SivaGanesha 2 #51 July 29, 2010 QuoteHe may not realise he has crossed the line... In which case he doesn't deserve to be called creepy. Talk about it with him face to face."It's hard to have fun at 4-way unless your whole team gets down to the ground safely to do it again!"--Northern California Skydiving League re USPA Safety Day, March 8, 2014 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #52 July 29, 2010 QuoteQuoteHe may not realise he has crossed the line... In which case he doesn't deserve to be called creepy. Talk about it with him face to face. I agree, but my point was that it's likely that he actually does realise he has crossed the line... ETA: Either way, you're right - worth talking to him about it."There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SivaGanesha 2 #53 July 29, 2010 Quote I've been going to a new pain management doctor for a couple months, a total of about 4 visits so far. At the end of every appointment, even after the first one, he puts his arms out to give me a big ol' hug. Now, I'm as huggy as the next person with my friends and family, but my doctor doing this creeps me out a little! What do you think? Would you be ok with your doctor doing that? I'm sorry folks but I'm voting with the minority on this one. This doctor may have crossed a line but nothing that has been said suggests that this is anything other than an honest misunderstanding. If he's a good doctor, apart from this misunderstanding, and if his hugs have been friendly, not romantic advances, then there's no reason to believe he is being creepy. A 30-second conversation with this man should resolve the problem. If a word to the wise doesn't fix the problem, or if there is more to the story than we've been told, then I'd be willing to reconsider my vote. But right now that's how I see this one. "It's hard to have fun at 4-way unless your whole team gets down to the ground safely to do it again!"--Northern California Skydiving League re USPA Safety Day, March 8, 2014 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
