skydiverbry 0 #26 December 16, 2009 West Virginia mostlyBry -------------------------------------------------- Growing old is mandatory.Growing up is optional!! D.S.#13(Dudeist Skdiver) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cheach 0 #27 December 16, 2009 I like in Oklahoma City.... the metro area has well over a million people and we are ranked 31st in city population sin the United States....its not THAT bad.I woke up next to a blowup doll Ash....so what do you think? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mrwrong 0 #28 December 16, 2009 Quote West Virginia mostlyBry Ahaaa... Thanx for enlightening me.... I'm not that familiar with "banjo land" areas in the states.... That's why I was asking... “The sum of intelligence on the planet is a constant; the population is growing.” - George Bernard Shaw He who dies with the most toys, wins..... dudeist skydiver # 19515 Buy quality and cry once! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydiverbry 0 #29 December 16, 2009 You ranked in "sin"?????? Thought that was Las VegasBry -------------------------------------------------- Growing old is mandatory.Growing up is optional!! D.S.#13(Dudeist Skdiver) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mrwrong 0 #30 December 16, 2009 hahahaha..... Just kidding Cheach...“The sum of intelligence on the planet is a constant; the population is growing.” - George Bernard Shaw He who dies with the most toys, wins..... dudeist skydiver # 19515 Buy quality and cry once! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cheach 0 #31 December 16, 2009 haha. some typos rockI woke up next to a blowup doll Ash....so what do you think? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydiverbry 0 #32 December 16, 2009 That was pretty cool....just had to point it outBry -------------------------------------------------- Growing old is mandatory.Growing up is optional!! D.S.#13(Dudeist Skdiver) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #33 December 16, 2009 You're her HUSBAND. You come first. IMHO, when you get married the HUSBAND jumps to the top of the family priority list. And I don't know about your wife, but if I was away from my husband for 3 months... I'd be horny as hell and would be playing Planes, Trains and Automobiles to get my ass home to him FOR some ass. Red flags here, buddy. Good luck.Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydiverbry 0 #34 December 16, 2009 My thoughts too Lucky............... BTW aren't you always horny as hellBry -------------------------------------------------- Growing old is mandatory.Growing up is optional!! D.S.#13(Dudeist Skdiver) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #35 December 16, 2009 Quote My thoughts too Lucky............... BTW aren't you always horny as hellBry WTF? Do I have an obvious libido issue or something?? Seriously, all is GOOD in that department. Iz gotsa new man!! Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydiverbry 0 #36 December 16, 2009 You may have a new man but that doesn't mean you still can't be horny all the timeBry -------------------------------------------------- Growing old is mandatory.Growing up is optional!! D.S.#13(Dudeist Skdiver) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #37 December 16, 2009 Quote You may have a new man but that doesn't mean you still can't be horny all the timeBry Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydiverbry 0 #38 December 16, 2009 ExactlyBry -------------------------------------------------- Growing old is mandatory.Growing up is optional!! D.S.#13(Dudeist Skdiver) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
d_squared431 0 #39 December 16, 2009 First of all you have only been married for 6 months and in that time you were separated for 3. When was the last time she saw her family? Is she closer to where her family is and it is easier for her to go there instead of back to you and then there? I dont see the problem with her going a few days early to see her parents at all. If you are pissy cause you have no one to spend time with while she was training, well that is a bit selfish. You are a grown man so suck it up. Give her this opportunity of being with her family without making her feel guilty. Compromise and communication is your friend.TPM Sister#130ONTIG#1 I love vodka.I love vodka cause it rhymes with Tuaca~LisaH You having a clean thought is like billyvance having a clean post.iluvtofly Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
virgin-burner 1 #40 December 16, 2009 VB aka Dr. Love “Some may never live, but the crazy never die.” -Hunter S. Thompson "No. Try not. Do... or do not. There is no try." -Yoda Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydiverbry 0 #41 December 16, 2009 Ain't that right!Bry-------------------------------------------------- Growing old is mandatory.Growing up is optional!! D.S.#13(Dudeist Skdiver) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
millertimeunc 0 #42 December 16, 2009 A piece of advice for you. However you have to work the situation out, get it done BEFORE pilot training starts. You'd be surprised how often relationship problems are the cause of washouts from UPT. Our only dropout from our class was going through a nasty divorce at the time, and couldn't handle that and the stress of training at the same time. Also (and you've probably already done this), make it very clear to her that while you're in training, it's a lot of give on her part and a lot of take on your part. It sounds selfish, but that's the way it is. Make sure you make it up to her after you're done with UPT. The best things in life are dangerous. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MarkM 0 #43 December 16, 2009 While I think it's true that you're responsible for your own happiness, if your girlfriend/boyfriend doesn't make you happier then it's time to fire them and find one that does. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
twofast 0 #44 December 16, 2009 she would rather see her friends than her new husband that she hasn't seen for 3 months????? bad news. your first mistake was getting married. your second mistake is putting up with this shit. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Heatmiser 0 #45 December 16, 2009 That's Kentucky. What you say is reflective of your knowledge...HOW ya say it is reflective of your experience. Airtwardo Someone's going to be spanked! Hopefully, it will be me. Skymama Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andy0689 0 #46 December 16, 2009 QuoteYou're her HUSBAND. You come first. IMHO, when you get married the HUSBAND jumps to the top of the family priority list. I don't think there are any red flags. Strange? Yes but not horrible. You've been married 6 months and apart for half of that. You haven't replaced her family or friends yet which will take time. When I first got married my wife would talk to her parents a couple of times a week and now it's a couple of times a month. I say enjoy the time now like it's a cash advacne. Just think, you could have gone to your in-laws a whole week early. In about 10 years, the thought of an extra week at the in-laws house is going to make you shudder.Andy I'll believe it when I see it on YouTube! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kmills0705 0 #47 December 16, 2009 We can all only speculate on who is being selfish if anyone at all. The thing is you shouldn't be asking us for our opinion you should be having this conversation with her (in a non-confrontational way). There are so many possibilities but I will throw one more out at you. Maybe her family is putting a lot of pressure for her to go to California immediately. Maybe she is trying to appease them thinking you will understand (have you said it was important to you for her to be with you for the week). Maybe she thinks that since you are working you won't be able to spend a lot of time together anyhow. I don't know... but I do know being a jerk won't help. It's hard when you are pulled in so many directions.Kim Mills USPA D21696 Tandem I, AFF I and Static Line I Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wolfriverjoe 1,523 #48 December 16, 2009 Quote Quote What is exactly in Oklahoma besides tornados Wierd toothless, banjo playing guys???? Or are they mostly found in Alabama??? Kentucky and Tennessee mostly. "There are NO situations which do not call for a French Maid outfit." Lucky McSwervy "~ya don't GET old by being weak & stupid!" - Airtwardo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Misternatural 0 #49 December 16, 2009 >It's hard when you are pulled in so many directions. we can only hope Beware of the collateralizing and monetization of your desires. D S #3.1415 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skyrider 0 #50 December 16, 2009 Put on your man pants and get over it! Seriously though, You will be with her forever, her friends and family are part time...just take it in stride, when you get in your 50's , you will cherish old age together, those friends wont! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
