Nataly 38 #151 November 20, 2010 Quote Call him. Talk. His text is no indication of anything wrong. Just like when your phone was off, he may think you are not very interested. Freakin communicate! Yes, you're totally right, but I'm not sure how to approach this one. The main thing is we're in different countries. And either way you look at it to pursue it I would have to travel back to Moroco. And I just don't want to feel like a massive ass by chasing this boy if he is not interested!!! I think I will give it a couple of weeks and see how I feel. If it's still bugging me I will give him a call, I think. Edit: one of the trekkers just sent me this picture of us. If nothing else, it's a lovely souvenir.."There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skyrider 0 #152 November 20, 2010 Quote I hope we get to see you again in Moroco. WE??? red flag red flag! Here is another Red Flag, "Mohamed"....have you seen the rights of Muslim women? Fugdat... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #153 November 20, 2010 Quote Quote I hope we get to see you again in Moroco. WE??? red flag red flag! Here is another Red Flag, "Mohamed"....have you seen the rights of Muslim women? Fugdat... Yes, I know. They have more rights in Moroco since 2009, but nothing like Western women.."There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TriGirl 343 #154 November 20, 2010 Quote Call him. Talk. His text is no indication of anything wrong. Just like when your phone was off, he may think you are not very interested. Freakin communicate! +1. Instead of all or nothing, get to know the guy. He didn't ask you to marry him -- he asked you to spend some more time together. I would also say that considering his culture and Bayram holiday, he was being respectful both to you and to his family. Bayram holiday (esp time away from work/with family) lasts about a week.See the upside, and always wear your parachute! -- Christopher Titus Shut Up & Jump! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amazon 7 #155 November 20, 2010 Quote Quote Quote Hate to say it Nataly,but you have been 'enjoying' one of the classics... This guy is a professional tour guide - it's the same story as the skydiving/ski/scuba instructor in the exotic location - they enjoy the challenge/conquest (however far it goes) and then move on. As should you. Respectfully Ivan I'm gonna agree with that. The "professional tour guide" who probably does this sort of thing on a regular basis is a total cliche, but in this case I think it's true. And thanks for the new sigline, Lucky! Yeah, I agree - I was cringing the whole time I was writing it up!! Still, to me it seems like a whole lot of unnecessary sweet-talk.. Why beg me to stay right up until I left him at the airport, for instance? Like I said.. For all I know, it's a cultural thing. But yeah.. It's just too cliche, isn't it? As for the "we" bit.. Yes, I thought "red flag" as well, but he wrote the text in French and the whole text is FULL of grammatical / spelling mistakes, so what exactly he meant is anyone's guess. (French is only one of like 5 languages he speaks..) Anyway, it was a lovely memory - one I'm not keen to tarnish by chasing after a guy who isn't genuinely interested. Use of Royal "WE" not good Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andy9o8 2 #156 November 20, 2010 Yo, Nat. It took you till post #142 to give us crucial facts - like cultures and nations of residence! - we should have had in the OP. We're your therapists. We can't help you if you don't give us the facts. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #157 November 20, 2010 Quote Yo, Nat. It took you till post #142 to give us crucial facts - like cultures and nations of residence! - we should have had in the OP. We're your therapists. We can't help you if you don't give us the facts. Yeah, well it just all sounds so cliche I was a little embarrased, actually! "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #158 November 21, 2010 QuoteHe was totally respectful and didn't even try anything. We talked and talked and we curled up together around 4am finally but even though I was exhausted I couldn't sleep a wink. When I meet someone I feel so connected to, and if we do the big spoon/little spoon thing, that's the only time I can sleep feeling safe and content. Quote(in French) "Hi Natalie. Hope everything is well with you sorry if I didn't send a message earlier but I didn't have time because I went back to my family for the [religious] holiday. Thank you for your email I hope we get to see you again in Moroco. Thank you for the nice moments we spent [together]. Take care Mohamed." Playa, playa... and I'm not talking about a beach. QuoteHe practically begged me to move to Moroco to be with him (seriously, he did) and 5 days later he writes that???? It doesn't fit. Those tour guides are professional flirts. He knows you are on vacation and everything always sounds so awesome when you're in vacation mode. I think he totally played with the babe in the woods side of your personality. UGH. I'm sorry chica...Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #159 November 21, 2010 Quote And thanks for the new sigline, Lucky! Well it's true. Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Squeak 17 #160 November 21, 2010 Quote Quote Yo, Nat. It took you till post #142 to give us crucial facts - like cultures and nations of residence! - we should have had in the OP. We're your therapists. We can't help you if you don't give us the facts. Yeah, well it just all sounds so cliche I was a little embarrased, actually! As well you should beYou are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky) My Life ROCKS! How's yours doing? