format 1 #1 February 20, 2010 I've noticed that very few men will commend a fellow guy to a girl when asked. Even when personally interested, I always kinda say what I really think about anybody (I beleive I do :)). What's that about? Are these men selfish or is it some "Alpha Male" delusion or what? I mean, can't have them all, can you? - share'em, put some nice word, may feel good I swear I allways did. This goes for girls too.. or so I heard mean mathertuckersWhat goes around, comes later. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnMitchell 16 #2 February 20, 2010 All's fair in Love and War.Having trouble finding a date for the prom?If you like someone, just let 'em know. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DJL 235 #3 February 21, 2010 Quote I've noticed that very few men will commend a fellow guy to a girl when asked. Even when personally interested, I always kinda say what I really think about anybody (I beleive I do :)). What's that about? Are these men selfish or is it some "Alpha Male" delusion or what? I mean, can't have them all, can you? - share'em, put some nice word, may feel good I swear I allways did. This goes for girls too.. or so I heard mean mathertuckers I reference you to the only indepth conversation men have ever had about a woman: as already posted in BV's thread."I encourage all awesome dangerous behavior." - Jeffro Fincher Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnMitchell 16 #4 February 21, 2010 Quote I've noticed that very few men will commend a fellow guy to a girl when asked. Can't you go up to a girl and recommend yourself? For crying out loud, there's only so much a wing man can do. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
d_squared431 0 #5 February 21, 2010 Quote Quote I've noticed that very few men will commend a fellow guy to a girl when asked. Can't you go up to a girl and recommend yourself? For crying out loud, there's only so much a wing man can do. TPM Sister#130ONTIG#1 I love vodka.I love vodka cause it rhymes with Tuaca~LisaH You having a clean thought is like billyvance having a clean post.iluvtofly Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airtwardo 7 #6 February 21, 2010 Quote What's that about? Are these men selfish or is it some "Alpha Male" delusion or what? It's because we don't wanna have to visit our friends in the hospital when she rips his balls off and shoves 'em up his ass...We try to take care of our own! ~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
format 1 #7 February 21, 2010 wow, Wow, wow! hold your horses you.. you.. wing dudes! I wasn't whining or asking for support, sorry I merely wondered if you experienced the same or similar advent and what do you make of it, like.. is it natural or learned? 'cause if you say it's natural - I must be a freak, if not natural, then there's a Lot of learned freaks around us... and who and why taught them so? I really care about the "little" things What goes around, comes later. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnMitchell 16 #8 February 21, 2010 Well, you were saying something about "mean mathertuckers" or whatever, so it sounded like you were taking something personally. Competition between men for the desirable female is at the heart of much of what we do in life. I don't make the rules, I just play the game. Yes, I'll say nice things about some guy to some girl, but I'm totally happily married. If I was single and making a play for the girl, I'd be saying nice things about me to that girl, and forget old what's-his-name. Does that answer your question? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
format 1 #9 February 21, 2010 Head shot! That's why I'm not married! o.k., that privilege aside (not being married), "in love and war" stuff doesn't feel right to me, ever. And, somehow, I don't buy especially your attitude on 'life-heart-competition-never-mind-how" You are a good guy (ask men around) I am not a kissass (ask men around) Being helpful feels very right in oppose to being low, scum (I guess now) So how would you know why scum does it? My question is whether they learned it from father or friends or is it really in 'normal' people's coreWhat goes around, comes later. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites