? Where did you meet?"
Her: "In a pub"
Me: "so he's pretty much a stranger - why are you so upset about it??"
Her: "But surely you would think that is a guy has just had sex with a girl he would want more, so if he doesn't call I must have done something wrong"
Me: "No idea, hun.. None.. He's just some guy - he doesn't even know you and doesn't know what he's passing up.. Try not to get all upset about it ok? It's just not worth it.."

I said something lame to try and make her laugh, but mostly I didn't know what else to say :S..

So guys.. Help me out.. Have you ever had great sex with someone you just met and then not ever called them? Was there a particular reason why you didn't? (I thought she had a fair point.. If the guy knew he could have sex, you actually would think he might call..) Oh dear..

Thoughts?



Chances are he might be married, he already has a girlfriend, he lost her number, the sex wasn't great ... or he just needs a few days to get over the muscle fever and recharge his batteries :P

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I struggled with the same thing as your friend did awhile ago. I had hung out with this guy a few times at a friend's apartment. We had some stuff in common, and he was pretty nice. We ended up making out one of those times (no sex at all), and he asked for my number. It took him about two months to text me. I couldn't for the life of me get it. I'm not saying that I'm the sh*t or anything, but he was, in every aspect, George Costanza (okay, he wasn't balding yet.) I never thought it would turn into a long-term relationship, but I was shocked that he hadn't called.

In general, I don't give out my number/take number from people when the intent is not to use it, so I don't understand people that do. Like most people, I've been on both sides of the fence when it comes to chemistry. I've thought it was great, and they must not have. I thought it was meh, but they thought it was great. Often times it's not due to someone's "skill," it just doesn't click for some reason.
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>I couldn't for the life of me get it....but he was, in every aspect, George Costanza

Looking at your profile I see that your interests are "hookers and blow":D:D

um- call me crazy but that usually scares most of your George Costanza types:P



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