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #161 November 21, 2010 Quote Quote Quote Yo, Nat. It took you till post #142 to give us crucial facts - like cultures and nations of residence! - we should have had in the OP. We're your therapists. We can't help you if you don't give us the facts. Yeah, well it just all sounds so cliche I was a little embarrased, actually! As well you should be I don't really know why you read any of my threads - you seem to find fault with anything I write anyway."There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Squeak 17 #162 November 21, 2010 Quote Quote Quote Quote Yo, Nat. It took you till post #142 to give us crucial facts - like cultures and nations of residence! - we should have had in the OP. We're your therapists. We can't help you if you don't give us the facts. Yeah, well it just all sounds so cliche I was a little embarrased, actually! As well you should be I don't really know why you read any of my threads - you seem to find fault with anything I write anyway. Hmmm wonder why that might beYou are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky) My Life ROCKS! How's yours doing? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #163 November 21, 2010 Quote Quote Quote Quote Quote Yo, Nat. It took you till post #142 to give us crucial facts - like cultures and nations of residence! - we should have had in the OP. We're your therapists. We can't help you if you don't give us the facts. Yeah, well it just all sounds so cliche I was a little embarrased, actually! As well you should be I don't really know why you read any of my threads - you seem to find fault with anything I write anyway. Hmmm wonder why that might be We don't. She must have turned you down somewhere along the lines.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Squeak 17 #164 November 21, 2010 Quote Yeah, well it just all sounds so cliche I was a little embarrased, actually! As well you should beI don't really know why you read any of my threads - you seem to find fault with anything I write anyway. Hmmm wonder why that might beWe don't. She must have turned you down somewhere along the lines. yea that would be it, well done turtle your insight is astounding. It wouldn't have anything to do with the constant "woe is me what should i do threads" that she very regularly posts.You are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky) My Life ROCKS! How's yours doing? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #165 November 21, 2010 Quote Quote Yeah, well it just all sounds so cliche I was a little embarrased, actually! As well you should be I don't really know why you read any of my threads - you seem to find fault with anything I write anyway. Hmmm wonder why that might beWe don't. She must have turned you down somewhere along the lines. yea that would be it, well done turtle your insight is astounding. It wouldn't have anything to do with the constant "woe is me what should i do threads" that she very regularly posts. Not until after she turned you down like so many others here.. . . but to your credit, not ALL of them turned you down, did they?I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Squeak 17 #166 November 22, 2010 Quote Not until after she turned you down like so many others here.. . . but to your credit, not ALL of them turned you down, did they? you're persistant ill give you that, you have been running that line for more than 2 years. Time to get more creative mate,You are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky) My Life ROCKS! How's yours doing? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #167 November 22, 2010 Quote She must have turned you down somewhere along the lines. No woman would turn down Squeak. He's a cutie!! Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #168 November 22, 2010 Quote Quote She must have turned you down somewhere along the lines. No woman would turn down Squeak. He's a cutie!! You'd be surprised at how many people take marriage seriously.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #169 November 22, 2010 Quote Quote Quote She must have turned you down somewhere along the lines. No woman would turn down Squeak. He's a cutie!! You'd be surprised at how many people take marriage seriously. That's a good thing. Fidelity and trust is sexy!! Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #170 November 22, 2010 Quote Quote Quote Quote She must have turned you down somewhere along the lines. No woman would turn down Squeak. He's a cutie!! You'd be surprised at how many people take marriage seriously. That's a good thing. Fidelity and trust is sexy!! I noticed you didn't mention Cute . . .I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,590 #171 November 22, 2010 Quote Fidelity and trust is sexy!! So Charlie Sheen isn't sexy?"There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airtwardo 7 #172 November 22, 2010 Fidelity and trust is sexy!! After Lorena Bobbitt it's also SMART! ~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #173 November 22, 2010 Quote Quote Fidelity and trust is sexy!! So Charlie Sheen isn't sexy? Yucky. He scares the hell outta me.Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
d_squared431 0 #174 November 22, 2010 Quote Quote Quote Fidelity and trust is sexy!! So Charlie Sheen isn't sexy? Yucky. He scares the hell outta me. plus +1TPM Sister#130ONTIG#1 I love vodka.I love vodka cause it rhymes with Tuaca~LisaH You having a clean thought is like billyvance having a clean post.iluvtofly Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #175 November 22, 2010 Quote Quote Quote Quote Fidelity and trust is sexy!! So Charlie Sheen isn't sexy? Yucky. He scares the hell outta me. plus +1 I feel like I gotta run to the gyno for a STD test and antibiotics when I see him on television. How can a guy like him NOT have something catchy???!!!Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
