billvon 3,107 #101 September 3, 2010 >the 'right girl' be the perfect girl... Own your own ball gag! When the alternative is to use someone else's? Ew. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Southern_Man 0 #102 September 3, 2010 Quote Legal fees bro....legal fees have killed me this year. This divorce has thus far cost me $3k 3k? 3k in legal fees and you are complaining that is killing you? Shit 3k barely got me in the door."What if there were no hypothetical questions?" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #103 September 3, 2010 Quote Quote Legal fees bro....legal fees have killed me this year. This divorce has thus far cost me $3k 3k? 3k in legal fees and you are complaining that is killing you? Shit 3k barely got me in the door. I was thinking the same thing. A member of my family had to pay a $25k retainer to ever get the ball rolling. Cheaper to keep her?? Hmmmm....Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
normiss 891 #104 September 3, 2010 My retirement fund, $20k in cash, time with my kids. I did get a recliner and a TV though. Oh and $2k a month in child support. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Southern_Man 0 #105 September 3, 2010 My total legal fees were under 25k, but they were a lot closer to 25k then they were to 3k."What if there were no hypothetical questions?" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JerryBaumchen 1,463 #106 September 3, 2010 Hi Lucky, Quote Cheaper to keep her?? Financially: Maybe Emotionally: NO!!! Mine cost $50k to law firms. JerryBaumchen Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Southern_Man 0 #107 September 3, 2010 Quote Hi Lucky, Quote Cheaper to keep her?? Financially: Maybe Emotionally: NO!!! Mine cost $50k to law firms. JerryBaumchen Hi Jerry, Why is divorce so expensive? Because it's worth it!!! "What if there were no hypothetical questions?" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #108 September 3, 2010 Quote Hi Lucky, Quote Cheaper to keep her?? Financially: Maybe Emotionally: NO!!! Mine cost $50k to law firms. JerryBaumchen Dayum!!! And that's why my exHusband and I ended up working out the divorce details ourselves. He saved a TON of cash on legal fees seeing things my way. And I agree about "emotionally"...Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #109 September 3, 2010 Quote My retirement fund, $20k in cash, time with my kids. I did get a recliner and a TV though. Oh and $2k a month in child support. Slacker. I would loved a recliner. I only got the two folding lawn chairs. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Arvoitus 1 #110 September 3, 2010 Quote Quote Quote Legal fees bro....legal fees have killed me this year. This divorce has thus far cost me $3k 3k? 3k in legal fees and you are complaining that is killing you? Shit 3k barely got me in the door. I was thinking the same thing. A member of my family had to pay a $25k retainer to ever get the ball rolling. Cheaper to keep her?? Hmmmm.... With the BS no-fault divorce there is nothing a man can do to stop a divorce from happening. 54% of marriages end in divorce and over 70% of them are initiated by the woman, most of the time because she is bored of her husband. The dumbest thing a man can do nowadays is to get married.Your rights end where my feelings begin. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skymama 37 #111 September 3, 2010 Quote With the BS no-fault divorce there is nothing a man can do to stop a divorce from happening. 54% of marriages end in divorce and over 70% of them are initiated by the woman, most of the time because she is bored of her husband. Maybe the men should stop being so boring then. She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man, because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
normiss 891 #112 September 3, 2010 I'll show you not boring! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
normiss 891 #113 September 3, 2010 "You never really know a woman. Until you meet her in court." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #114 September 3, 2010 Quote "You never really know a woman. Until you meet her in court." Then men should keep their cocks in their shorts for any whore that isn't their wife, KWIM? Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kasch 0 #115 September 3, 2010 Reminds me of that saying....freak in the sheets, lady in the streetsSex with sith is like sex with a stripper. A lot of flashing lights and waving of glowing sabers, but in the end you end up with something dark and wrinkely. DPH# "-13" TSK# "-13" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #116 September 3, 2010 Yeah all the above...."NOT THE RIGHT GIRL!" There is no greater turn off then an acid sarcasm. No for me $3k is a bit of cash. My condo set me back $300k and my $100k just about covers that. I'm not left with huge sums of money after i pay for the condo and the basics. So $3k is quite a bit to me. But will I ever get married again? Sure I would love to! Will I be as loving and giving to my next wife as I was to my X wife? Sadly no. I gave all I could give and was burned by it so next time.......if i'm lucky to have a next time........no. I will not do all the cooking and cleaning and I'm sure as shit not paying for any ones education again. Unconditional love comes around once and if it burns you....well.....why risk again?Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
normiss 891 #117 September 3, 2010 In my case, the shoe was on the other foot. I'm not the one caught in bed with three other people. At the same time. Hence my whole "sharing is icky" thing. Skeevy. Cooties. Icky. Divorced in 1989. Still happy about it too!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #118 September 3, 2010 Quote In my case, the shoe was on the other foot. I'm not the one caught in bed with three other people. At the same time. Hence my whole "sharing is icky" thing. Skeevy. Cooties. Icky. Divorced in 1989. Still happy about it too!!!! Dayum!!! Isn't that called a "pressure test"? Sorry, had to!! That does suck though!!Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
normiss 891 #119 September 3, 2010 I thought it was an "airtight". Either way - it's a slut! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
normiss 891 #120 September 3, 2010 Your bitterness will cost you relationships. You have to let go fully for a relationship to work. Good luck telling your next girl there are limits to you feelings and dedication to the relationship. Like I know what the fuck I'm talking about... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #121 September 3, 2010 Quote I thought it was an "airtight". Either way - it's a slut! Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #122 September 3, 2010 Quote Quote I thought it was an "airtight". Either way - it's a slut! It does sound like she had an airtight case . . .sorry - Had to.,I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #123 September 3, 2010 Quote Divorced in 1989. Still happy about it too!!!! That is the basic confusion that women have now. Most men are willing to have a great relationship, but no interest in marriage. Really great women don't care about marriage anyway. They realize that the guy will always be there because of the excellent way that they are treated. That is the test of honesty. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
normiss 891 #124 September 3, 2010 Hoochie Mama Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #125 September 4, 2010 Quote Like I know what the fuck I'm talking about... I know bro, and I did a lot for my X wife. Like I said from cooking and cleaning and taking care of the house so she could just focus on her studies to just on any given day showing up with flowers at her office. All really nice things to do if you really love someone. BUT.....eventually she became a spoiled brat and started seeing me more as a butler than her husband and well....when I put my foot down and said "No we are partners in life...." things hit the fan. The next girl? She will have to cook dinner at least once a week and put away her own clothes! But who knows right?Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
